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Truth or PeoplePleaser?Monday, August 23, 2010
I was on the topic of my weight loss and how I was finally beginning to feel better about the effectiveness of food tracking over a 6-day period. In the process, I said to my friend (and relation) that I was happy to no longer be morbidly obese. And with my last BMI check just under 30, I was more in the "overweight" bracket versus the "obese" one. Nevertheless, I'm still fat. Then I said the cruel truth, that "we're both fat." Her immediate response was one of shock, whereas I immediately followed by a sorry and second sorry for revealing what I felt was a truth. She was in disbelief (backing up words from her medical doctor that she was doing well) and hurt. I pray that this may lead to one of those "ah hah" moments that results in both of us making healthier food decisions. ![]()
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EJOY-EVELYN
9/17/2010 1:46AM
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Found this journaling aid in a SparkPeople email received on July 27: The dangers of people pleasing No matter how hard you try, no matter how many hours you spend pondering and planning, and regardless of how hard you try, you absolutely cannot please everyone. It is impossible. So do yourself a favor and stop now, before you drive yourself farther toward insanity. There are many drawbacks to being a people-pleaser. A big one is that you often put yourself in a position of subservience. Sometimes you even put yourself last, which helps no one. Remember that helping yourself and doing what you feel is important should be valued. Find worth in your own opinions and viewpoint, and don't let your desire to please others compel you to keep yourself in the background. Falling short of perfection only proves that you are a normal human being. Report Inappropriate Comment |


I'm motivated by other positive people. SparkPeople is a great resource for finding the most positive pe0ple I know. Do you have a favorite activity, visual, scent, or word(s) that help you stay 0n track towards that healthier lifestyle you've come to know? If so, please share. Thanks!
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Paradise is Calling!
I am so lovin' my home away from home today! $20 at the farmer’s market today brought me a taste of freggies heaven: 4.5 lbs tomatoes, 1 lb green beans, potatoes (Idaho, red, and sweet), 2 bunches of asparagus, 3 red sweet peppers, 6 medium zucchini, 9 oz fresh bean sprouts and a small to medium sized watermelon.
One free parking spot also provides me a delightful waterfront walk along the Caloosahatchee River . . . just a few miles up from the mouth of the Gulf of Mexico. This water girl and freggies queen truly is feeling heavenly today.
The snow in my northland home cannot leave soon enough, as we’re been in yet another winter storm watch. Yikes! This is how I left the DLH Airport (the old terminal has been raised for removal):
Don't get me wrong, I love all four seasons, but I can also appreciate the paradise my newly met SparkFriends (FloridaSun and ZellaZM below) live in and Birthday Bear (BevieAnn) enjoys while visiting Hawaii.
May you find joy in this day and every day. What is bringing you great joy these days?


VISUALLYRICS
12/10/2011 10:06AM
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EJOY-EVELYN
12/10/2011 9:24AM
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Spark Healthy Reflections 12/10/11: People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing--that's why we recommend it daily. - Zig Ziglar, motivational speaker What do you do to motivate yourself? Makes sense doesn't it? The secret to staying consistent with your goals is to stay motivated. That means finding ways to fire yourself up on a daily basis. Being inspired at a seminar, by reading a book, or while talking to a dynamic speaker is easy. But what happens when you're on your own? To follow through on that burst of motivation and reach the finish line, you need regular booster shots. Give yourself those little positive reminders that you have an important job to do and a good reason for doing it. What's pushing you? Surround yourself with visual, verbal, and physical "pep talks" that trigger that motive. It doesn't take long for dust to gather on your momentum, making your goals turn stale. A daily dose of motivation kicks off the dust before it can settle and gives you a fresh, clean start. Report Inappropriate Comment |


EJOY-EVELYN
10/7/2009 4:42PM
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I find that visiting a State Park or getting out of the house to make a difference in someone elses life gets my mind off food and adds to a more positive state of mind. I also enjoy being in learning situtions (professional and persional development). Today, I met with a group who are working on a benefit dinner to help with the medical finances of a friend. Yesterday, I partipated with a Missions Group whose goal is to serve the greater communty . . . we later broke bread together with a wonderful pot luck dinner.
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LORABASHAM
9/4/2009 6:49PM
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I don't know about a word but I think about my wedding dress that I want to get back into.
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