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Don is coming home today!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008


Don and I have only been married for 8 1/2 years now. He is such a stable part of my life. I have to sit back and count the many blessings God has brought to me and he is one. I still remember how he asked me to marry him: "Mary is God talking to you about us?" To be honest I didn't want to say anything, because God was talking to me, but I wanted him to say it first.

It took around 5 minutes of saying to him that you don't want to know what God is saying, until I said, "God said we are going to be husband and wife." He said right back, "That's what God is saying to me, so let's get married." It was Christmas day 1999. You remember Y2K? So Don said to me, "Hey wouldn't it be cool to get married on Y2K?"

O.K. I said back, but in my mind I thought he must be crazy. Goes from not even giving me a hint that God was talking to him to saying let's get married next week.

Thank God it took longer to work out the logistics of getting married in Tanzania. We had to get permission from the Embassy and post our intention to marry in a public place for 21 days. (That is just in case there is some Masaai man who claims he paid 10 cows for me.)

We got married by the pastor of the church we were going to. Then we went to Zanzibar for our first 3 weeks of married life. The first week was a honeymoon. The next 2 weeks were ministry work. Just happened to have a ministry outreach planed in January 2000. It was very hot and we only had a comfortable room the first week we were there. It was just a little crazy, but now we can laugh when we think about the time in Zanzibar.

I cried when I found out that Don had to stay with the trucks and wait for customs to clear them before he could come home. I was such a wreck for those 2 weeks we were apart.

Don is also one of my fitness cheerleaders. He has either made or bought everything I need to get fit. When I told him I wanted to lift weights, he made me a weight bench and machine very similar to the Bow flex (Chuck Norris). He has fixed and made things work that should have been buried. I wear out fitness machines. I wore out my eliptical machine and stair stepper. Don fixed the eliptical machine many times and finally it was replaced by a spin cycle. I love my spin cycle and don is happy to have something easier to fix.

Don loves me just as I am, but also knows that my goal to get fit is important to both of us.

We are called together to serve Tanzania. It becomes more and more clear why God put us together. Every good and perfect gift comes down from the Father of Lights. He gave me to Don. I am so happy he is coming home today!
Mary

  
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*DMARIE* 8/3/2008 5:09PM

    That's a great picture of you both. What a blessing you and he have each other.

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TRACYZABELLE 7/30/2008 12:17AM

    Look at that adorable couple! You two are so well matched.
TracYZ

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ANGELBELIEVER 7/29/2008 1:41PM

    Dear Mary, What a beautiful story that proves God is a matchmaker! Enjoy your reunion with the love of your life.

I believe he put my DH and I together as well. It'll be 29 years on Christmas Eve. He proposed to me on Thanksgiving Eve and we were married 4 weeks later! What a whirlwind, but what fun as well.

I wish only continued happiness and blessings for you and Don. I feel sorry for those who don't know the kind of happiness a marriage can bring when God is at the helm! emoticon

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CJSTRIP 7/29/2008 12:17PM

    I hope you both enjoy some down time together - isn't it nice once in a while to remember why we love our guys so much???

Enjoy!!!!

CJ

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GMWAITE 7/29/2008 8:55AM

    So happy for you! Have a wonderful reunion with your dear husband, my friend.

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CAROLYN0107 7/29/2008 7:28AM

    Mary, how ROMANTIC. Thanks for sharing your story of how Don proposed to you. Let me tell you what we singles say. Remember, I live in Africa, in the jungle. When there is a full moon out here it really lights up the sky because there aren't many other lights around. We singles refer to a full mooned night as a "ROTIC" night.
What is a "ROTIC" night? It is a night without a "MAN"!

Nuf said....... emoticon

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LUV-BEING-NANA 7/29/2008 7:26AM

    God has blessed you Mary with a wonderful husband. Our men are gifts from the creator and it is a blessing! Thanks for sharing!
In Him,
Michelle


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My Dad

Monday, July 28, 2008


This is a photo of my Dad, his wife Paulette, and 14 year old brother- Nick. That's right I have a brother who is 30 years younger than me. I also have a brother who is 13 years older than me. That means my dad has been fathering children for a long time.

Dad and I don't have the best of relationships, but I am working on it. He is a very cranky man and does try, but didn't really know how to show love to us. I thank God that he was able to kick alcohol addiction. He was not a pleasant man to be around.

He is a perfectionist. He was an athletic coach at our Catholic school when I was there. Trust me, you don't want your perfectionist father as the coach when you are trying to finally do something athletic.

My first experience under my father's coaching, was my last. I am super sensitive and when I was running a lap around the track my dad was calling me, "Thunder Thighs". I should have learned the gift of turning those digs into compliments. Yes, I have very muscular legs. Always have and always will. I will never have bird legs like my dad- that's what my mom called them.

The hardest thing I had to do with the relationship was to release the disappointment and resentments that I had against him. He will never be that Father Knows Best style person. I learned that his family growing up was not an affectionate type family. My oldest brother helped me by letting me know that Dad did the best with what he had.

I noticed a much more mellow version of my Dad this year. He didn't tell me to stop laughing at the dinner table and he actually showed what for him was affection. He gave me his old Bible from our days in Kansas City. That was around the time that the Charasmatic movement started in the 70's. He was trying to salvage the marriage to my mom and get off alcohol. He did one of the above.

I do love my dad. I love the Bible. It almost looks new. I know my perfectionist Dad would be mortified to see that I actually use my Bibles. No shelve sitting for it. It is a reminder of the turbulent, but memorable time of my life.

So there you have it. My Dad.
Mary

  
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KRZYKAT3 7/28/2008 10:00PM

    Mary, So glad you are resolving your issues and can find a way to be closer with your father. Cherish each moment you can get. My father died 30 years ago, we still miss him! emoticon

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TRACYZABELLE 7/28/2008 4:11PM

    How awesome that you can be closer to your dad. I LOVE the realtionship I have with my dad, he is great. As we age and see our dad's change, it is interesting... their stress level goes down as they age so they mellow out... it is cool.
TracYZ

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ANGELBELIEVER 7/28/2008 3:29PM

    Mary, Thanks for sharing your heart message about your Father. I am glad your relationship is getting better. WOW, that was a lot of affection for your Dad to give you that Bible. May God continue to help you with healing that relationship. emoticon

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CJSTRIP 7/28/2008 11:14AM

    Mary - It sounds like you took a similar journey to get to a healthier place like I have with my mother...once you can release what you WANTED them to act/look like, the relationship is easier to grow...

CJ

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CAROLYN0107 7/28/2008 9:55AM

    Thanks so much for sharing Mary. I'm the oldest of five kids with a 15 year difference between me and my youngest brother. I was working at the hospital as a volunteer when David was born. I found out I had my FORTH brother through a little piece of paper that came through the messengers' desk! At 14, (15 the next month) I was too young to visit my Mom on the Maternity ward. Back then visitors had to be at least 16 years old, even volunteers like I was.
I'm glad that you and your Dad are mending your relationship. That's good news.

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GMWAITE 7/28/2008 8:27AM

    Gosh, Mary. Don't you wish we were able to appreciate our parents when we were young. Whether it was their flaws or our youth, it seems like we all miss out on that. Glad to hear you are on the road to recovering your relationship with your Dad.

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LUV-BEING-NANA 7/28/2008 8:03AM

    I so appreciate you sharing a piece of your heart. We all have those painful places from our growing up years, don't we? Mary, you are a strong woman with a compassionate heart. The Lord used those moments in time that you just shared with us, to mold you into the person He wants you to be, to turn them around to be usable in His kingdom. He always gives beauty for ashes...what a blessing. Again, thank you for sharing more of who you are with us.
In Him,
Michelle


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My Fat Jeans!

Friday, July 25, 2008


It was the beginning of 2003 that I really started to think about my weight more seriously. I would turn 40 that year. I started to eat differently and exercise.

I only saved 1 pair of my fat jeans. It is my belief that you should try not to hang on to the big sizes, or you will have something to go back to. One day I found my fat jeans and put them on. I was so surprized at how big they were. I thought about the fact that there used to be flesh filling up the jeans and now there was a bunch of air.

I still have a little ways to go before I am back to the weight in this photo, but I know I will get there. I am not quitting. I chose to press on and get the surgery weight off.

Thank you to all my friends who are here to help me along.
Mary

  
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MAGIEDEN 7/28/2008 12:48PM

    Wow, you have come along way! emoticonon your weight loss thus far.

I think I would like to keep just one pear of jeans to see how far I've come. I don't know maybe!

Maggie

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KAYO17 7/27/2008 10:24PM

    emoticon emoticonWow, that's fantastic! Another encouraging visual aid to help you press on towards your goal- congratulations on how far you've come!

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*DMARIE* 7/26/2008 10:57PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon You've accomplished so much. You're doing great! emoticon

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PRPLKATJ 7/26/2008 10:02PM

    What an inspiration you are!!!!!!

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MAJORMOM7 7/26/2008 9:54AM

    that is great keep up the good work emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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HEATHERHUSKER 7/25/2008 9:29PM

    Awesome post.
I am going to have to mark your page as a favorite.
Congrats on all of your accomplishments. emoticon

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GMWAITE 7/25/2008 8:33PM

    Whoa, MAMA!!! How cool is THAT!!

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ANGELBELIEVER 7/25/2008 3:15PM

    WOW Mary, How wonderful to see how much you have lost. It must have been a wonderful feeling for you to put those o n and see how BIG there were on you now. Nothing can stop you reaching your goal. I know you will do this because you so want to! emoticon

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SHADOWGHOSTY 7/25/2008 10:29AM

    emoticon How Exciting! Congratulations! emoticon

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LUV-BEING-NANA 7/25/2008 8:32AM

    Wow!! That is awesome! Mary, anytime you feel discouraged...dig those out and put them on!! What an accomplishment! Keep it up!

In Him,
Michelle
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CAROLYN0107 7/25/2008 6:31AM

    Mary, I'm so impressed! You are an inspiration to me!
Yes, you are right, you WILL GET THAT SURGERY WEIGHT OFF!!!!!

Go MARY! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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Before Photo December 2003

Friday, July 25, 2008


I just thought you might want to see what I looked like many years ago. It is amazing how much my body has changed in these last 5 years. Thank God I have 80 pounds less to carry around.
Mary

  
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NETPASSONS 7/26/2008 12:36AM

    Wow ! You have come along way !!!! Keep up the great work on yourself and for the Lord..

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LUV-BEING-NANA 7/25/2008 8:33AM

    You've come a long way baby!
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My Great Reward

Thursday, July 24, 2008


My Great Reward, by Mary Bryant

He is my great reward. People spend their whole lives in pursuit of things. These things are fleeting. They pursue the love of others. They look for financial security. The pursuit of most people is that of pleasure, but without the foundation of Christ, they are only chasing shadows.

Genesis 15:1, “After these things the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision saying, “Do not be afraid Abram. I am your shield, your exceedingly great reward.”

Ps. 43:4, “Then I will go to the altar of God, to God my exceeding joy;

Deuteronomy 10:9, “Therefore Levi has no portion nor inheritance with his brethren; the Lord is his inheritance, just as the Lord your God promised him.”

I would rather have the Lord as my inheritance than inherit the riches of mankind. The riches of this world are fading away. They are only temporary, but the inheritance of the Lord is eternal.

1 Peter 1:4, “to an inheritance incorruptible and undefiled and that does not fade away, reserved in heaven for you”
2 Peter 1:4, “by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.”

Matthew 6:19,20, “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

1 Kings 3:5-15, Solomon asked the Lord for a hearing heart. He wanted discernment. That was why he was also granted riches. We are not to put the pursuit of other things above the pursuit of Him.

Psalm 84:10-12, “For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand. I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of wickedness. For the Lord God is a sun and shield; The Lord will give grace and glory; No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. O Lord of hosts, Blessed is the man who trusts in You!

Matthew 6:25-33, “Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how thy grow; they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all in glory was not arrayed like one of these. Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, o you of little faith? Therefore do not worry, saying “What shall we eat? What shall we drink? Or “What shall we wear?” For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

Luke 10:38-42, “Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word. But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, “ Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.” And Jesus answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is NEEDED, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

One thing is NEEDED: To sit at His feet. We must learn to receive from him. We need to learn to hear. So many of us ask the Lord to bless what we are doing. We need to first hear what the Lord is directing us to do.

Jesus never asks us to do something He didn’t do Himself. He was the perfect example.
John 8:28&29, “Then Jesus said to them, “When you life up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am He, and that I do nothing of Myself; but as My Father taught Me, I speak these things. And He who sent Me is with Me. The Father has not left Me alone, for I always do those things that please Him.
God spoke a word to me last week concerning worship. Worship means that we trust God to take care of us. Worry is not part of the equation. We must cast every care on Him in order to really worship. Worship and worry cannot mix. It is like water and oil. They are incompatible. Worship is an act of trust. He brings us to the revelation of His omnipotence. He reveals His love. We then know that it will all turn out for good, because God is good.

  
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*DMARIE* 7/26/2008 10:54PM

    Thank you so much for posting this, Mary. My husband has been out of work, and now we have more medical bills. I spend so much time worrying, and I need to stop.

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TRACYZABELLE 7/24/2008 11:45PM

    sometimes in our busy lives we forget to thank..... especially to thank God, for each day we are given. Thank you for reminding us how important faith is!

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KAYO17 7/24/2008 12:45PM

    Thank you for the WONDERFUL devotional - what a great reminder of what is truly important! It is so easy in this day and age...and being the sinful person that I am..to slowly lose focus off my Redeemer and onto temporal things.

I am an exceedingly rich person- but not in the way the world thinks. My riches were not saved or earned but, rather, given to me SOLELY based on God's amazing gift of grace.

"For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich." 2 Corinthians 8:9

Who needs temporal riches when eternal riches are given to us freely? Amen?

"Come, all you who are thirsty, come to the waters;
and you who have no money, come, buy and eat!
Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost.
Why spend money on what is not bread, and your labor
on what does not satisfy?
Listen, listen to me, and eat what is good,
and your soul will delight in the richest of fare." Isaiah 55:1-2

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BEAUTIFULLYMADE 7/24/2008 8:45AM

    Hi Mary, Thank you for sharing that. I really needed to read this. Me and My husband has been worrying about what we are going to do once he gets out of the Army. We've been so wrapped up in worrying about things than just trusting God with it. We already know that our life is in His hands and things will happen according to his plan if we move out of the way and let Him work. This was a great reminder.
Also, I didn't know that worship is an act of trust. I always looked at worship as adoration. Thank you for the perspective.
Have a Blessed day!
~Bonnie

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