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Merry Christmas

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas and Happy new Year

  
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NANHBH 12/24/2009 7:08PM

    And to you, also!

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Well she did now we just need to pray

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Well my girlfriend left the boyfriend that I had spoken of in an early blog. Now we just need to pray that she'll be strong and not let him talk her into coming back. That and we need to pray that god will bring an amazing man into life one that will make her feel like a MILLION and love her completely. I'm SO proud of her after all these years I know that it's been really hard on her... prayers..

  
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KNITTABLES 12/23/2009 11:16PM

    What a great wonderful friend you are, I am sure someone who is kind, gentle and loving will be their for her soon. Have a wonderful night and Merry Christmas.

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Yeah the family is arriving.....

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

One daughter here 2 more coming today along with their husbands and one grandson too..... SO excited

  
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DEEJACKSON 12/22/2009 4:42PM

    Have a safe, and wonderful Christmas!

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KNITTABLES 12/22/2009 3:58PM

    Great news

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RHALES199 12/22/2009 3:13PM

    Hope you all have a great time together! Sounds like fun!

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PILETERE 12/22/2009 1:40PM

  Great!!!

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Thanks for all your support

Monday, December 21, 2009

I know that this has to be her decision I'll just be supportive and continue to pray that God will bring an amazing man into her life and even that the guy she's with now will find happiness.. thanks

  
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KNITTABLES 12/21/2009 11:48AM

    Yes, just to be supported is all anyone can do. You are a great friend, don't get caught in the middle.

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Frustrated

Sunday, December 20, 2009

All these Christmas goodies sitting around here temptations everywhere. And to top it off I'm totally stressed out not because of Christmas ( I have all my shopping and baking is done. ) but that a very very close friend of mine is in a dead end relationship ( I know it's none of my business ) but she shares with me all the time.

He's a nice enough guy but she's the one doing the dating and he's recieving all the benefits. He NEVER pays for anything she foots the bills for everything and now she's very upset he doesn't want to "do" christmas this year ( in otherwords he doesn't want to have to get her a gift.) This has been going on for 4 years and I think she's just settled that this is all she deserves. He comes around to be fed and does anything that she wants as long as she foots the bill.

She doesn't get along with his father at all ( hates him is putting it nicely ) She wants a ring and has even gone far enough to say that she;'ll probably have to buy it herself ( are you kidding me )

SHe's absolutely beautiful and smart and everyone loves her there even have been serveral wonderful men that have been interested but haven't made a move because of this mooch. Her parents are beside theirselves because the see what she refuses to see.

The last thing that he got her was a marked down ( yes he left the marked down price sticker on them ) ( half dead dozen roses from Walmart ) she had to throw them out the next day because the smelt so bad she was heart broken. I try to stay out of this because I know it's her business but of course because we're best friends she calls me all the time.
He also "never" has any money but spends many nights at the bar with the guys or goes off to professional sporting events all which require $$$$... any advice............... Yes I've been doing alot of praying lately maybe this is the guy that god has chose for her......
His place should be condemed she sleeps on a piece of foam when she's there because he got his bed ( which is a single) off a curb sitting out for the trash pick up. This piece of foam is about an inch thick.

Also he can't miss a game he watches tv pretty much 24/7 he's has to see every sporting event that's on it's unbelievable I'm NOT joking.... it's as if the game can't start unless he's on the computer and in front of the TV. She's even said that if they ever have children she hopes that she goes into labor when there's not a game on because she knows that he wouldn't show up until the game was over.


AGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  
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KAMILLA1 12/20/2009 8:33PM

  All I have to say is men treat us the way we let them, and we as women should have more self esteem and demand the respect we deserve to get and stop thinking these knuckeheads are GOD's gift to us. So until your friend think more of herself she herself will know he not worthy of her.

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MACLELL4 12/20/2009 5:48PM

    O.K.

This is so depressing, but if your best friend wants to be with this jerk because she thinks so little of herself, then "LET IT BE AND LET HER BE"

I have gone thru the same thing with my best friend. She let all the good go and know she is 47 years old wondering what happened. She is lonely and raising 2 children by herself.

We all told her, but she refused to see it until it was to late. As her friend you can just be there to listen. I myself got to point where I would just say um hum, um hum, because she would not listen. Then, when it got to a point where it was to much for me, I told her. Look, I will be here for you, but I don't want to here it anymore. If you think that is what you deserve then I don't want to know about it anymore. You have taught him how to treat you and that you are so needy and desperate that you will take anything, so there you go.

I do not know about your friend, but my friend took 20 something years for her to finally see the light and her future has been ruined, but she allowed it.

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EVACLAIRE 12/20/2009 5:36PM

    I completely understand what you are saying. One of my friends is in a relationship with this guy who got her pregnant. There is so much more that goes into that statement but I wont go into it. Either way, his parents verbally abuse her, she lives at his house with this terrible dog that shouldn't be around ANY new born, and he leaves her alone all the time. The sad part is that there is nothing I can say to make a difference because she says "well if it doesnt work out I can always live with my mom". So she knows something is wrong but is to "comfortable" to do anything about it. I know what you're going through and unfortunately there isnt; anything that can be done. It sounds like you and other people have been telling her these things for years and she wont listen. Maybe she really thinks that that is all she deserves. Suggest talking to someone who is not activly involved in her life like a consolor or somehting...

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