Sunday, December 20, 2009
All these Christmas goodies sitting around here temptations everywhere. And to top it off I'm totally stressed out not because of Christmas ( I have all my shopping and baking is done. ) but that a very very close friend of mine is in a dead end relationship ( I know it's none of my business ) but she shares with me all the time.
He's a nice enough guy but she's the one doing the dating and he's recieving all the benefits. He NEVER pays for anything she foots the bills for everything and now she's very upset he doesn't want to "do" christmas this year ( in otherwords he doesn't want to have to get her a gift.) This has been going on for 4 years and I think she's just settled that this is all she deserves. He comes around to be fed and does anything that she wants as long as she foots the bill.
She doesn't get along with his father at all ( hates him is putting it nicely ) She wants a ring and has even gone far enough to say that she;'ll probably have to buy it herself ( are you kidding me )
SHe's absolutely beautiful and smart and everyone loves her there even have been serveral wonderful men that have been interested but haven't made a move because of this mooch. Her parents are beside theirselves because the see what she refuses to see.
The last thing that he got her was a marked down ( yes he left the marked down price sticker on them ) ( half dead dozen roses from Walmart ) she had to throw them out the next day because the smelt so bad she was heart broken. I try to stay out of this because I know it's her business but of course because we're best friends she calls me all the time.
He also "never" has any money but spends many nights at the bar with the guys or goes off to professional sporting events all which require $$$$... any advice............... Yes I've been doing alot of praying lately maybe this is the guy that god has chose for her......
His place should be condemed she sleeps on a piece of foam when she's there because he got his bed ( which is a single) off a curb sitting out for the trash pick up. This piece of foam is about an inch thick.
Also he can't miss a game he watches tv pretty much 24/7 he's has to see every sporting event that's on it's unbelievable I'm NOT joking.... it's as if the game can't start unless he's on the computer and in front of the TV. She's even said that if they ever have children she hopes that she goes into labor when there's not a game on because she knows that he wouldn't show up until the game was over.