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Answer TO HOW DO YOU GET THROUGH CHRISTMAS WHEN YOU ARE ALONEFriday, January 01, 2010
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LINDYPOWER
1/30/2010 2:58PM
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Thank you. in loving kindness, Linda the Gardener Report Inappropriate Comment |


NEWHDYANNEH
1/5/2010 4:24PM
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Ive been away from spark for a while ad im catching up on reading, thanks for sharing thats beautiful and inspirational as well. We are never alone...
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MOTHER-NATURE
1/5/2010 10:11AM
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Irene you are such a blessing Niki Report Inappropriate Comment |


SPARKEE
1/2/2010 9:53PM
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Amen! Thanks for blessing us!
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HOLLY_ROSE3
1/2/2010 7:21PM
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The Lord Bless you and keep you friend! I'm so glad that it ALL worked out!! That's the Lord we serve!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MUJU71
1/2/2010 6:43AM
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So glad to hear that God blessed you socks off! He loves you immeasurably and is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think! Happy New Year! Report Inappropriate Comment |


AHEALTHIERJAN
1/2/2010 2:10AM
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Thank you, Irene. This is all beautiful, and you are clearly both blessed and a blessing. But I thank you especially for one item: "My two brothers; one I heard from, one I didn't " I have a brother I haven't heard from in four years. Made me feel less alone. God bless you for your openness. Jan
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HAPPYMOM8
1/1/2010 11:31PM
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You had your answer all along! So happy for you. Pat
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JEANLECUY
1/1/2010 9:43PM
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This is lovely. I really feel that you have to look for the Good everyday! Your blogs fall under the good category! :) Jeanne Report Inappropriate Comment |


NELLIEC
1/1/2010 8:20PM
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And may God continue to bless you!!!
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GLORIAB73
1/1/2010 6:50PM
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True Irene, we are never alone. With my husband in the hospital, many many spark friends kept me feeling loved, cared about, and they prayed for both my husband and me. Though I felt I wanted to be alone after visiting my husband in the hospital, my son and his wife practically made me go to their home for a Christmas meal with them and I was so glad they did! The warmth and closeness with these 'kids' really made my day. When others reach out to you, grab their hand and go with them! We are blessed by having loving friends and family! Gloria Report Inappropriate Comment |


MARLIZG
1/1/2010 1:27PM
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You are NEVER alone...you are such a kind person & you have many spark friends who care for you...You are the first spark stranger to reach out to me & you became a spark friend...Happy New Year, Happy New Decade spark friend... Report Inappropriate Comment |


BLOSSOMKITTY
1/1/2010 1:07PM
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Happy New Year Iene!!!!!!!!! Im so glad God has blessed you so! I pray for continued showers of blessings and provision for youthis year! Many many HUGS for YOU! steph Report Inappropriate Comment |


TIGGER622
1/1/2010 12:17PM
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thank you so much for your blog! you are not alone, and though i often feel alone too, your blog reminds me of all that i have to be thankful for. you are a wonderful person with such a loving heart - i am so glad that you were so blessed this christmas, you deserved it! i hope you have a wonderful 2010!
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Forty Seven years ago I chose to leave my country and follow the leading of the Lord to become a missionary to Mexico. Back then it was not so easy to travel and many of the first years I had no telephone even to communicate with my family.
I saw my family once a year for about three days and when I would leave my mom and dad standing on the porch as I drove off I thought "This may be the last time I will ever see them" and drove away with tears in my eyes.
Holidays were always worse especially from before Thanksgiving and through New Years. I would find a telephone to call home on Christmas day which took a big bite out of my small income but oh so worth it. I would talk to everyone at home.
You would think you would grow out of it as you got older but you don't. Even with your folks gone and all of my brothers except two and my one sister gone on to meet the Lord I still feel alone with no children of my own and no family here.
So how do I get through it.
One thing is to keep busy. Make lots of friends. Sunday noon we had Christmas dinner at our church and a family from my Sunday School Class asked me to sit with them. Sunday pm. another member of my Sunday School class invited the class over for another Christmas dinner.
I had began to think they didn't really want me as their teacher any longer. After all I was old and some of the others could do a good job. I was thinking of giving up the class and turning it over to someone else. Yes, it broke my heart but I wanted to do what was best for the class.
Little did I realize they had planned a big surprise for me. After eating we went to the tree in the living room and first they handed me an envelope with a nice card with the nicest note from each of them telling them how much I meant to them and how much they appreciated me. I couldn't believe what I was reading.
Then they said there is more and I looked in the envelope and there was $140.00 for me. The lady of the house, who is also a good friend of mine along with her whole family, then gave out gifts. She gave each of us a gift. And another lady who is a friend but is not in my class also gave me a gift.
Today the lady who drives for me when I go to Mexico called me and we went out and had a nice lunch together.
The 24th I will be going back where I was Sunday night for the family Christmas and the 25th will be going out with another friend.
I just thank the Lord that He has allowed me to be in full time ministry for over 50 years. All other things will pass away but what we do for Him will not pass. I thank Him for coming to this earth to live and die for us so we could receive forgiveness. Just think that little Baby was God Himself.
So keep busy. Exercise. Get out among people and love them like God loves you. You know you are never alone as the Lord said He would never leave you or forsake you. Now I know it is good to have family and to have that one special person. Sometimes even then it is sad. A long time friend of mine has Alzheimer's and has been in hospice over a year now and her husband cried. I know by experience that is more difficult than being alone as you are alone but still have someone you love suffering.
You will make it through and 2010 will be a great year. I will be back on my eating healthy.
Irene


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LIFE_IS_SO_GOOD
1/14/2010 8:54PM
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This is a wonderful blog ... you are an amazing woman ... It just shows that God knows what HE is doing ... HE entrusted so many people to your care. God Bless
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HICALGAL
1/2/2010 10:02PM
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what a lovely story. instead of having a family of your own...God entrusted you with many of his children and families that love and appreciate you. how cool is that! May God continuely bless you and the work that you are doing. Report Inappropriate Comment |


DEBRASELF111
1/1/2010 7:34PM
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Your story and dedication is inspiring. Its easy for us to forget and feel we are alone and its always an inspiration to be reminded that we are not. Thank you for sharing your story.
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JEANLECUY
1/1/2010 12:50PM
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Irene, I loved your blog. How special those cards must have been! :) Jeanne You have a blessed life. Report Inappropriate Comment |


HAPPYMOM8
12/31/2009 9:20PM
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Dear Irene, I would like to add to the many comments that we are never alone here as long as we have each other! Happy New Year dear friend! Pat
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NONNATERRY
12/29/2009 2:52PM
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I was looking around for inspiration today...and then I found Irene! You are truly amazing and I want to thank you for inspiring me to do better in my efforts this year! Blessings, Terry
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WENDYSPARKS
12/28/2009 11:19AM
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We are never alone as God is always with us! Thank you for your nice words and you are a inspiration to us all!! love and hugs wendy
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KGKELSEY
12/28/2009 9:54AM
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Love your spirit and thanks for sharing. God truely is great! Report Inappropriate Comment |


YANSKA
12/28/2009 8:09AM
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You are a beautiful and blessed lady! I consider you a bit of an angel for me today - you helped me remember how lucky I am to have loved ones close to me, even if they do drive me batty. Have a wonderful new year, and stay beautiful! Your blog really was a ray of sunshine for me this morning. :) Anna Report Inappropriate Comment |


REDBUD1
12/28/2009 7:56AM
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You are so right we are never alone as long as we have Jesus. Thank you for the reminder. May God Bless you in the New Year. Report Inappropriate Comment |


SHTEACHER
12/28/2009 12:00AM
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I'm a school teacher. One day, DV, I'd like to be a missionary to Mexico, too. I've been thinking about going this summer, to join up some friends who have a church plant there. They've been there a long time. My spanish is muy mal. But ... I have time. Two things in getting ready to go is that I want to become as healthy as possible. The second is I need to brush up on my spanish. I've taken several classes but ... it seems like I forget it as soon as the class if over. Your blog touched me because I'm single, 44, I've never married and I don't have kids. So, in a way, I'm alone, too. But, as a Christian I know what it is when God said that our "Maker is my husband". Also, "more are the children of the desolate woman". ... We're never alone as a Christian. Some days are harder than others, though, huh? I'm glad your church was so supportive of you. Report Inappropriate Comment |


SPARKEE
12/27/2009 8:05PM
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Blessings to you dear sister in the Lord! Thanks for sharing! You've inspired me to reach out to a dear aunt who is still mourning the loss of her husband - they were married and serving the Lord together for over 50 years. I think you know this truth: You are not really alone - you have the Lord who loves you completely and was willing to send His only Son for you! But yes... I do understand, as little children have well stated: "Sometimes, it's just nice to have 'someone with skin on' when you're scared or lonely!" You are an inspiration for all your activities and healthy goals! Best wishes to you for a wonderful 2010!
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LDW745
12/27/2009 7:28PM
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This is the first time I have been on here for almost a year. I had been feeling sorry for myself all Christmas holiday and with New years eve just a few days away, well things have gotten worse. My husband has Alzheimer's and this past June I had to place him in a nursing home. When I went to see him Christmas day, he didnt even know who I was. So, sitting here is self-pity I logged on (isnt God GREAT). Irene you are an amazing woman with such a strong sprite for the Lord. Thank you so much for sharing your story and for all the sacrifices you have made doing God's work. It was such a blessing reading how your "Christian family" included you in their holiday celebration. Thank you so much for taking the time to share with us, God Bless Linda Report Inappropriate Comment |


TURBOMEL
12/27/2009 6:52PM
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Merry Christmas to you! How blessed we are to have someone like you in the world.
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MOMMYBYCHOICE
12/26/2009 10:20PM
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Oh what a wondeful christmas message you have to offer. May you be blessed beyond your needs 2010. I enjoyed your blog. it made me realize how much I do miss my dad and how blessed I am to be married and have 2 beautiful little girls. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MOMFAN
12/26/2009 10:02PM
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Thanks for sharing your amazing story. I know I have been grateful to the many who have reached out to my dd over the holidays for the past few years. This is only her second Christmas home since she was 18. We did it up big with the decorations for her and then her sis broke her foot so being the servant she is she went to stay with her for ten days helping her with the grands. Then she came home and left for Texas to help a friend getting married so she has only had about a week of enjoying the decorations.
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MASTERCARE
12/26/2009 9:04PM
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You touched my heart. Thank you.
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NUSMACY
12/26/2009 8:22PM
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I thought this was going to be question from someone looking for an answer and you are the answer. When we ask HIM he is faithful to meet ALL our needs. Thank you for sharing your story.
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NJJAZZ
12/26/2009 6:53PM
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Irene you are living proof that giving is in fact receiving. The more you give in life = the more it seems comes back to you in love, respect, and friendship. Your blog is heart warming and I am so glad you had a great holiday. Report Inappropriate Comment |


BKNOCK
12/26/2009 4:59PM
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What a beautiful blog, thanks for sharing!
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LADY_KATHY
12/26/2009 11:49AM
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What a blessing you are!!!!!!!!!!!!
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JUNIAATROME
12/26/2009 2:32AM
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Blessings to you!
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EAT_MOVE_LIVE
12/26/2009 12:10AM
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Merry Christmas!! So glad you got to be with friends! Hugs, Candace Report Inappropriate Comment |


CAROLYN0107
12/25/2009 10:48PM
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Thanks for sharing your Testimony Irene! It sounds like you had a great Christmas. Carolyn (from CMW team) Report Inappropriate Comment |


CORIANNE72
12/25/2009 10:25PM
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Irene thank you so much for sharing. It is very inspiring and uplifting to read your story. Merry Christmas to you and may you be blessed today and always. Cori Report Inappropriate Comment |


HERMIONE102
12/25/2009 9:54PM
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Thank you for sharing this story. Truly inspirational. Happy Holidays!
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SHAELER
12/25/2009 9:45PM
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Thank you for sharing your story. Merry Christmas!
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TRACKMOM64
12/25/2009 9:40PM
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Merry Christmas and remember we are never alone. God is always with us.
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CRITTERMAMA912
12/25/2009 9:36PM
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Thank you for such an honest and inspirational blog. I can tell through your words that the grace and anointing of the Lord is on you. Keep on keeping on. Merry Christmas! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MOLLYJ9
12/25/2009 9:36PM
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Thank you for sharing, I too am alone, and have found that to keep busy is the Key. There are others not so fortunate as I am., and I can give to them in some way or other. I do not feel sorry for self, and Gratitude for what I do have goes a very long way. I too love the Lord and believe that this is His plan for me and I am happy with that. Others think I need to not be alone, and I hear "You can't be alone on Christmas". But they have no idea how it is. God Bless Comment edited on: 12/25/2009 9:38:39 PM Report Inappropriate Comment |


KENMAC116
12/25/2009 9:22PM
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Merry Christmas!!
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KENMAC116
12/25/2009 9:22PM
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Merry Christmas!!
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BABE741
12/25/2009 8:53PM
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Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. You are so encouraging to me. I have a wonderful family and as I was going to see them today, I was just wishing that everyone would have a good day. Bless you and thank you for your story.
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JUANITADWALKER
12/25/2009 8:51PM
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MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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DMWACHHOLZ
12/25/2009 8:32PM
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What an inspiration you are... May God bless you many times over for all that you have done and the sacrifices you have made.
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MARKTHEFNP
12/25/2009 8:08PM
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Oh happiness, there is grace! Enough for us and the whole human race! Report Inappropriate Comment |


KAYDE53
12/25/2009 8:01PM
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Thanks for again sharing your wonderful testimony. May God richly bless and keep you. You always inspire me to do better in my witness. Thank you, Kay Report Inappropriate Comment |


CORRINER
12/25/2009 7:26PM
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Thanks for the wonderful blog message. Merry CHRISTmas to you. Report Inappropriate Comment |


NANHBH
12/25/2009 6:18PM
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Thank you for sharing this wonderful reflection. May God bless you abundantly for your missionary work.
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AMAZING55
12/25/2009 5:37PM
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You are a gracious woman, inside and out, thank-you for sharing your story. I hope to share it with my aging parents. Report Inappropriate Comment |


NANNER2121
12/25/2009 5:31PM
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God Bless you Irene. Merry Christmas.
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PRICKLY101
12/25/2009 5:14PM
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I hope that you had a blessed and merry Christmas! God bless, dona Report Inappropriate Comment |


TRYINGHARD1948
12/25/2009 4:51PM
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Thank you for sharing your story with us. It is inspiring.
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POSEY440
12/25/2009 4:44PM
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Happy Holidays thanks for the work you did for the Lord. Report Inappropriate Comment |


JIBBIE49
12/25/2009 4:38PM
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I hope you will have another 50 years to do your blessed work. Merry Christmas.
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AICANDYDAGURU
12/25/2009 4:25PM
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Thank you for sharing. We are never alone when we are with Christ. Be blessed and have a Merry Christmas.
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BLESSOLA
12/25/2009 3:56PM
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Thanks for sharing! I really liked it!More blessings to you, have a merry christmas and a wonderful new year.
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GLOW8211
12/25/2009 3:45PM
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MERRY CHIRSTMAS DIDMIS Thank you so much for sharing!! God Bless and Keep You Always!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


HUMMINGBIRDFLY
12/25/2009 3:40PM
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You are a blessing to many and it's obvious there are many who care greatly for you. Merry Christmas! Report Inappropriate Comment |


AELI2468
12/25/2009 3:32PM
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thank you for sharing a beautiful story.
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