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Beware the numbers game!Monday, November 15, 2010
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RANDOMKINDNESS
12/6/2010 6:37PM
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Great blog - so true. Yet, I must say that after looking at your 'numbers' on your weight tracker ... YOU ROCK dude! Report Inappropriate Comment |


FLOWINGWATER
11/26/2010 11:55AM
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As someone who is on maintenance, I have to say that, personally, I still watch the numbers. I still weigh myself daily, and I still log my food and exercise. I know me, and I know that daily weigh-ins and logging my food keeps me accountable. If I don't do those things, THAT'S when I start to gain. However, the numbers are no longer a source of motivation for me. They are just check-in points. As you so rightly point out, at goal, we have to find other sources of motivation - fitness goals, contentment with how we look and how our clothes fit, recognition of all the benefits of our healthier lifestyle! Everyone is different, so the sources of motivation at goal will vary, but we must find other things that keep us motivated to maintain. Great blog! Thanks for the reminder! Report Inappropriate Comment |


GIRANIMAL
11/23/2010 11:38AM
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Thank you for this! I have an injury from long before I started Sparking and working out. I've been through the gamut of pain and ability levels with it, so I know exactly what you mean about what they can teach us about accomplishment. And yet I still needed this reminder right now! I am struggling with not being able to do more so that I can push forward just 10 or so pounds to my goal, and I am losing sight of the fact that I have made huge (65 pounds!) strides already despite the chronic pain of an injury and must remember to be proud of myself! I am also getting really hung up with the numbers game - mostly the darn scale - and need to hear that I should get back to focusing on my new healthier lifestyle, not just barely staying ahead of that stinkin' number. Thanks! Report Inappropriate Comment |


SMILEYBABS
11/21/2010 10:07PM
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Maintenance means working to keep the line flat! That is not quite as reinforcing as a steady decline in in weight nor as reinforcing as the compliments made by friends and colleagues about how weight loss is showing. At Weight Watchers there is now monthly recognition for those at goal which is way more than ever done for lifetime members at goal in previous years. This recognition has helped my meeting friends keep their weight steady. I suggest a monthly reward for keeping your weight off could be just the ticket for reinforcing continued weight maintenance. Barbara Report Inappropriate Comment |


JCORYCMA
11/21/2010 9:43PM
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Great insights, Don! I have to watch myself all the time, because I can get too hung up on what the numbers are saying.
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BARBARA_BOO
11/19/2010 1:38PM
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This subject is SO important. I tried to comment a couple of nights ago, but SP was doing maintenance on the site. I appreciate your discussion and the input from your other friends. I've been thinking a lot about this, since I am determined not to repeat my history of losing significant amounts of weight and regaining. Continuing to change the thinking and behavior that you speak of, to stabilize the lower weight permanently, is such a magnificent accomplishment that I will be forever proud of my efforts, regardless of what my future holds. Instead of thinking about what food I'll eat at my "goal met" party (or, in the old days, afterwards, when the guests have left, LOL), I'm thinking ahead to the excitement of seeing how the other half lives. Trying out my smaller, stronger body and "getting used to it" sounds thrilling. Being happy and continuing to grow and enrich my life in ways that my larger body and habitual thought patterns believed I couldn't is the goal. The measurement of success will be "how comfortable and happy I am at the lower weight." Another measurement will be "how well I deal with the reactions of others to my being smaller". That can open a huge can of worms. When I settle on what appears to be my lowest maintainable weight, I will continue to pay attention to "becoming SATISFIED with the weight that I have worked to achieve". I'll be getting old someday (almost 69 now), and I want to do it with a twinkle in my eye. As you have made clear, it's not about the food or the numbers as much as it is about the happiness and the growth. We will all decay soon enough. Sorry about nattering on, but you got me on a roll. Report Inappropriate Comment |


ZELLAZM
11/19/2010 12:39PM
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Good insights, especially as one approaches maintenance, you have to start changing your thinking and goal-orientation. Thanks for the reminder, Don!
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BOBCATRN
11/19/2010 8:08AM
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I have to admit I am such a numbers person, from the number on the scale to the number that is my jeans size.. My name is Kelly and I am a numbers addict. LOL I am not sure what I will do once i hit that goal, but I think it will be the enjoyment of the fact that I accomplished something great, and not everyone can commit to do.
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VEGGIEHIPPIE89
11/18/2010 11:50PM
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Thank you. Report Inappropriate Comment |


GRACEFULIFE
11/18/2010 2:30PM
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I've gone off the numbers for a while myself. Didn't weigh for nearly a week. Haven't been tracking intake. Had a week or two off of workouts even, so no mileage, weight, reps, whatever. Oh, I so dig the numbers, and will be back to them (already am since I did a workout yesterday). But it's been an interesting reminder of what it was like to be "normal" and live life without tracking all those numbers all the time. Isn't the idea of Spark to do better at the diet and fitness portion of your life, then move on to challenge yourself in other areas as well? With that in mind, I think satisfaction at maintenance will come not only from enjoying how much better I feel and look, but how many things I get done in working toward hopes and dreams. Plus, hopefully, how many fun sporting activities that I can take part in with skill and grace. Wait, that's the best one I came up with yet... fun! That one is REALLY the point of all this... fun. That's a good thing to keep in mind, I think. Report Inappropriate Comment |


4A-HEALTHY-BMI
11/18/2010 12:56PM
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Like Carrie, I'm a numbers person. I need numbers as an objective measure of how I'm doing. It's too easy to talk myself into believing that a gain is OK or minimal if I don't have a number to back it up. If I don't track my food and weight and body fat daily I tend to gain weight very rapidly. So I track them. Just in an effort to keep the numbers down. Report Inappropriate Comment |


JESPAH
11/18/2010 6:11AM
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Words to live by. The road dips, rises and meanders. Get used to it. :)
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CARRIE1948
11/17/2010 9:42AM
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Interesting. I need to think about this. I'm a numbers person; I need something to monitor, even if that's a straight line
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TERRYMEMPHIS
11/17/2010 6:29AM
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Great Blog. Keep up the hard work.
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MOM2AEROKI
11/17/2010 1:11AM
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don -- i followed suzi's blog to yours. like suzi, i'm experiencing some health issues that have stalled my progress. it's been frustrating and i've been disheartened, but reading your blog forces me to remember where i've been and how i got to the place i am today. i have to believe i will recover more quickly because of my efforts to become healthy before i became injured; that this could be so much worse. i may not be able to exercise, but all i've learned to this point will not fall out of my head. i can control my eating and i can control my attitude. i can still be sparkalicious. 'tis but a hiccup..... thank you for the insightful (and timely) blog. Report Inappropriate Comment |


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KIRSTEN
11/16/2010 9:16PM
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Great blog, very helpful. I need this shift in thinking right now! Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAINBOWFALLS
11/16/2010 8:32AM
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Great point. I personally have been working at being happy with the accomplishments I have already made and at not being perfect. I have stalled, but I know that I will make more progress and I weigh much less then I did at the beginning of this year. The numbers I will strive for is healthy numbers.
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MIZZSB
11/16/2010 3:40AM
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this is what i needed this morning, it brought a tear to my eyes! Thank you Don! Report Inappropriate Comment |


L*I*T*A*
11/15/2010 10:06PM
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OUTDOORGIRL68
11/15/2010 9:49PM
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Don.... Thank you for this Blog. It is helping me a lot at this time. Thanks good friend for the reminder. Report Inappropriate Comment |


LADYGWEN25
11/15/2010 8:15PM
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SLIMTHICK2
11/15/2010 7:37PM
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I agree with you, well said. All the best. Report Inappropriate Comment |


CHANGE4FIT
11/15/2010 7:32PM
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Wow, Don, this is timely. While I am not at the end of my journey, I am already having a battle with the numbers. The scale won't budge and I am not far enough in to be experiencing a plateau. I think it is more like I am building muscle. The scale is not moving, but I am getting more trim. I only do measurements, besides weight, monthly so it's not time for that. I have been thinking if I am this frustrated this early what DO I have to look forward to and HOW will I define the maintenance phase when I arrive. Thank you for such an insightful blog! PJ Report Inappropriate Comment |


DAYHIKER
11/15/2010 7:24PM
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Wise words indeed, Don! One of the hard things about maintenance is that there is not that dramatic feedback from scale or tape measure and if you don't change your goal strategy it's easy to regain! Cindy Report Inappropriate Comment |


GR8CATSBY
11/15/2010 7:15PM
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I especially want to be reminded of this line: "We can appreciate how our healthy lifestyle has helped us to avoid even MORE serious repercussions... " I get so focused on NOW that I forget that the good choices I currently make will likely make a difference years from now. (I'm thinking lately about the converse to that, how the bad habits I got into years ago still plague me today.)
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AGASSIFAN
11/15/2010 7:08PM
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Very well said...I use my numbers to help train myself to head for healthier selections...but they don't possess me....
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Put on the ol' dorky shorts (yep, those padded spandex things are under my regular shorts...lol
) and headed out with a few bike club members for WONDERFUL 42 mile ride from Binghamton to Owego and back today.
It had been too, too long since I'd been out on my bike...guesstimating about a month...! Riding that single-speed beach cruiser in Savannah had me SO appreciating the kind of bonding one develops with one's bike...knowing how it will respond to my pedaling, gear-shifting, etc. Similar to the bond one develops with a musical instrument. I can play any guitar, but it's different when it's MY guitar! I imagine the bond between a horse and rider must be even tighter!
As gloriously sunny as it was I don't believe it ever hit 60. The warmest temp I saw during the ride was 56 and by the time we returned around 4:15 it had already dropped to 49.
So I wondered what to wear...for a teensy bit and then I just said, "Heck you KNOW you're just gonna shed anything that you wear beyond your standard shorts and T-shirt...!" So that's what I wore. And it was just FINE! A little brisk, but I tell ya, those first miles were so sweet and SO pumped up! I zoomed way ahead of the others. Free at last! Woo hoo! Any chill that was noticeable at first was just vaporized!
Felt a little weird shoving this orange-sized (formerly grapefruit-sized) hematoma on my hip into my dorky shorts, but I think it helped to stabilize it...at least for a while. Later it had this irritating tendency to kinda slosh or flop around as I peddled. But it didn't hurt, nor did my right ankle / shin where the cellulitis is. Now as I sit here typing the ankle is saying "okay let's put me up for the night already!"
Owego is a very pleasant little artsy village and today it was just BUZZING with people up & down the street window shopping and soaking up the sunshine. Across the street were some high school band students playing Christmas songs. While I STILL feel this is rushing the season a bit, it was a nice touch:
We walked about town and courtesy of another bike club member I discovered the lovely RiverWalk that had been built a few years ago along the backside of the downtown buildings:
These are the kind of improvements to our cities and villages that inspires people to get out of their homes and walk, jog, bike, skateboard, whatever and enjoy the company of others doing the same. People are more connected to nature, others and themselves! In my opinion there just can't be ENOUGH of these kind of projects!
A few other pics:
All in all it was a perfect day for a ride that was the perfect distance, terrain and company!
Flying HIGH AGAIN! Woo Hoo!
I wish RUNNING could make me feel this good...! Lol!
Everybody enjoy the rest of your weekend, rest, recharge and SPARK anew!
Don
ps...earlier in my cycling resurgence I was bemoaning the need for cycling shorts as I'd never needed them before...well a fellow member gave a good-humored poke by referring to a Dilbert comic where cycling shorts were referred to as "dorky shorts"...to which I heartily agreed! Still do, sorta, but necessary nonetheless...lol!


APPYMORGAN
12/4/2010 11:53PM
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Sounds like a wonderful time. I am currently researching bikes for commute, although it looks like I will be getting a hand-me-down from my mom that is an old style touring bike. It should be great for commuting, but if I get fit enough to do a sprint Triathlon I might be laughed off the course (until I finish in the ribbons, LOL). I'LL need some donkey shorts too. LOL Kristi Report Inappropriate Comment |


VALERIEMAHA
11/15/2010 9:33AM
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Amazingly wonderful recounting of a terrifically life-affirming experience, Don! Hope your physical ow-ies resolve quickly! Maha P.S. Oh, and forgot to mention that You.Look.GREAT!!! Comment edited on: 11/15/2010 9:34:29 AM Report Inappropriate Comment |


JESPAH
11/15/2010 8:08AM
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I searched in vain for a Youtube of the scene in Sixteen Candles. Samantha: Everybody thinks I'm a dork. Her dad: I don't think you're a dork. Mom doesn't think you're a dork. Samantha: Mike thinks I'm a dork. Her dad: Mike IS a dork. :) I don't think you're a dork. :) Report Inappropriate Comment |


DAVEINSEOUL
11/15/2010 12:09AM
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Sounds like a GREAT ride - thanks for pics. What I learned riding yesterday, is with the right 'gear', even a cold weather ride can be pleasant. Report Inappropriate Comment |


CARRIE1948
11/14/2010 1:25PM
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Love Owego
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DDHEART
11/14/2010 9:05AM
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Great! Thanks for taking us along!! Oh, and you are so right. Yesterday on our local news they were discussing how one local community here is planning to get started with their riverwalk project even though there has been so much infighting and controversy....husband and I both immediately responded since we have been to many cities that have gotten the message and enjoyed our visits so much more than we might have.
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LADYGWEN25
11/14/2010 9:05AM
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Sounds like an awesome bike ride! glad you were able to get out and enjoy such a beautiful day!
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FRECKS96
11/14/2010 8:42AM
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It really was an amazing day! I'm so glad you were able to enjoy it on your bike.
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FERRETLOVER1
11/14/2010 7:51AM
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Glad to hear that you're out there riding again. I missed your travelogues, Don!! You have some wonderful areas to ride in. Report Inappropriate Comment |


UROPA40
11/14/2010 6:27AM
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Sounds like a great day. I bought a new bike this year to cross train but did not ride more than twice a week. I wish riding a bike could make me feel as good as running does. Maybe if I ever get used to the skinny tires, gears and clip on shoes I will relax and have more fun. Suzy
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DAYHIKER
11/14/2010 6:01AM
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How good to hear you finally got out for a nice bike ride after your busy month! Thanks for posting the pictures--it looks like a lovely little village. I quite agree about the improvements that so many places are making to help people get out into nature. That what made my younger son love living in Europe (it sure wasn't the socialism or the high prices). Happy Sunday! Cindy Report Inappropriate Comment |


COLOURFULME
11/14/2010 4:21AM
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Thank you for your sharing your new bike experience. I am really proud of you how you manage regardless of what to do exercise like you mentioned in your previous blog, Then also love the pictures you take and publish. Thanks again and enjoy your Sunday!
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MIZZSB
11/14/2010 4:10AM
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Don, It looks great and you look great! Report Inappropriate Comment |


L*I*T*A*
11/14/2010 12:03AM
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how awesome is that!!! thanks for sharing........... blessings and hugs...........lita Report Inappropriate Comment |


XENA1956
11/13/2010 11:50PM
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Just beautiful pictures. Sounds like you had a wonderful time and didn't get too sore either. I wish I could of been there with you. Should I tell ya our weather today was in the upper 70's, opps I did. Oh well I have lived in S.CA my whole life, if not for all the people, traffic and tourists I would love it. LOL Teri Report Inappropriate Comment |


OUTDOORGIRL68
11/13/2010 10:58PM
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Don....... It sounds like a perfect day and all the pictures were great. Here it was between 18-32. Much warner where you are. Snowing right now. You too have a good rest of the weekend. Ida Report Inappropriate Comment |

