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FREE AT LAST....well kinda!!!Saturday, February 23, 2008
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NEWMARILYN
3/10/2008 12:27PM
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You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad to hear that you are on the mend. Come on and knock this last 20 pounds out! God bless you, Marilyn Report Inappropriate Comment |


GODZDESIGN95
3/4/2008 2:45PM
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Hi just peeking in on you. You are doing wonerful. Congrats. If I see someone who has an awesome job at weight loss. I give them a little special gift and yours is coming up!! Awesome!!
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HEALTHY4ME
3/2/2008 10:20PM
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Glad all went well and you healed so well and quickly, Happy you can get back to exercising! and wow you look great. Congrats to all the hard work and determination. Cindy Report Inappropriate Comment |


INTRIGUEDKI
2/27/2008 8:28PM
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You look FAB! You are truly an inspiration... yayy to being able to do your fav. workouts again I know you are happy!! :-)
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IMENOUGH
2/25/2008 2:12PM
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You were missed immensely!!!
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NOMI_822
2/25/2008 11:32AM
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Wow! What a difference, you both look great. Congratulations on the weight loss and Good luck in all you do. Just had to say WOW!!!
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ATR1983
2/24/2008 2:51PM
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Glad you are doing well. I been MIA too. You have been missed. Keep up the great work.
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TJOI214
2/24/2008 2:34PM
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I am sooo glad you are free. I'm ready for our lives to return to normal...
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MONTANAGAL
2/24/2008 11:20AM
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Glad you're doing well sweetie! I missed ya 'round these parts! Sounds like things are going awesome for ya! Look forward to seeing you more around the forum! Much love, Deb :-) Report Inappropriate Comment |


JANEYJAYE
2/23/2008 11:59PM
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D, you have been missed and never forgotten! That photo is inspiring and you look fantastic. I'm excited to hear that you can get back to your cardio and definitely listen to your body. I'm sure it's going to feel oh so good to get that cardio high again. You are amazing!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


KAYEREADER
2/23/2008 6:03PM
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Hi Deondra Glad to read about your great update and to see you around! You look great! Report Inappropriate Comment |


GIRLINMOTION
2/23/2008 4:43PM
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Deondra what great news about your recovery. But go easy as you go back into the swing of things, don't want you taking any chances. I look at your comparison pictures and I have to say girl, "you're not getting older, your getting better". Thank you for the update, and glad to hear that your doing fine. Hugs, Sonia Report Inappropriate Comment |


MZPERSEVERANCE
2/23/2008 12:57PM
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That is awesome D. You were on mind!!!! Keep doin what ya doing......... Love ya Sisterly Yours Lynn Report Inappropriate Comment |



A few months ago one of my friends and I recognized and admitted that we had feelings for one another.
BUT, tonight I have had to finally accept the realization that although I have fallen head over heels for him...he is completely emotionally and physically unavailable. Oddly enough in a very sweet way he reassured me that he values our friendship, is attracted to me and wants to spend time with me...it's just that at this point in his life he is not willing to date anyone exclusively...he's unsure about what he wants...and wants to leave his options open. WOW!
Hence, here I am with EMOTIONAL HEARTBURN. Emotional Heartburn = A new term that I've coined which describes what takes place when your head and your heart are in utter and total disagreement.
Or better yet...it's as if I've found my dream house. The master bedroom has a huge walk-in closet full of designs by Karen Kane and outfits put together by Patricia Field (the Wardrobe mastermind of 'Sex and the City'); every room has been decorated by Candice Olsen (from HGTV's Divine Design); there is a tailor-made dance studio/workout room that includes a spin bike, treadmill, stairclimber and an elliptical machine; and so on and so on and so on...just one problem. The house is on fire. Although the house looks good and appears to have everything I want and need the fact still remains...it's on FIRE!
With that being said, I know that I'm temporarily suffering from emotional heartburn, but on this one I've got to listen to my head and it's screaming RUN GIRL! RUN AWAY FROM THIS BURNING HOUSE!
Yes, I like this guy a lot, but I love me more. I can no longer afford to put my heart in harm's way, so I've got to walk...no run away from this situation.
In the meanwhile, I find comfort in having good friends who remind me that I don't have to settle. Furthermore, I know that
God has a real DIVINE DESIGN for me...I just need to persevere, stop TRIPPING and start TRUSTING!
I Corinthians 13:4,7 (NIV)
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."


NEWMARILYN
1/16/2008 11:52AM
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You deserve the best and he is not offering you that- maybe he can't. God loves you with an undying love and will do whatever He has to do in order to get the man that He prepared for you- to you! Hold on. Know that you are blessed and highly favored. God bless, Marilyn Report Inappropriate Comment |


CIERAPOET
1/11/2008 5:09AM
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D, I am sitting here thinking about this guy that I really like and he claims to like me too, calling me his woman, but I think he is trying to love 2...which aint easy to do and I will never share a man. I appreciate this blog you shared with us. It spoke straight to my broken heart. I hate when men can't make up there minds and when they do, we are the ones standing with our mouths open and tears welling up in our eyes. The Word instructs us to guard our hearts with all diligence and that is what I tried to do with this guy. But he was so different than the other men I had met and I let my guard down. I recognized that I had slipped and let my emotions take over me. He still thinks I am all in with what he is doing(playing games with me and another). I thank God for the words you wrote...and receive them just for me. I have to get my heart out of this burning house before I become engulfed in the flames of heartbreak. It will be alright sista. It is already alright. Only the best for one of God's best. Blessings to you! Deborah Report Inappropriate Comment |


HEARTLIGHT
1/10/2008 3:29PM
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"...I can no longer afford to put my heart in harm's way, so I've got to walk...no run away from this situation. " Great decision! Bravo! and just think of all the calories you'll burn :)
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POCOHANTAZ
1/10/2008 1:33PM
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Amen...Have Faith and Wait... i say WAIT on the Lord Queen....He will send you your Prince...believe that...alot of time we think it is our time ...or try to rush God to do what we want Him to do...But WE will wait on this one...agree???
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M3NOMOFAT
1/9/2008 3:09PM
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Been there... I read this blog with my hand on my head and my mouth open. Unbelievable that you could put into a word the devastation of that incident and it's affect on my life and my walk with GOD. I always said to my accountability partner, " My heart will not follow my head. I know what to do but my heart is betraying me." Thankfully, I am delivered and you will be also. Read my blog for May 8, 2007. It was the first blog I did and it is still a favorite of mine. GOD is awesome! m3 Report Inappropriate Comment |


LAUNDRYCHICK
1/7/2008 6:40PM
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Ouch! ((((HUGS))))
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JANEYJAYE
1/6/2008 1:34AM
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So happy that you know that you deserve better! I too recently had a similar experience with a man I've known for two years as friends and we started dating only to have him push me away because he was emotionally unavailable. I am so ready to fall in love right now... gotta keep looking and trusting that I too will find a man that will open his heart to me. We deserve more. So I'm with ya, Girl, let's run!
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ATR1983
1/6/2008 12:37AM
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I am glad that you are listening with your head. This is your year and when the time is right god will send a man who is right for you. I have no doubt that this year have great thing in store for you! love ya!
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MSQUAN
1/5/2008 9:51PM
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D, This is your year of the fullness of the blessing. This is your year of New Beginnings and total Abudance, especially in this area. God has so much in store for you including that talior made Man of God! You are on the right track and I am excited to get the testimony of the real MOG God has for you! Girl you mka me want to use that EMOTIONALHEARTBURN that is REAL!! lol.. But is something when God stops us from getting hurt before he even happens, ya know? I know God has much in store for you! Love you!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MZPERSEVERANCE
1/5/2008 9:30PM
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There is a man out there, tailor made just for you and in due season....he'll be coming your way!!! Until then stay strong, Sis your in control Hope you enjoyed your outing!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


LASVEGASLES
1/5/2008 7:19PM
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"GOD IS our Refuge and Strength [mighty and impenetrable to temptation], a very present and well-proved help in trouble." -- Psalm 46:1 YOU are your own rock ~D . . . YOU deserve the best man and the best man deserves YOU!! Love you muchly! Les~ ;-) Report Inappropriate Comment |


GIRLINMOTION
1/5/2008 4:52PM
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I am glad you are listening to your head, this will prevent further "Heartburn" (love the term). You have come to far in life to let some man control your emotions. Lovers come and go, but friends are forever.
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KAYEREADER
1/5/2008 3:38PM
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You are right on point! I also agree with Lynn that maturity is a gift and safeplace. Your DIVINE DESIGN is already reserved just for you.
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2008LYNN
1/5/2008 8:13AM
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Isn't it wonderful to be mature. A whole lot of drama, totally avoided so you won't be preoccupied when the real one (man for you) presents himself.
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BLESSED3061
1/5/2008 5:45AM
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Alright now ! Trust in the one and only man that knows how to treat you and he wont break your heart. Run Dance, Run Dance LOL
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