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Feeling fruity

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Hi SparkFriends!
I shopped for groceries yesterday at Ward's grocery store. It is a small family-owned store with plenty of good produce. I buy most of my fruits, vegetables and meats there. I like Ward's because it has a friendly atmosphere, and the cashiers are friendly. I have been shopping at Ward's for several years.

I usually don't buy cherries because they are expensive, but Ward's had some for just $1.97 a pound, so I got two pounds. I also bought a cantaloupe, a papaya, a mango and a 4-pound bag of Valencia oranges. I now have a lot of fruit at home! I love to eat fruits. They are so sweet and delicious! I would rather have a nice serving of papaya than a chocolate bar or an ice cream.

To my disappointment, the cherries I got were a little old. Some of them have spots with mold starting. I picked out the bad ones and am eating the good ones. I was tempted to just throw out the whole bunch, but some of the cherries are still good. It requires a discriminating eye to distinguish the good from the bad cherries. If a cherry has even a little mold or the skin is broken, it goes in the garbage. Also, the ones that are a little too soft are overripe and don't taste good, so they go in the garbage too. I discovered that I really don't like cherries that much compared to other fruits.

One of my most favorite fruits is fresh strawberries. Here are some photos I took a while back of some very photogenic strawberries.





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OWNSMALLCLOTHES 8/30/2012 8:03AM

    Love cherries! Been doing a leptin reset lately as I am overweight.

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GREASYJOAN 7/22/2012 5:10PM

    Very photogenic indeed!

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-POOKIE- 7/22/2012 2:39PM

    I could eat fruit all day!

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 7/22/2012 9:18AM

    Nice! For me, I don't eat much fruit, too much sugar. More veggies than fruit. Hope the strawberries and cherries are organic!

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BOOKWORM27S 7/22/2012 12:55AM

    Love cherries, but they are so addictive! I can easily make an entire bag disappear on my own.

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GOPINTOS 7/21/2012 3:50PM

    Great pics!!

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CHERRY666 7/21/2012 2:04PM

    I agree! I love fruit and always have, but I've found I love it even more since I've (mostly) given up processed sweets. The flavors are more complex than before.

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HOUNDLOVER1 7/21/2012 12:59PM

    I've discovered that I like cherries more than I thought when a friend let us pick Bing Cherries from their tree. Some of them have worms in them, which is good because it slows me down, I have to open them first and check. My sugar consumption went up quite a bit the last two or three days eating them in larger quantities so I need to use common sense. emoticon
This morning I only had 3 with my breakfast of bacon and eggs.

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Doing well without tracking: Magnesium supplements

Thursday, July 19, 2012

I am trying to maintain my goal weight without tracking my food. I tried several times before to stop tracking and gained weight by overeating. I returned to tracking again. This time I am determined to make the transition to a less obsessive way of eating!

It has been eight days since I stopped tracking. I am weighing myself only once a week instead of every day. I weighed myself this morning and was happy to find that my weight was 139.2 pounds, which is up a pound from eight days ago, but not significantly different. I am very pleased!

I am eating more fresh fruits, which I love--strawberries, cherries, papayas, honeydew melons and oranges. The fruit satisfies my desire for sweets in a healthy way and makes my meals a pleasure.

I have given up nuts. I don't digest them well. Nuts are a trigger food that causes me to binge. I don't miss nuts because of the delicious fruits I am eating!

I started taking magnesium citrate supplements (800 mg; the DRI is 400 mg). I believe that I was deficient in magnesium. As soon as I started taking the magnesium, a mental fog lifted. I am thinking more clearly and handling stress better. If you take only one supplement, it should probably be magnesium.

Magnesium oxide is not absorbed well. It has only a 4% bioavailability. The bioavailablity of magnesium citrate is 90%. If you are taking a magnesium supplement that is magnesium oxide, you aren't getting the magnesium you need. Magnesium also helps with constipation, since it is a laxative. If you decide to take magnesium, start with 400 mg. If you begin to have loose stools, then decrease dosage until they are normal. Here is a link to a short article about magnesium:

www.vitamindcouncil.org/about-vitami
n-d/vitamin-d-cofactors/magnesium/


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KRHEMMER 8/4/2012 7:04AM

    I am in the same boat as you - I have been at maintenance for a while and have stopped tracking. I still weigh and measure many foods but no longer track it. It is going well and I find that I eat many more diverse foods if I don't have to worry about entering it in the computer. I weigh myself every day only because I like to spot any upward trends. It doesn't drive me crazy and gives me accountability. I have never thought of taking magnesium but your blog has prompted me to do some research. Good luck with you and the non-tracking lifestyle emoticon

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HISTORYRUNNER 7/21/2012 12:37AM

    Thanks for the info, Conrad, this helps and motivates me to include magnesium citrate in my daily supplements. Good work on the non-tracking lifestyle! Keep it up! emoticon

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-POOKIE- 7/20/2012 8:49AM

    I love fresh fruit, I could VERY easily go overboard on it though, have to plan carefully.

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 7/20/2012 6:58AM

    emoticon Most people are deficient in magnesium. I take it too! Have a wonderful weekend.

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BOOKWORM27S 7/20/2012 12:09AM

    I'm still tracking everday, but I'm trying to only weigh-in once a week. It is difficult.

I take Natural Calm, a powdered magnesium citrate supplement. I love it, you can definitely feel a difference when you have enough of this mineral.

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VHALKYRIE 7/19/2012 9:25PM

    Thanks for the reminder! Unfortunately, my supplement is magnesium oxide, so I'll have to wait until I finish my current supply. Fortunately, not a big bottle.

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NWFL59 7/19/2012 6:40PM

    Glad it working for you. i too take mineral supplements based on my doctor's direction. emoticon

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JUSTBIRDY 7/19/2012 5:50PM

    I am always fiddling with my magnesium intake. It seems that every time I go to the same store, I can't find the same kind or brand, and they all absorb differently. By the time I find out how much I need to take, the bottle is almost gone and I have to start all over again. Do you know if there are other ways to increase the absorption?

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USMAWIFE 7/19/2012 5:42PM

    I take 1000mg of magnesium a day since my thryoid meds cause a lot of constipation Never got loose stools except when my doctor told me to double the dosage for a week since I was so backed up.

And like doctors tell you, have your levels checked before starting any additional supplements as if could be harmful to your healfh

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Coffee at Starbucks

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This afternoon I had a small cup of coffee at Starbucks, which is a block from the Villa Ravine Apartments where I live. I had such a good time relaxing while I listened to the eclectic music, and watched people buying their lattes. Some people were fat and some were thin. There were old and young, even a mother with her baby. I saw a black lady at the register buying coffee who was the largest person I have ever seen! I admired her determination to participate in life despite her great weight. She was beautiful! I am inspired by her example.

I have been hiding in my apartment and not participating in life by socializing for fear of gaining weight. This has got to stop! I need to get out to restaurants with friends and not selfishly guard my weight loss by refusing to eat with others.

I stopped tracking my food and have not tracked for six days. It is wonderful not to weigh every little piece of food! Meals are much simpler to prepare and more enjoyable.

Your food is meant to be enjoyed. Eat what you enjoy! I enjoy fresh strawberries and papayas. I love fruits and eat a fruit at every meal. I don't know if this will cause weight gain. I haven't weighed myself since I stopped tracking.

My tracking and weighing was obsessive! It is not healthy to live in fear that you might gain a few pounds. In fact, I believe I may actually be too thin and could benefit from gaining five or ten pounds! I plan to weigh myself once a week instead of every day and not let my life be ruled by the scale! I am determined to make the transition to eating without tracking.

Good luck to all my SparkFriends with achieving your health and fitness goals!
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LINDAMARIEZ1 7/19/2012 8:49AM

    I got carried away with my fruits! mainly black cherries! I love those things! I didn't gain weight from eating them but I did stop losing weight and my sugar reading went up 20 points from the sugar! Sugar is sugar I guess! Over the years of watching my weight I have learned trying to be so perfect I was thinking about dieting 24/7. I have been dieting (or watching my weight) since I was 7 years old! It was a struggle but I stopped doing all that (not easy to do after so many years). I have to remind myself but guess what? When I did, one day I jumped on the scale to discover I had lost 4 pounds!!!! Now I remember I want to lose weight and push myself away a bit sooner! I am enjoying other activities besides dieting before my life has totally passed me by! I wish you happines along your journey as well, Conrad!

linda

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ERINMARIE424 7/18/2012 8:58PM

    I hope it works for you and that someday I can be disciplined enough to not have to track every day!

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GATORJOY 7/18/2012 5:43PM

    While I agree with you, food is meant to be enjoyed , and you can definitely be too thin which is unhealthy, I continue to track about 90 percent of the time. Since I am only a couple of pounds from my goal weight, I am not as serious about being accurate to the calorie of each food that I eat. I find that since I have tracked for two years now, I know what most foods I eat contain, and I know what I need to eat to stay thin and healthy. It has now become a way of life for me. I agree with ya though, you should not obsess with anything... moderation in all things. Good foods, socializing, sweet foods, even an occasional junk food or dessert is ok. Life is to enjoyed as many times as we can, because there are enough times we can't enjoy life .

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-POOKIE- 7/18/2012 11:20AM

    Interesting blog, certainly thought provoking.

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 7/18/2012 8:18AM

    emoticon I have found that once I have tracked my food for a while, I know what is good for me and what isn't. It is much easier to keep on track. I haven't tracked my food for about a year now and I am holding steady. Have a great day!

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BOOKWORM27S 7/18/2012 12:00AM

    Wow, this blog really resonated with me. Slowly over the years I've become more and more restrictive with my food, and in turn I find myself denying myself social experiences more and more. It is a high-price trade off, I wish I could just be normal and not gain weight while socializing. I ALWAYS overeat in those situations....

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HISTORYRUNNER 7/17/2012 11:05PM

    Conrad, your happiness and enjoyment of life at Starbucks shines through this blog. I believe you have discovered a pearl of wisdom concerning your relationship with food. To enjoy food is very different from being controlled by it, whether by binging, or by obsessively weighing, measuring, and tracking. I think you are on the life-affirming path.

Personally I can relate with you in having to gain weight - I struggle to put on a few pounds (I weigh 120-124 on a 5'7" frame, would do well to gain at least five pounds). But, I don't weigh myself daily, don't track the caloric content of what I eat, and I think I have a lot less stress in my life for that.

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HOUNDLOVER1 7/17/2012 8:43PM

    Conrad,
I was so happy to read this blog. I think you are on the right track. I hope you'll enjoy many wonderful meals with friends in the coming days. emoticon emoticon emoticon

Birgit

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CHERRY666 7/17/2012 7:53PM

    Good luck! What you wrote here: "It is wonderful not to weigh every little piece of food! Meals are much simpler to prepare and more enjoyable." That's how I feel. I enjoy cooking, but having to measure things just so sucks the fun out of it. Improvising is harder. You SHOULD be able to enjoy your food, and when you're making something and have to measure every tiny bit it sort of takes the fun out of making it in the first place.

I tried tracking my calories in the past and it made me extremely unhappy, which transferred to other areas of my life as well. You wrote you've been "selfishly guard(ing) my weight loss by refusing to eat with others." (What an excellent description.) That's not worth it. Life should be enjoyed. Isolating yourself to keep your weight down isn't worth it. A lot of people on Spark say you have to, have to, HAVE to track, but I don't think that's necessarily true. Not for everyone. Learning to listen to your body and its cues is hard but so worth it. You already know what good and not-so-good food choices are. I'm sure you have a good handle on serving sizes. You'll still have to watch yourself and keep an eye on things (It's not all about listening to your body, but listening to your voice of reason, as well), but that's different than counting calories, measuring every tiny thing, etc. It will probably take practice, but I think you can do it, and well. Good luck!

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DANAWALKER4 7/17/2012 4:14PM

  Now it is time for you to watch that you do not lose all the ground you have gained. You will need to be some watchful. It is easy to put a lot of weight back on if you are not careful. I am glad you have reached your goal. Just because you go out to eat does not mean that you have to "pig out". You can maintain by being careful.

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Recent photos

Monday, July 02, 2012

Here are two photos of me taken by my friend Mark in my apartment, so you can see how I look. People are telling me I am too thin, but I don't feel thin. I still have some abdominal fat around my middle!

Six-pack abs are a unrealistic goal. I lose weight last from my abdominal area. I don't want to go much lower with my weight. It would be unhealthy. I will have to be content with weighing 135 to 140 pounds and be happy to maintain. But I miss the positive feedback of seeing my weight steadily decreasing!
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GOPINTOS 7/13/2012 8:34AM

    You look great!!! I am hoping someday others say I look too thin. ha Really though, I think part of it, is a way to make themselves feel better. It's like if I can't do it, you can't either kind of thing. They would rather you be heavier and miserable like them... so that they can feel better about themselves, does that make sense? I know what I am trying to say, just don't know if I am saying it. I think you look fantastic!!! emoticon

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 7/13/2012 8:25AM

    Don't worry about what others think. If you feel good, that is what counts. If you want to lose the tummy you can do core exercises and if you do strength training you will build some muscle, which is very important as we get older.

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BOOKWORM27S 7/3/2012 9:32AM

    I think you look great! People tell me I'm too thin. I think the real problem is; obesity is so common now, that people perceive a person of normal body weight as "too skinny" because most people are overweight or obese!

I know exactly what you mean, I call it " the maintenance blues." I miss the excitement of the scale decreasing, too.

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EGALITAIRE 7/3/2012 9:11AM

    You look fit and healthy - what you're doing seems to be working - I have no doubt you will be able to maintain.

Stay Strong

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-POOKIE- 7/3/2012 8:34AM

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ERINMARIE424 7/2/2012 9:52PM

    I think you look great! And you can find joy in maintaining the same healthy weight!

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EWEFLUFFY 7/2/2012 6:04PM

    I think you're looking fine and trim! You've done a great job!

Now, the challenge will be to keep it off, just enjoy the positive feed back of being able to maintain!! I think that is more difficult than the actual losing (I speak from experience on that one!)....
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CHERRY666 7/2/2012 3:58PM

    You look great! Perhaps they're telling you you're too thin because they know you from before, so the change is a lot for them? You look great, though.

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BRENDARK 7/2/2012 3:40PM

    Looking great!

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BOB240 7/2/2012 2:31PM

    Hi... you might find some merit in weight training..The fat around your middle would go..

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Cheese causes constipation

Saturday, June 30, 2012

I tried to start eating cheese again after several years of avoiding it. I ate one ounce (28 g) of medium Cheddar cheese with my salad at lunch every day for a week. In the beginning, it caused a mild upset stomach. Then after a few days, I got constipated! I'm okay now because I took some magnesium supplements, but that sure was scary!

When I searched the internet, I discovered that cheese is well known to cause constipation, as does dairy. I knew there was a reason that the Paleo Diet I follow doesn't allow dairy. It wasn't the lactose because the Cheddar cheese I ate has almost no lactose. I now consider cheese to be a junk food to be avoided at all costs.

Dairy is a common source of calcium and many people consume dairy for the calcium. I found an informative article that tells the truth about calcium intake. From what the author says, there is a con game being played by the dairy lobby to sell calcium-containing dairy. Eating extra calcium doesn't prevent bone fractures. The DRI that has been set is much too high because the dairy lobby misled government officials who set the daily recommended intake for calcium. You can read this article at the following site:

www.drmcdougall.com/misc/2007nl/feb/
whenfriendsask.htm


My experience with the Cheddar cheese was a learning experience. I will just not eat it any more!
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BOOKWORM27S 7/1/2012 9:16PM

    I love magnesium supplements. A natural way to get things "going" again.

I rarely eat hard cheese, mostly 1 Tbsp. of feta or a small serving of soft cheese.

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CINDYTW 7/1/2012 2:10PM

    The constipation is one way the body reacts to a casein allergy or intolerance. Lactose is not the only issue with dairy. Your body may not be able to break it down, or treat it as an allergen as mine does. Glad you figured it out!

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WOLFSPIRITMOM 7/1/2012 1:28PM

    Thanks Conrad. I have never liked cheese and I guess it is a good thing. Love the article. I know Vit D and other like Vit K are what keep bones healthy, not a lot of calcium. The only dairy I have in my diet is Greek Yogurt, full fat and cream in my coffee. However with the yogurt I have flax seed, nutritional yeast, wheat germ, cinnamon and berries. That counteracts the constipation issue. I have 500 mg calcium/magnesium with Vit D and C at bedtime. Your body can only handle 500 mg max at a time. Have a great day!

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ME_FIRST 7/1/2012 12:57PM

    I eat cheese just about every day and have milk with my morning tea, and I often have just the problem which is the opposite of constipation. I guess everyone reacts differently to various foods. Glad you figured this out for you though.



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HOUNDLOVER1 6/30/2012 10:56PM

    Conrad, I have to assume that different people have different levels of tolerance for dairy. I'm curious about what it might be in dairy that causes constipation.
I consume huge amounts every day, typically a 16 oz. glass of milk, at least 6-8 oz. cheese of varies kinds, at least 10 oz. of yogurt and sometimes a big bowl of ice cream in addition all in one day. I've never had problems with this. I'm wondering if there are certain additives to milk can cause the problem rather than dairy itself or if maybe the problem only occurs with eating low-fat rather than full-fat dairy.
On the other hand I don't think it is at all necessary to eat dairy to get your calcium.

Birgit

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ERINMARIE424 6/30/2012 10:38PM

    Glad you figured out the issue! I have cut way back on cheese - just a small amount a couple of times a week, tops!

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NWFL59 6/30/2012 6:29PM

    I think your premise is bull.
I certainly agree that a side effect for adults consuming dairy can be the constipation you experienced especially if they're regular diet has less than 25 grams of fiber (daily). But to then generalize that to all dairy is junk food? Hogwash! emoticon

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GOPINTOS 6/30/2012 5:28PM

    Glad you figured it out!

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SPYGIRL22007 6/30/2012 4:15PM

  Do you get your calcium from supplements then or do you get it from other sources? Broccoli, Lettuce etc? Just curious. I don't eat a lot of dairy. I like cheese occasionally but I have greek yogurt and Almond Milk which I love. When I have a lot of dairy, I do feel sick so I know I am sensitive to it.

Have a great day!

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LINDAMARIEZ1 6/30/2012 4:00PM

    on less you might be sensitive to dairy in case (like me) you get diarrea from cheese! emoticon

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