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Nobody's Fool

Monday, April 01, 2013

Well, it's April 1st otherwise known as April's Fool Day. Time to begin a NEW MINI CHALLENGE which I have named appropriately "Nobody's Fool". However before I get into that, let me wrap up March's Challenge.

Peanut's Birthday Challenge went off without a hitch. I dropped 3 more lbs as of this morning bringing my total to 8 lbs for the month. emoticon My goal of 5 lbs was met and surpassed!! emoticon Definitely a positive way to start off my mini challenges.

Starting today as I mentioned above, I will begin a new mini challenge, Nobody's Fool. Since I did so well with my 5 lb goal last month, I have once again set a goal of 5 lbs for the month. After all I am a firm believer in"if it isn't broke, don't fix it!". emoticon

Now I know I listed a whole host of personal goals in a previous blog that I want to add to my lifestyle plan to help with issues such as emotional, anxiety related as well as health but honestly after the first week of last month's challenge I decided to place them on the back burning and keep my focus for the first challenge on eating right and MOVING MY HINEY! I think I began to feel nearly right away that I had bitten off more than I could chew (no pun intended), and really just needed to start with the basics. So I have adjusted my approach and therefore my plan. I will add only ONE NEW PERSONAL GOAL at a time and stick with that UNTIL I feel it has become habit, anywhere from 3 weeks to 3 months. This month, besides eating right and moving my hiney emoticon I will focus on TRACKING MY FOOD. Tracking has evaded me for many months now but I do believe it is of vital importance to the healthy lifestyle I want to adopt.

So for APRIL's Challenge:
I will eat healthy. emoticon
I will move my hiney. emoticon
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I will track my food. emoticon

As for yesterday, Easter Sunday, it turned out to be a relatively nice day. DH and I enjoyed spending some time with the grandson and daughter after surviving the very real possibility Saturday that Sunday would end up a total disaster. *My daughter went completely off rails Saturday over a minor incident but recovered quick enough to salvage Easter. I am thankful that my grandson was able to enjoyed the day. He loved the Easter goodies we gave him and the egg hunt we hosted for hom as well as the bike and skateboard we gave him for his birthday. emoticon

Happy April!! Have an awesome week Sparklers! Make it a good one. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

  
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HEALTHYSLIM2 4/5/2013 9:46PM

    Good challenge - You got this! I know it!!!
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Tracking your food will probably be a huge part of the success picture.

Good luck!
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2BE-MY-BEST 4/1/2013 4:06PM

    Happy to read you are doing so great! Your right about if it not broke don't fix it. What are you doing to get a 5 pound loss in one month. Share the secret to your success. Keep pressing on!

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LKWQUILTER 4/1/2013 12:52PM

    I know you will succeed Sallie. WTG on the weight loss.

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SJACK06S 4/1/2013 10:25AM

  This is a great way to do it! Good luck in April!

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CLASSYLADYMAY 4/1/2013 9:01AM

    Awesome. ! I know u can do this !!

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ANNIE924 4/1/2013 8:52AM

    Great going, Sallie. Congratulations on your loss and surpassing your goal for March. I'm sure April will be another great month for you.

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GOLFGMA 4/1/2013 8:09AM

    You did great to surpass your goal for the month. I'm sure you will do the same this month with that type dedication! emoticon

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Happy Easter Sparkies!

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Wreaths are done and all set to display for Spring/ Easter. Planning on giving the pink flower one to the daughter and grandson for their place.







Wishing everyone a FABULOUS weekend and a HAPPY Easter! Take care, be safe, and keep on sparking!!! emoticon

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BUSYGRANNY5 3/30/2013 11:27PM

    Love the wreaths!!!! Have a great Easter

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PMFISH 3/30/2013 8:41PM

    Happy Easter to you! Thanks for sharing with your pictures.

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LKWQUILTER 3/30/2013 8:00PM

    Beautiful Sallie. You area so talented.

Wishing you a blessed Easter too.
((HUGS))

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HOLLYS_NEW_LIFE 3/30/2013 7:58PM

    Those are really beautiful! Happy Easter to you and your family!

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BRENDABUNNY 3/30/2013 7:45PM

    Nice job Sallie they are emoticon Happy Easter emoticon emoticon

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CAPECODLIGHT 3/30/2013 6:58PM

    Nice job on the wreaths!

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GEEKYGRANDMOMMY 3/30/2013 4:56PM

    What great wreaths!

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RURAL3 3/30/2013 4:27PM

    Love the middle one

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DIVAMAMAOFTWO 3/30/2013 1:21PM

    Gorgeous wreaths! You are so CREATIVE!!

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Busy Last Two Days

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Went shopping yesterday. I picked up 2 blouses and a couple pairs of earrings for myself. emoticon Also bought the supplies needed for 2 Easter projects I am making, some additional goodies for the grandson's Easter basket as well as the supplies for his class treats. DH and I looked at mattresses and bunk beds as well. I am happy to say I got in a A LOT of walking too!!

I am feeling very blessed this week as DH and I get to enjoy some time with the grandson on three different occasions. emoticon Yesterday we picked him up from school after our shopping and took him to see the movie The Great and Powerful Oz. Really good movie by the way for anyone interested. Afterwards we had dinner at Brixx and treated the little guy to ice cream at Coldstone.

Had an impromptu quiz session with the daughter when we brought the grandson back home. She has 3 finals today. So she asked if I could quiz her on Anatomy & Physiology II. Shockingly we actually had a good time, sharing many laughs over my mispronouncing some of the medical terms. It's been 35 years since I took the very same course and well, lets just say I am really glad I am not taking it now. emoticon

This morning I put together 30 pkgs of Peeps On A Stick for the grandson's class. I think they came out nice and hope the kids will enjoy them!



This afternoon DH and I are again picking up the grandson from school and taking him party supply shopping for his birthday party on Sunday than to his favorite indoor play place for some run-around fun and later dinner at Fridays.

Only 4 more days until the little guy turns 6. We are definitely in party mode this week and enjoying every minute. emoticon

  
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HEALTHYSLIM2 3/23/2013 5:15PM

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BRENDABUNNY 3/20/2013 5:39PM

    That's wonderful enjoy your time and keep having fun you deserve it emoticon

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LKWQUILTER 3/20/2013 2:30PM

    Really happy for you Sallie. Keep on keeping on. ((HUGS))

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Weigh In

Monday, March 18, 2013

Full week in the works! However first things first. I dropped 2 more pounds this week which means I have already met my goal for this month's challenge. 5 lbs! emoticon I have two weeks left for the month and can't wait to see what I can accomplish with those. My motivation is back on and strong. Hoping to keep it that way.

This week will be a busy one as I mentioned above. I have shopping to do for Easter treats that I'm putting together this week for my grandson's class, materials to pick up for some Easter crafts that I am hoping to get started on, a few more goodies to place in the grandson's Easter basket, and some Spring clothes for ME.

YES, I am actually doing some shopping for me for a change. Which is a huge step in itself. Very huge!! I am so tired of wearing the same old, boring things. And when I say old I really mean OLD. I have not been one to do much in the way of shopping for myself, or doing anything for myself for that matter. The whole obese thing along with the increasing low self-esteem that comes with growing ever larger put a stop to that years ago. As fat as I have been and still am, I have hated shopping for clothes so I have gotten by with just the essentials over the years. A couple pairs of black slacks (stretchies) and a few tops (all pull overs), a basic black purse and a few pairs of shoes. Perhaps I purchase a new top or two every other year or so but not beyond that. Instead I buy for everyone else. I must be the only woman on Earth that has only 3 pairs of shoes (a flat, fitness, and flip flop) and a small handful of clothes in her walk in closet. I once on a whim bought a set of 100 Huggable Hangers, and after putting my clothes on them stood there, wondering what was I going to use the other 90 for. emoticon When I hear my sister in law, an executive secretary, who always dresses so nicely, speak of owning 50 or more pairs of shoes, purses and tons of clothing, I can't even imagine. Even after a loss of 100 pounds I still find it difficult to buy clothes that I feel look good on me. I have found the mind is not so easily changed and when I look at myself today, I still see UGLY. Part of the new changes that I am trying to adopt this year is to change my present mindset and begin to break out of the mode I have self imposed on ME. To learn for the very first time to look out for, and take better care of #1, in all things. Shopping for myself is a positive step in the right direction, I think. Although it may take me awhile to truly get the hang of it.

Anyway back to this week's agenda. I also have wrapping to do for the grandson's birthday which is Sunday. Didn't quite get around to this last week. Wednesday afternoon will be spent with the little guy ordering balloons and picking up goodies bags and treats for his party as well as grabbing some dinner with him. At some point I need to fit in some Spring cleaning too. Didn't get to all the closets as planned so need to finish them up before I can move on. And last but certainly not least DH and I are looking forward to the grandson's birthday and party this weekend!! Can't wait to celebrate with him. emoticon

  
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HEALTHYSLIM2 3/23/2013 5:19PM

    You deserve these new clothes!! YAY for you!!!
I already read your other blog saying you had been succesful finding a few things.
Keep up the good work. You are worth it!
You are beautiful, and don't forget it!!!!
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RURAL3 3/18/2013 3:37PM

    congrats on the weight loss. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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CAPECODLIGHT 3/18/2013 2:23PM

    Phew! You are a busy bee! Congratulations on the weight loss. You should be very proud of what you have accomplished so far. Exciting to hear about the clothes shopping. I am not much of a shopper. I have one everyday purse and a clutch for dress up. My shoes are mostly fitness/walking related, a couple of pairs of Crocs and two pairs of dress up flats. As a retiree, i just don't need a lot.
My biggest switch was buying things that weren't black when I lost weight. Compliments followed; so I guess people were all silently hoping I'd wear a color from time to time. Enjoy your shopping - you should treat yourself to something you feel great in.

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ANNIE924 3/18/2013 12:28PM

    emoticon Indeed. You are doing great.

Sounds like you have a very full week ahead of you. Don't forget your Sallie time. emoticon

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LKWQUILTER 3/18/2013 11:13AM

    WTG Sallie!!!! You have done super GREAT!!! Have fun shopping and boy do I know what you mean. I still look at large women sizes first and have problems accepting that I can wear better looking clothes that actually fit and don't just hang. lol Keep it up Sallie. ((HUGS))

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The Grandson's Life Is About To Change

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Itís turning out to be a BIG MONTH as well as year for my grandson. Not only will he turn 6 next Sunday but his father just made 2 whopping announcements that will affect his little life in a giant way. The biggest of these is my grandson is going to become a BIG BROTHER in the fall! As one might imagine, he is excited!

His father announced this week that he is not only married but that he and his NEW wife of 3 months are pregnant with their first.

Hereís a little background: Our daughter and her ex were together for 3 years, married for 2 and a half. They separated January 09, and were divorced as of June 2010. Since the separation, her ex has had a revolving door of women running in and out of their son's life with one live-in arrangement for one year. Multiple quick relationships are not unusual for my ex SIL as this was also his MO before, as well as during his relationship with my daughter. His unfaithfulness was the reason our daughter ended the marriage. The man may be 31 but he is as mature as a, well, I wonít get into that.

Anyway this past November he broke up with one woman he had been dating for three months and immediately entered into another relationship just prior to Thanksgiving. Nope, no surprise there! However six weeks later, he and the new girlfriend Shannon woke up one morning and thought it would be a grand idea to get married!! emoticon So off the two of them went to the local jail. Yes, I did say jail as the court house is closed Saturdays. Three days before Christmas, the two of them said I do with NO friends, family nor his son present.

Fast forward twelve weeks, they have now informed his son that they are married AND also expecting! Talk about a double whammy! As for the marriage part, my ex SIL did inform my daughter of the marriage back in December when it took place however he asked her not to tell their son yet. He and the new wife have had their first ultrasound and decided this week it was time to share all of their news with not only his son but their parents, family and friends as well.

So this year my grandson will turn 6, adjust to Shannon being part of his family, finish out Kindergarten in June, enter 1st grade in August and welcome his very first sibling into his life in late September. WOW! Itís definitely a lot to take in for someone so young. However I am sure he will rise to the occasion as well as be an emoticon BIG BROTHER!

As for the new wife of the dadís, our daughter is holding off for now from allowing their son to refer to Shannon as step mom however she is encouraging a healthy relationship between the two of them. Shannon 29 seems like a nice girl for what we have seen so far and know of her presently. Except for perhaps her "somewhat insane" decision to marry someone after only 6 weeks. emoticon Especially in this day and age, after a failed marriage of her own. We can excuse the ex SIL on the grounds that he never has made sense and this is something he would do but seriously what was she thinking? She appears to be a smart girl except for this rather rash decision. Nonetheless I guess I can't fault her too much, my own daughter was under this idiot's spell too for awhile. Eventually she woke up, thankfully. Anyhow I have spoken to Shannon just three times myself so far and she comes across warm and friendly. She is an RN working currently on her Masters to become a Nurse Practitioner. She is Christian and attends church regularly. She was married before at an early age and is still VERY CLOSE to her ex in laws but not with her ex. She is communicative with our daughter. She has been to our grandsonís sporting events several times and most importantly he seems comfortable with her. She even asked my daughter this week if she would consider being like a ďsecond mom or special auntĒ to the new baby and be an active part in his or her life, also if she would like to see the ultrasound video as well as be present for the birth. She has asked my daughter to attend the baby shower as well in August.

Whew!! All of this in just one week certainly has my head spinning, so I had to ask my daughter if any of it is making her uneasy. She told me no, not at all. She said her feelings for her ex are long gone, and she has since moved on. She has put all the heartache of the past behind her. She knows exactly what her ex is like and why she left the marriage. Nevertheless she has worked hard on establishing a healthy communication with him, and vice versa, for the sake of their son. She is in a long term relationship with Dan now (3 years and counting), is happy and no longer concerns herself with her ex's personal life except when "his issues" affect their son. She insists on keeping an open dialog up and running but is also not afraid to speak her mind when needed just as she did when her ex told her of his 6 week courtship and quickie marriage in December. She added that her priority is that of her son and his well-being. As long as Shannon treats her son well, than she is fine with welcoming her into the mix. She says she likes Shannon so far especially the fact that she seems willing to communicate with her as well as accept the fact that ďthe exĒ and her will continue to communicate with one another regardless of any relationships or marriages on either side. My daughter also told me she has already given thought to Shannonís requests of this week. My daughter knows this new baby will be a very important part of her sonís life and therefore she has no issue with being an active part of her sonís new extended family.

I have to say, regardless of how difficult and drama-filled my relationship is with my daughter I must applaud her on the effort she is making as it pertains to these NEW circumstances in both her and her sonís lives. I feel she is showing maturity way beyond her years. Now no one can predict what the future will hold or whether my ex SIL's new marriage will last or not nevertheless there is a new life on the way that will forever be intertwine with my grandsonís. So CONGRATULATIONS GRANDSON! Pepa and I will do our part to help you in any way in your NEW role as BIG Brother. Your baby brother or sister is going to be awfully lucky to have you in his or her life. emoticon

  
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HEALTHYSLIM2 3/24/2013 1:39PM

    Wow is right. Yes, it does sound like your daughter has her head in the right place in regards to this aspect of her (and your DG's) life!
I'll keep this situation in my prayers, and was most glad to read that this new woman Shannon is a strong Christian. Maybe she really will be able to help your former SIL see the error of his former ways and change his life for the better (and in the process be more of a positive role model for your dear GS!!)
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LINDA! 3/16/2013 10:36PM

    A great picture. Many good wishes that all works out well for the sake of your DGS.

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LKWQUILTER 3/14/2013 4:18PM

    WOW!! You daughter is certainly handling things well--much better than most I am sure. I know that you are proud of her Sallie. I am sure little guy will be a great "big" brother.

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CATLADY52 3/14/2013 4:11PM

    Just want to say WOW! That was quite a bit to get dropped on you at one time. You're taking it quite well. emoticon emoticon

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CAPECODLIGHT 3/14/2013 1:42PM

    Mercy! That's a lot in a week! My parents got engaged after six weeks and married a month after and were married for 47 years before my dad passed. So stranger things have happened. Maybe this time the SIL has grown up. How exciting for your grandson!

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ELSCO55 3/14/2013 12:04PM

    WOW. He will certainly be a wonderul big brother. What a wonderful daughter you have.

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KASEYCOFF 3/14/2013 11:56AM

    In a word - WOW, big changes for all of you--!!!
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