Sunday, December 16, 2012
I have been completely heartbroken over Friday's cruel and senseless violence in Connecticut. I can't even wrap my head around the amount of craziness it would take to do such an act, and to innocent children no less. I can't begin to imagine the suffering the children and adults went through nor the pain the parents, families and friends of the victims are going through now. To have this happen during the holidays only serves to heighten the heartache of those affected. Sad doesn't even begin to cover it! As I weep my own share of tears, I choose to celebrate the lives of the teachers, principle and school counselor who tried, some in vain to help the children escape the terror that day. They were heroes every one. My thoughts and prayers go out to the families of those who were killed or injured. May God bring them comfort.
Parents everywhere need to take a moment to give that special child in their lives an extra hug or two and tell them how much they are loved. There are moms and dads today as well as siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins that will never get the chance to do that again.
And as for the media! Enough with the sensationalism. I don't want to see the face of the idiot that murdered defenseless children and adults plastered all over every newspaper and channel anymore. Nor do I want to hear his name, about his background, what his family, friends or neighbors have to say about him, or every psychologist on the planet try to access why he did what he did. I don't want to hear repeatedly how horribly the children died, especially that one was shot 11 times. And I don't want to hear the surviving children nor their parents asked over and over again to describe for the cameras the horrors they witnessed that day. Let them be! If you need something news worthy than by all means keep the focus on the beautiful human beings whose lives were cut short. I much rather hear or read about their precious lives and what will be done to help their families find some peace and begin to heal than give the maniac who killed them any additional publicity. He, and other idiots like him don't deserve any!
Thursday, December 13, 2012
I have a computer that works again. Although I used my time without it wisely it sure is nice to be Sparking once more. I plan to spend some time this weekend catching up with everyone. As for me, here's the latest.
Weigh in this week was a complete bust. No loss what so ever! Oh well, sometimes that happens so I will not let it get me down. I have been doing well so far and therefore will keep my focus on that.
DH and I have finished decorating the inside of our house for the holidays and bought our tree. It's up and ablaze with colored lights, silver garland and Disney ornaments. Our grandson's Disney Monorail runs around underneath. I will attempt to take some decent pictures of the tree and house, inside and out this weekend and post.
In other news we had a scare concerning our daughter last week. She developed upper chest and back pain that wouldn't go away. She had no other symptoms, and her behavior that night was "normal" for her. Anyway she ended up in the ER while DH and I took care of our grandson. After running a barrage of tests they found nothing of concern. Her heart, blood pressure, lungs and blood work all came back with excellent results. I'm thinking it was stress related as her dad and I also found out that night her doctor had put her on a BP medication 2 months ago because she is experiencing anxiety in regards to her college exams. Her doctor explained to her at that time he didn't want to give her something that would make her loopy and a low dose BP med will help with anxiety without side effects. She takes it as needed. Anyway she seems fine now. Although I must admit she has become increasingly angry and high strung since she was a teen and is always ready to strike at a moment's notice, usually at ME. So I wouldn't be surprised if she was experiencing physical symptoms related to this.
DH and I had a great time at the movies with our grandson last week. We saw the new Guardians movie and it was very good. My grandson was on the edge of his seat the whole time and absolutely loved it! Afterwards we went to the bookstore and I bought him the book. I know I know, Christmas is just a short time away but I couldn't resist. Besides, the day he was born, SPOILING became part of my DNA. Nevertheless I do try to remember not to go too overboard.
Yesterday we took the little guy Christmas shopping for his mom. He selected a pair of small loop sterling silver earrings. Simple but nice. He also picked up a Car Care Kit for his Pepa, my husband. We also bought toys for the Angel Tree and Toys for Tots programs and dropped them off. I think it's important for him to know Christmas isn't just about getting presents but doing nice things for others too. Unfortunately this is a message he does not receive from either parent. Anyway afterwards we took him to ride the Christmas Train at the mall, and to see some holiday lights before having dinner and delivering him back home. Next week, we will join him on a visit to see Santa, view Christmas Lights at the lake and to see the display of Gingerbread Houses at the Grove Park along with his mom and her boyfriend Dan.
As for Christmas shopping in general I have only 2 more gifts and stocking stuffers to get. Go ME! Of course I still have cards to get out, presents to wrap, cookies to bake, pies to make and a gingerbread house of my own to create with the help of my grandson, not to mention Christmas dinner on the big day. So I'm guessing the next 11 days will be FULL and FUN!
Have an awesome weekend everyone! Keep Sparking!!
Monday, December 03, 2012
I wasn't able to get the inside decorations up this weekend as planned. No sleep + bad headache = nothing getting accomplished! I am hoping to get them up by Wednesday though. I will post a picture once all is done.
DH and I will be seeing the grandson on Wednesday instead of Tuesday this week. Planning to go see the new Guardian movie with the little guy, (little boy teams up Santa, Tooth Fairy, Jack Frost, etc to save children everywhere). It's rated 5 stars and reviews are good so should be fun!
Aside from this I'm just trying to figure out how to get more sleep this week (an on-again, off-again issue) and rid myself of a bad annoying headache or head pain as the case may be. DH thinks it's a sinus issue (left side from above my eye to back of head). He gets a lot of sinus infections and swears to no end this is what I have. So I will call the doctor and let him tell me if antibiotics are needed.
Wishing my Sparkfriends a good week!
Saturday, December 01, 2012
First off I am ecstatic to report I dropped 3 lbs at my last weigh in on the 27th. That counts for Thanksgiving week with 3 moderate meals of "turkey with all the trimmings" (not all in the same day mind you) and 1/2 slice of pumpkin pie included. I am super proud of myself. This brings me down 24 lbs with only 6 lbs to go to eliminate the reminder of this year's regain. So far so good!
In other news, I have been without my computer for the past week. Prior to that I had only intermittent access to the internet. Virus issues! The Geek Squad at Best Buy has been doing their thing with it and returned it to me late yesterday. I learned the viruses (2) tagged along when I downloaded the latest version of Adobe Flash. I wasn't even aware that could happen. Let me tell you it's rough when you have no internet. I didn't realise how much I have come to depend on it to keep in touch with family and friends. Nevertheless I did managed to get a lot done.
Our Christmas decorations outside are up. DH and I bought 3 new pieces this year. A set of white light Christmas Trees (1 large, 1 small), a large white light Reindeer and a tall inflatable Nutcracker. These go along well with our Super duper inflatable Santa, super duper tall inflatable penguin, inflatable Mickey Mouse with presents, and hard plastic light up Santa, stackable gifts, Polar Bear, and Snowman. Our house, hedge, and bushes, are all trimmed in white lights and our sidewalk is lined with candy canes. Garland, big red bows and wreaths here and there add the finishing touches. Next up the inside and 2 Christmas trees (1 with ornaments we have collected from our families as well as throughout the years), and 1 Disney inspired complete with monorail running underneath!
I also got busy tackling the office desk, my dressers, and my side of the closet. This weekend I need to sort through my husband's dressers and his side of the closet, with or without his help I might add. Most likely without since he HATES getting rid of anything!!
As for this week, plans to take the grandson to the movies on Tuesday are in the works. So is the official start of our Christmas shopping. I found out the other day that in our county alone there will be 1200 children slated to go without Christmas presents this year. It's times like these I really wish I would win the lottery (of course I would first have to play it) but nonetheless DH and I will do our best to buy for as many as we can. The Angel Tree and Toys for Tots have been our charities of choice at Christmas time for years now. We also do a local food drive. And for the past 5 years we have made certain to include our grandson in our participation in hopes the act of giving whether it be with food, clothing, gifts or time, rubs off on him.
As for our daughter, she is still grouchy and mean spirited as ever. No changes expected but I must say she is doing well in her first semester back at college. I pray she hangs in there this time around and finishes what she starts. Believe it or not she wants to be an RN. I say more power to her. Perhaps she will eventually learn to care, not judge and have compassion in the process. There is always hope, right? In the meantime I will pray mightily for her future patients.
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