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so busy- but i got it

Friday, March 18, 2011

I'm blogging right now part for procrastination and part as a way to gather my thoughts. Both my husband and I are very busy these days.

He is busy with an internship, being a full-time grad student and working a part-time job- he's running out of the house like a bat outta hell all the time.

As for me, I am finishing up grad school, which includes prepping for the competency exams, I am working two part-time jobs, am helping out at my church (writing articles and they want me to prep a class), working on my ACE certification, and am in full-time recovery from an ED.

I am not complaining- it's all good work- I just need a plan to manage it all.

Today:
Have to write the article
Grade the midterm exams (which can take FOREVER)

Tomorrow:
Work on three routines for leading Zumba
Make sure I'm signed up for the comps

Sunday:
Laundry
Get ahold of book for book review

Monday:
Class and ballet

I think that's as far ahead as I can plan right now. I just need to focus on the task at hand.

Here I go!

  
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LINDA! 3/21/2011 9:16PM

    You are so busy. I hope you take time out for yourself.

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TIME2BLOOM4ME 3/19/2011 3:20PM

    Wow your so busy !!! You can get portable ballet barres on ebay. There is one person who makes some which are powercoated pink, purple, blue, or other colors. The wall mounted one is really nice though and very stable. I love it.

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C-MERRIE11 3/19/2011 11:55AM

  omg, it will be Aaamazing to be done with grad school. for now, the zumba and ballet are really great creative outlets, alternatives to the sort of work i do for school and my jobs. actually, the other night i woke up in the middle of the night with an idea for a routine for zumba- lame? haha :)

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MISS_FIT_ 3/18/2011 10:54PM

    this is a lot of stuff you are dealing with! i can't imagine the relief you are going to feel once you finish grad school! i hope that the zumba and ballet and adding fun and not stress to your to-do list! emoticon

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NPA4LOSS 3/18/2011 1:17PM

    emoticon Take care of yourself in all of this!

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ETAGGEL 3/18/2011 11:55AM

    Well done you! You are a busy person but it sounds like an interesting life you lead. Keep up the good work!

Phyllis

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Pleasure

Saturday, March 05, 2011

I am writing this blog with a couple glasses of wine in me, which is enough to make me tipsy and a kinda bold (we were celebrating my parent anniversary, 39 years!).

As ED (eating disorder) has decreased, pleasure has increased.

My approach to food and life and body has changed. I cook french food and drink wine. I dance instead of grinding it out on the elliptical every day (dont get me wrong, ill still hop on the elliptical to cash in a big calorie burn and give my dear knees a break). Ed was all about control, not my control, but control over me, where ED took things away from me.

The picture now: I eat dark chocolate at night, creme brulee on special occasions, I've put together 3 routines for my Zumba instructor (who said next year I could take over one of her classes next year if I'm in the area!), I can get through stressful situations without bingeing, and tonight my lovely green dress, well, I had a hard time keeping it from slipping off, haha! I definitely still struggle with ED behavior and body dis-morphic critical well BS to put it gently... but I am having way more fun than before! When I go to group I see the girls (who I love) who are still deeply 'in it', the fear they feel, their constant apologizing, they are still to bonded to ED to enjoy being who they are.

This week my usual session with my counselor took all of 30 minutes (its usually a 50 minute session)- we just didnt have much to talk about. She dais "We'll take it! You're doing great, go ahead and head home!" So great!

Ok, so this is spring break and here is the picture of my week:

I want to try several new recipes
I noticed I havent been meeting the 60 minute a day rec. for cardio from the gov., so I'll start by making sure to get in 45 minutes 6 days this week. I'll add on to my regular workouts by adding on my own dance workouts for 5-15 minutes each day.
Plus, someone got me the physique 57 workouts, so i'll give those ago a couple days this week for my strength training, and then I want to do the TA MW (original) at least once this week since my arms are showing the lack of her awesome care.
We have a couple of special bottles of wine to enjoy this week (i grew up learning about wine, my boarding school in england taught good responsible drinking and good taste , ie the profs served wine at the debates, etc.). ED took wine enjoyment from me for fear of calories, but thats just silly, I mean, French people drink wine regularly and dont gain loads (and I know how to drink responsibly).
So. This is the pleasure approach to life. Dancing, wine, chocolate, cooking.
At least for me :)

oh.... and I may have a job offer... I am so excited....

  
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MISS_FIT_ 3/11/2011 7:40PM

    it makes me happy to read this post. very inspiring. emoticon

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TIME2BLOOM4ME 3/11/2011 12:25PM

    Tracy Anderson's workouts are Great. Do you have her new metamorphis set? emoticon

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NPA4LOSS 3/6/2011 9:49PM

    I am so glad that you are enjoying life and all it's beauty again. emoticon

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PRINCESS_TWISTY 3/6/2011 2:56PM

    Sounds like everything is coming together for you...that is awesome. You are awesome! And it's so good to hear that you're happy!! Yay!

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March and the start of ballet

Tuesday, March 01, 2011

Wow! So last night I took my first official ballet class in a little while... let me say this: ouch! Even though I do plies galore going through my day and tendu after tendu as I do stupid things like brush my teeth, class kicked my butt. I am in every sense still a beginner in ballet as a dance form, but I really thought I had kept up better than what I found out last night! Haha, which will make this class SOOO worth it.

The instructor is an amazing ballerina, having danced in top world class troupes, and here she is teaching a group of lowly ballet dropouts and returns :) She really is delightful. Very very skinny (90lbs maybe? and like 5' 5"?), but she certainly does not make the rest of us feel like our size will inhibit us from progressing in ballet and in her class.

As for myself, at some point in high school my leg muscles grew fairly, well, defined. Some say it was the running, some the skateboarding/in-line skating. I think it was that I simply stopped stretching. And I never really re-incorporated stretching, not really... I think something in me at the time thought why spend time on stretching when I can burn more calories by doing a little more running or lifting? And you ever notice how most workout videos spend like all of 3 minutes on the stretch portion? Probably for the same reason.

Stretching, friends, is one third of fitness. While I may lament that I can no longer do a full splits, stretching is about so much more than just vanity. It's about helping your muscles rebuild (faster and stronger), getting oxygen through your body, and keeping joints and ligaments nimble as you age. Well, maybe those reasons aren't compelling (see: sexy) enough. Stretching will build longer muscles (not all bunched up), and it will for sure help one, say, take up ballet.

There's a dance study near where I live (the class I am currently going to is in the city at a cultural center, my husband takes voice, guitar, banjo etc. while I take my dance). The class near where I live is 5 (by car) minutes, instead of 50 minutes (by train) from my home. They have a combination of serious dance training and cardio dance/ballet strength classes. The fact is that I probably would not be able to try this studio till the summer when my husband won't have the car all the time.

So, in the meantime, for fun, I went ahead and ordered the Tracy Anderson Metamorphosis series. It's shorter segments than her original videos, but it might be worth a shot.

But those dont come for another couple weeks.

So in the mea-meantime, here is the program I'm setting out to do. I really am serious about wanting better flexibility, but at the same time I dont want to overwhelm myself with big changes, so here you have it:

(Oh! I forgot to mention, yoga and meditation are huge helpers with BD, EDs, etc. My counselor will be thrilled if I take up yoga.)

Sun:
Mon: Ballet class
Tues: Zumba class; NYC Ballet (any video); 10+ minutes yoga podcast
Wed: TA Cardio Dance; TA Matwork (any video)
Thurs: Zumba class; NYC Ballet (any video); 10+ minutes yoga podcast
Fri: TA Cardio Dance; TA Matwork (any video)
Sat: Cross train (ie, not dance); 30+ minutes yoga video or podcast

  
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SNUGGLEPIGGY 3/16/2011 6:25AM

  I just recently started taking an adult ballet class after a 10 year break. Back then I had progressed to maybe intermediate. it is so much a strength training as anything else you can do!! Yet, it's not listed in strength training on the fitness tracker. Any help? I'd like to show I really am working those abs, glutes, triceps, etc. Anyone who thinks it's just pretty should try a class! ; )


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TIME2BLOOM4ME 3/11/2011 12:27PM

    How fun, ballet classes. My husband put in a barre on the wall for me and I do barre workouts at home. I love Physique 57 dvd. They are such a tough workout.

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MISS_FIT_ 3/1/2011 7:56PM

    that's so great returning to ballet classes! i tried a few years ago and hope to return too in the future. maybe you'll like meta more than i did!

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NPA4LOSS 3/1/2011 4:20PM

    emoticon This was as close as I could find to a ballet dancer. I am so excited that you are having a chance to go back and enjoy this dream. Keep us informed. emoticon

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AMARAN 3/1/2011 12:07PM

    Give it a couple of weeks - then you'll be kicking the class, instead of the other way around. :-)

I'm so proud of you working on so many issues, in the midst of a very stressful life.

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What she ate

Saturday, February 26, 2011

As a young girl, middle school to be exact, I was often home alone and hungry. Both my parents had to work through the evening often (my dad a college professor and my mum a midwife). To solve the dilemma of my empty tummy I began cooking.

I remember the first day the idea hit that I could prepare dinner, eat it, and have it available to my parents when they would eventually return home. My first attempt at solo cooking was a dish that happened to capture all the nostalgia of my childhood in Costa Rica (at the time, we had recently moved up to the States)- what better menu could I pick, but arroz con pollo? Ones first foray (besides the lemonade my friend A- and I tried to selling to our neighbors, consisting of fresh squeezed lemons and sugar... we forgot the water) into solo cooking ought to be firmly built on the best of one's proceeding cooking heritage. I thought about the deliciously tangy dishes of arroz con pollo I would run to first at all the church pot lucks in Costa Rica, and I imagined myself turning out something similar.

Well first problem, no chicken. My mom never bought meats except turkey breast and tuna to facilitate my dad's low-cholesterol needs. I then remembered tuna being served with rice and peas at my friends house (to be known as arroz con atun).

So I merrily went on my way cooking a giant pot of rice, with a whole ton of peas and a pouch of tuna. I added any spice that suited me as I had little familiarity with each of them. For all my good and nostalgic intentions, I had not imagined the dish I made: burnt, overcooked, and a mish-mosh of too many spices, and did I say burnt? Like smoking.

Such a disaster did not discourage me (although I could see in the strain of my mother's face that she took the loss of all those ingredients a little hard). I soldiered on and soon became quite adept at cooking- and all sans recipes. At the time, internet was not as fluid or familiar as it is now to the average household, so it would have never crossed my mind to go google a recipe, google-huh? And cook books were full of crazy words and signs. My mom had taught me some of the basics, like what a tsp is, but sautee, pan-fry and double-broiler? Jibberish.

I enjoyed mostly on the stove items, that featured mostly rice or pasta, plenty of produce, and then either beans or tuna. I found my favorite flavors to be zesty spiky ones, with a hint of sweetness. Usually all my dishes used garlic, lemon, basil and parsley.

And I have to say that to this day that those zesty zippy flavors remain some of my favorite. Of coursed I've branched out to enjoy spicy flavors of all kind, bittersweets, mellows, and earthy ones.

Over the past week I've found myself in a cooking frenzy. I'm not sure what happened but I grew tired of the quick, functional meals I was feeding myself and my husband. Grain. Protein. Veg. Fat. Done. Zzz.

To be honest inspiration hit when I decided I wanted to bake a sugar cookie, and a good one. I was never completely happy with the Joy of Cooking recipe (although good), and found a fabulous recipe on the blog nutriontokitcen.com. The blogger is a nutritionist, so her recipes are wholesome and delicious, and her writing informative and inspiring.

I proceeded to look around at her other recipes, intrigued, and then noticed a list of recommended links. I clicked on the one for David Lebovitz, which sounded familiar. Davd Lebovitz is a renowned pastry chef, now living in Paris, France. His blogs are all things tasty and delicious interspersed with tales and tips on being amongst the Parisians. I've spent hours (oops!...) already reading his blog posts, and reminiscing on my own food experiences and foibles in France.

Thanks to both these bloggers my taste senses have been revitalized and I have rethought my kitchen to be more produce-, herb-, all things delectable- filled. I am excited to finally be keeping fresh herbs in the house (after failed attempts to get basil and thyme plants to thrive in our sunless apartment- if the darkness depresses me, how can I expect them to fare any better?).

So as a taster, this is what she ate (my own recipe):

Post-Valentines Not-so-hungover chicken:

We ate this the day after valentines, and the not-so-hungover part refers to the fact that we didnt finish our sparkling wine that night before since it was a little hard to palate (yes it was French, and the French like their wines, even the sparkling ones, bitter, or dry, what have you... not to mention it was only $10... haha!) Disclaimer: this is very imprecise since I worked au pif and wrote nothing down. Merder!

Ingredients:
olive oil for the pan
3 cloves garlic
1/2 an onion
oregano
basil
rosemary
2 bay leaves
white wine
1 can tomato sauce
kidney beans
2 chicken breasts
red pepper flakes
salt
pepper
fresh parsley

Ok, white wine with tomato sauce? Why? BEcause I wanted to.

So:
1. Heat the olive oil over medium heat and add the onion. After maybe half a minute add the garlic. Cook them both until translucent.
2. Turn up the heat to medium high andadd the chicken. Let it cook some if it is still thawing (confession...)
3. Pour white wine to taste on the chicken, and season with salt and pepper.
4. Add the canned tomatoes, the bay leaves, basil, oregano and rosemary. And more wine. Then turn down the heat and let it bubble.
5. After a bit of bubbling (some of the sauce has cooked down, but not by loads), add kidney beans and some red pepper flakes. Be careful, since the red pepper flakes will disseminate their heat pretty well. Oh, and more wine if you've got and you want to.
6. Ok, so if the beans are heated, the tomato sauce cooked down, and the chicken, when sliced a bit in the center to check for done-ness is dones, take that fresh parsley and sprinkles sprays all over the dish. Further season with salt and pepper to tast.
7. Serve!
Now, I can't say this is exactly what I did, since it was like a week ago.
If you dont have white wine, obviously red would be perfect, or even balsamic. You could also hold off on adding any wine/vinegar till towards the end of the cooking process so that it all doenst get cooked off. I was, after all, trying to put some bad wine to good use.





  
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MISS_FIT_ 2/27/2011 3:30PM

    this looks so great! i hope to learn to cook like this one day! emoticon

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SCHATZY25 2/26/2011 7:11PM

    I love to cook and started when I was pretty young. Little things here and there but I really started going "nuts" when I had home economics in school. then my time in the kitchen was always on. My parents always said it was great my sisters on the other hand always said exactly what they thought of my dishes. Don't want to repeat what they said....

Your recipe sounds great and the pics looks awesome. Maybe I will try that one day soon....

Thanks for sharing!

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NPA4LOSS 2/26/2011 7:02PM

    Cooking has always been my way of expressing myself artistically. It has also been a way to relieve anxiety. I am so glad that you have found it to be such a great outlet. It looks like a yummy recipe! emoticon

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Argh! Cramps!... and why I can be such a bully

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Argh! Cramps!

So I slid in my TA cardio dvd today for the first time in over a week (somehow she wasnt in the rotation over the past few days). Within the first combo I was getting cramps- and I never get cramps!

Oh no! I thought. I must be falling out of shape I thought. I haven't weighed myself in a while due to being too lenient with my food intake, less regular exercise and well I guess weighing yourself can be emotionally troubling anyway. Well these cramps brought an onslaught of fear-induced criticism. 'You've been eating horribly!' 'You haven't been pushing youself when you workout!' "Do you want to gain weight?" "Dont you want to be a personal trainer, you need to set a better example?!'
I looked at myself in the long narrow mirror I prop against the table when I dance to check my form and was aggressively picking on each bit of body where I swear I had gained.

Well the truth is that I don't know if I've gained or lost. It's true my eating habits have been a bit irregular. With all the difficulties of the past month I've learned how easy it is for me to fall back into old coping habits. It was unfair, however, for me to say I haven't been pushing myself. I mean, I've been feeling down! Two deaths in a months time, and my mom's surgery. Yup, I've been feeling down. And since I haven't been ready to accept that these events affect me, I haven't been properly attentive to my discouragement, thus the use of old, familiar coping habits.

I feel too that Ive been grasping too hard. I've been putting to short a leash on myself regarding what counts as success and failure, whats good or bad. I noticed that in the past few weeks my gray-scale has shrunk to include only the extremes of black and white.

I tried to stop counting calories and just focus on reporting to my nutritionist in order to be more intuitive about eating, but the issue is that she doesn't really give me feedback. Like, helping me to see where I might be eating emotionally, or where my habits need tweaking. I'm sorta on my own... So I think I might keep using the tracker until I see her again. I need some accountability I think. Calories aren't the only forms of accountability but they can be helpful.

(side note: my downstairs neighbor has been blasting music allll day- rockabilly is taking over my brain!)

What prompted this post was my surprise at how when I was in pain, with cramps I immediately broke into a slew of negativity- how mean is that? If it were my husband I would tell him to rest, take it easy, and try again when he felt better. And if it was a client! All the more gentle!

So- why cant I extend that same kindness to myself?
The fact is that all those harsh thoughts are in no way helpful. They wont make be a better, happier, kinder, nor thinner person. Ha.

So here's the real story. I had cramps since I just had an afternoon snack. What was the snack? Homemade frozen yogurt! (no sugar, very low fat, made only with organic low-fat yogurt and fruit) Not a bad food to cramp on. I am also prone to fatigue right now since I think I've been fighting a virus since the weekend (extra thirsty, sleepy, sniffly, etc.) And finally, if I have some underlying frustration with my food habits then I should get in to my nutritionist and see if she can help me out before I beat myself into a pulp ;)

Thanks so much for listening Sparkies!

  
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C-MERRIE11 3/24/2011 11:24PM

  tennis ball and yoga are great alternatives for when my body is achy! why this all or nothing mentality, right? thanks again to all of you!

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TIME2BLOOM4ME 3/11/2011 12:30PM

    For cramps have your tried extra minerals like potassium and calcium supplements? They help me out.

I am so sorry about the stress you are under. Maybe doing a calming yoga dvd will help with the stress and cramps. I love Eoins the pursuit of happy hips. He focus on Joy and healing. He makes me come out with a smile plastered on my face.

When I cramp up I found putting a tennis ball under the sore spots and rolling on them helps like a massage does. I get the cramps or sore butt muscles from barre. So I put two balls under my butt and lay on them and roll them around and it works so well for butt cramps. LOL.

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MISS_FIT_ 2/24/2011 5:30PM

    there's so much going on in your life right now! sorry to hear about the deaths and surgery. can you tell your nutritionist that you need more feedback and ask more of her? can you couple it with counseling perhaps?

and maybe let go of the mirror during dance cardio for a while? i find i have a harder time working out with mirrors, even though they can help with form.

you'll get through it.

and your culinary creations sound amazing by the way! you should take pics!

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NPA4LOSS 2/24/2011 12:26AM

    Please be kind to yourself. You are my friend and I am a protector. I would really hate to have to get mean and stomp my emoticon. I will have none of this! ( mommy face) Now give yourself emoticon and do something good for yourself. emoticon

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AMARAN 2/23/2011 9:03PM

    How wise of you to know that you would be kind to your husband or a client! Please be kind to yourself. You're the only YOU we have!

I'm so sorry to hear of the deaths. You've been under so much stress the past year or so.

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