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Mud puddles and yellow Dandelions

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Someone sent me this today. Click on the link below to hear and see the pictures and hear the music. You will love it...May God bless you as this has blessed me...

Big Mud Puddles and Sunny Yellow Dandelions

Author Unknown

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take - but by the moments that take our breath away."

When I look at a patch of dandelions, I see a bunch of weeds that are going to take over my yard.
My kids see flowers for Mom and blowing white fluff you can wish on.

When I look at an old drunk and he smiles at me, I see a smelly, dirty person who probably wants money and I look away.
My kids see someone smiling at them and they smile back.

When I hear music I love, I know I can't carry a tune and don't have much rhythm so I sit self-consciously and listen.
My kids feel the beat and move to it. They sing out the words. If they don't know them, they make up their own.

When I feel wind on my face, I brace myself against it. I feel it messing up my hair and pulling me back when I walk.
My kids close their eyes, spread their arms and fly with it, until they fall to the ground laughing.

When I pray, I say thee and thou and grant me this, give me that.
My kids say, "Hi God! Thanks for my toys and my friends. Please keep the bad dreams away tonight. Sorry, I don't want to go to Heaven yet. I would miss my Mommy and Daddy."

When I see a mud puddle I step around it. I see muddy shoes and dirty carpets.

My kids sit in it. They see dams to build, rivers to cross, and worms to play with.

I wonder if we are given kids to teach or to learn from? No wonder God loves the little children!
Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.

I wish you Big Mud Puddles and Sunny Yellow Dandelions!!!

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COOKINGLIGHT 11/24/2008 2:01AM

  How true this all is We need to look at things through the eyes of a child

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BKP4166 11/22/2008 2:53AM

    Thanks Bug....isn' t that true? We all need to be like little children sometimes.

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SUNSHINE_GAL 11/20/2008 11:27PM

    Bug -

Truer words were never spoken. Don't you just wish we could think like a child again? Maybe there would be more peace in the world!
Thank you for sharing.


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My sickness, I'm not in remission anymore

Sunday, November 16, 2008

I am again taking the medicine needed to cure my fat disease. I was in remission with a year's maintenance in sight when I was knocked off track by a medical experience about 5 weeks ago. My mindset was destroyed by what was happening to me that started out as a simple eye operation and ended up with the possible loss of my sight in my right eye. I won't know for a few months if it will come back or not. It was the worst experience ever and at first I had no appetite so I ate sweets until my appetite came back. I began "free feeding" eating for emotional and physical strength. I soon got my appetite back and ate whatever hubby fixed. One month after surgery I am now ready to put all my tips and tricks back to work and start taking off the 10 lbs that I gained. I started with my mindset and started journaling again and drinking my 10 glasses of water. I remembered that to succeed I needed to aim high, think outside the box, keep my mindset positive and to not listen to the voices in my head telling me to eat this, eat that. I know that those voices like to say anything to get me to eat things I shouldn't eat. I managed to keep my calories to 1071 with 75 carbs yesterday and woke up this morning to a one lb loss. My friend, co-leader Cindy was doing a water fast today and I started thinking the same old self defeating thoughts about what if I'm not strong enough to do a water fast and it might be too much stress until I feel better. I finally recognized the voice for what it is, the evil thoughts. At that point I took charge of my thoughts and said to myself, "you can do this" and you know what?? I'm doing it and it's not hard. I'm on my toes to catch any of the usual traps in water fasting. The voice that says it's time to eat (I tell it that it's a no food day) The wandering into the kitchen to check out the refrigerator and the cupboards. (again I repeat, it's a no food day) I listen for my mindset's positive thoughts and comments like "You are in control, you can eat tomorrow, in the morning I'll see a 3-4 lb loss and I won't die if I don't eat today. Then I remember that if I lose 3-4 lbs that I'm well on my way to ridding myself of "those 10 lbs". I remind myself of how confident I'll be because I've taken back the control that food has on me and the feelings of defeat are a memory that has disappeared. Everything starts with a thought that leads to the deeds we do that lead to our future and I'm starting to feel confident again! I can taste success and it tastes good to me... emoticon emoticonOh, yeah, I've started exercising again too. I can do this!

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INNERPUPPIE 11/20/2008 9:34AM

    Hey, we all fall off the wagon every now and then. The important thing is to dust yourself off and get right back on, which you are doing perfectly.

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BEEGEE123 11/18/2008 11:57AM

  Hi, Bug!

I'm new here but have found your page and your postings in the forum, an inspiration. I'm so sorry to hear about your surgery problems with your eyesight. That is a scary thing. However, you are doing the right thing...put it all in God's hands. He is an awesome God and he will take care of you. I will also keep you in my prayers. Keep us updated, please.

God bless you.

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SUNSHINE_GAL 11/17/2008 1:22PM


Isn't the mind a powerful wonder? It can play games on us, take control of our inner being and sometimes just screw everything up completely! However, as you well know, we are stronger. That little brain of ours can really dish out the challenges on a daily bases. As you said, think outside the box and keep your mindset in a positive mode. Glad to hear you've taken control again and wish you much success on your "get healthy" journey.

I sincerely hope you regain your eyesight in your right eye. Take care of yourself and follow the doctor's advise.

Good luck and keep us posted on your recovery.

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Facts you need to know....

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Did you know?

1. The Garden of Eden was in Iraq

2. Mesopotamia, which is now Iraq, was the cradle of civilization!

3. Noah built the ark in Iraq

4. The Tower of Babel was in Iraq

5. Abraham was from Ur, which is in Southern Iraq !

6. Isaac's wife Rebekah is from Nahor, which is in Iraq !

7. Jacob met Rachel in

8. Jonah preached in Nineveh - which is in Iraq

9. Assyria, which is in Iraq, conquered the ten tribes of Israel

10. Amos cried out in Iraq !

11 Babylon , which is in Iraq , destroyed Jerusalem

12. Daniel was in the lion's den in Iraq !

13. The three Hebrew children were in the fire in Iraq (Jesus had been in Iraq also as the fourth person in the Fiery Furnace!)

14. Belshazzar, the King of Babylon saw the 'writing on the wall' in Iraq

15. Nebuchadnezzar, King of Babylon, carried the Jews captive into Iraq

16. Ezekiel preached in Iraq ..

17. The wise men were from Iraq .

18. Peter preached in Iraq

19. The 'Empire of Man' described in Revelation is called Babylon , which was a city in Iraq !

And you have probably seen this one: Israel is the nation most often mentioned in the Bible.
But do you know which nation
is second?
It is Iraq !
However, that is not the name that is used in the Bible.

The names used in the Bible are Babylon , Land of Shinar , and Mesopotamia . The word Mesopotamia means between the two rivers, more exactly between the Tigris
And Euphrates Rivers .

The name Iraq , means country with deep roots.

Indeed Iraq is a country with deep roots and is a very significant country in the Bible.

No other nation, except Israel , has more history and prophecy associated with it than Iraq

And also, This is something to think about: Since
America is typically represented by an eagle.

Saddam should have read up on his Muslim passages ...

The following verse is from the Koran, (the Islamic Bible)

Koran ( 9:11 ) - For it is written that a son of Arabia would awaken a fearsome Eagle.. The wrath of the Eagle would be felt throughout the lands of Allah and lo, while some of the people trembled in despai r still more rejoiced; for the wrath of the Eagle cleansed the lands of Allah;
And there was peace.
(Note the verse number!) Hmmmmmmm?!


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BKP4166 11/5/2008 8:25PM

    That is interesting Bug....do you think there's any significance to that? hmmm

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*EARLENE* 11/5/2008 4:27PM

    Very interesting, Bug!

Thanks for sharing. emoticon

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Hints to keep you alive..

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Please pass it along and share it with your children.

A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.

3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.

4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5: 00 a.m.and 8:30a.m.

5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots. The number two: office parking lots/garages. Number three: public restrooms .

6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.

7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.

8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands .

Keys are NOT a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.

10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it?, or make general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold out here', 'We're in for a ba d winter.' Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.

11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP! or STAY BACK! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yell 'I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY' and holding it out will be a deterrent.

13) If someone grabs you, you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them .. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the Arm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh
VERY VERY HARD .. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.

14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful . You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he's out of there .

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing dow n on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts!!!

You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do : The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do!

2. Learned this from a tourist guide in New Orleans : If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM . Toss it away from you....chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc.) DON'T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

A.) If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the perso n is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a remote location.

5 A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot or parking garage:

A.) Be aware: look around you, look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.

B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.

IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times. And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP! It may get you raped or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well-educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked 'for help' into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

9. Another Safety Point: Someone just told me that her friend heard a crying baby on her porch the night before last, and she called the police because it was late and she thought it was weird. The police told her 'Whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.'

The lady then said that it sounded like the baby had crawled near a window, and she was worried that it would crawl to the street and get run over. The policeman said, 'We already have a unit on the way, whatever you do, DO NOT open the door.' He told her that they think a serial killer has a baby's cry recorded and uses it to coax women out of their homes thinking that someone dropped off a baby. He said they have not verified it, but have had several calls by women saying that they hear baby's cries outside their doors when they're home alone at night.

Please pass this on and DO NOT open the door for a crying baby --- This should be taken seriously because the Crying Baby theory was mentioned on America 's Most Wanted this past Saturday when they profiled the serial killer in Louisiana .


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BKP4166 11/3/2008 12:45AM

    Good advice Bug...and I will be sending it to my daughter and other female friends...Thanks.

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11-RENEWAL-20 11/2/2008 8:03AM

    Really good advice, Bug...I will be sending it to my daughters, granddaughters ...all my friends. Thank you. Sharon J

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    Hi Bug,

I get lots of e-mails, so I've learned to verify the information at snopes.com and hoax-slayer.com

Normally I just Google part of the e-mail and it leads me right to these sites. This time I googled "crying baby theory" and it brought me to these links:




And I was so sorry to hear about your complications following cataract surgery. I hope you are feeling some improvement in your condition... My prayers are with you..



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For the Girls....

Monday, October 20, 2008

One for the girls

Now I lay me down to sleep
I pray the Lord my shape to keep.
Please no wrinkles, Please no bags
And please lift my butt before it sags.
Please no age spots, Please no gray
And as for my belly, Please take it away.
Please keep me healthy, Please keep me young,
And thank you Dear Lord, For all that you've done.

Five tips for a woman.....
1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to you.
4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.
5. It is very important that these four men don't know each other.

Foot Note:
One saggy boob said to the other saggy boob:
'If we don't get some support soon, people will think we're nuts.'

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11-RENEWAL-20 10/21/2008 8:26AM

    Love it, Bug , especially the 5th of the 5 tips for women...Funny!
Have a good day...Sharon J

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