Wednesday, October 13, 2010
I have a job interview tomorrow. It is at a jewellery store and it doesn't stat until after my assignments are due. I really want the job, so cross your finger for me!
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
See what I have to deal with? I love my cats (and boyfriend) but a girls gotta have some room!
*Shortly after this pic was taken I relocated the cats, I wanna go to sleep! The boyfriend is too heavy to relocate*
On an unrelated note, I had an awesome run this afternoon. I ran when I wanted, walked when I needed, listened to some new tunes and generally just had a great time! All smiles, even when it started raining and it got really windy. I also had an escaped dog join me for a bit. He ran next to me for about .5 of a km before I asked some people walking down the street if they lived on the street and knew where the dog lived. It happened to be theirs and they were very apologetic and said he tends to be a bit of an escape artist. I didn't mind much, it was a friendly dog and he must be trained to run on a leash because he was running right next to me but never in my way. I almost offered to take him on my run with me and bring him back but I thought that might be weird so I continued on dogless. I want a doggie! But my cats would hate me, so I shall remain dogless, occationally borrowing my mother in laws silly excuse for a dog (he is half pomeranian, half poodle and all wuss).
Monday, October 11, 2010
I love cooking. I love nothing more then being it my kitchen creating delicious food. But sometimes I just want a quick meal, I just want food. Enter burgers!
Yes, burgers. Make them at home and save a the calories!
I just put a veggie patty in the oven for 12 minutes. While that is cooking away I defrost a burger bun and cut the veggies. Now do squats for 10 minutes. When the oven beeps put the now defrosted and halved burger bun in the oven for a minute. Do lunges while waiting.
Build your burger! Today I am having a veggie patty, lettuce, cucumber and aioli. Aioli is high in calories, so I use about a tablespoon.
Frozen to plate in less then 15 minutes with very little effort.
What are your go to quick meals?
Monday, October 11, 2010
You may recall that my goal for the month is to try a new veggie, because I generally hate them. I have radishes, and they shall be my veggie. I think I MAY have had a piece of radish long ago. But I didn't mean to and I can't be sure, so a rasish counts as a new veggie! AND they were free. Guess who's (super cool) aunty has a veggie garden!? Mine. Aunty gave me a head of lettuce and a few radishes.
* Please, someone tell me what to do with a radish *
In other news....
Saving money is going well! Our fortnightly shopping bill is hovering a little over $50 with just over a week to go until the next pay cycle. My goal was $100 a fortnight, so we are on track. And I saved $3 by getting a lettuce from my aunts garden, since we needed one anyway, and this isn't a nasty iceburg one.
We are saving heaps of money by my boyfriend taking his lunch instead of buying it. He could spend $20 a day on takeaways, and packing a lunch costs around $3-5, depending on what is in it, so there are definate savings! The only catch is that my boyfriend suffers from a condition called lazyness. Guess who makes the boyfriends lunch... I don't mind too much, gotta do what ya gotta do! I just make him a sandwich (cut into triangles. Next week I'm gonna start leaving notes saying things like 'have a good day at school'. I find it very funny), throw in a piece of fruit, a few muesli bars and something sweet like a biscuit. Takes me 2 minutes, so all is well!
I got to skype my 'little sister' tonight. She moved in England and I miss her lots! I can't wait for her to come back, she wants to move in with me when she does, but it might be a while :( We call each other sisters, but we have just been neighbours and friends for nearly 20 years. We are as close as sisters (I imagine, I actually have no relationship with my real sister). So anyways, I got to skype with her and she looks well. She is enjoying England but is homesick and was happy to talk with me for over an hour. Isn't technology awesome?
Wow, rambling blog. And I'm sleepy.
T - T - T - Thats all folks!
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Right, I'm back, kinda.
The general gist of what went on is this:
My mum heard something about me from another family member which was untrue. Instead of coming to me she had a breakdown and did a whole lota stuff, including going missing. A lot of hurtful things were said, and although mum has now found out that what she was told was untrue the damage for me has already been done. I am upset that my mum blamed me instead of talking to me, and dealt with the problem by going off the rails. My mum has a history of mental illness, so this is how she deals with things. This is not the first time she has gone off the rails. I had to rush to her about a year ago when she threatned to kill herself. That was awful, and I ended up going off the rails for about a week, drinking a lot etc. I told her that this is not a normal way of dealing with things and that she needs to stop and get some help.
As of today I have talked to her. She has apologised, but like I said, damage is done. I told her to get help. See a doctor, get new meds, see a therapist, sort her issues out with my father, do what ya gotta do, but she needs help. Until she has gotten herself back on track I have explained that I need to step back. I will decide when I am ready what kind of relationship we will have in the future, if any.
Now, for better or worse, my whole life has changed.
My boyfriend and I were going to move in with my parents in a few weeks time to save money. This now can't happen. This is my choice so I have to deal, but I don't think me living with my mum will help the situation at all. This has come at a very bad time because I have just quit my job and it is the end of the year and my boyfriends work starts dropping off in about a month. Now we have to move (we were living in one of their rental houses) and pay a bond and rent somewhere else, which we haven't budgeted for or saved for. Luckily I had made a savings plan for the trip, so that money can go on a bond and deposit, as well as being back up for over the holidays when my boyfriend is earning a small salary. We both plan on getting summer jobs, however if that can't happen for whatever reason we should be covered. If we get a flatmate we can afford rent and bills, but only if we get a flatmate. We are looking at moving to a nice beach suburb where the rent is pretty good and it is close to my boyfriends work, so his petrol bill will be halved, at least, next year. And the cost of living is quite cheap up there too. AND its super flat so I can run, walk and bike everywhere! I could bike to the supermarket with a backpack. How ecofriendly is that!
My parents offered to pay for my school fees next year. This now isn't happening. I will have to get a student loan, which isn't too bad since it is interest free, however I was really looking forward to grauating debt free. Oh well, life is tough. As well as the student loan I will also have to get the student living loan, since I won't be able to work as much as needed AND go to uni. The living allowance needs to be paid back and will add to the debt, but we don't have much choice. I MAY be able to apply for a living allowance that doesn't have to be paid back if I can get my doctor to agree that it wouldn't be in mine or my parents best interests for me to live with them or have them supporting me. It is a long shot, but at least that wouldn't have to be paid back. I know, I know, taking tax payers money. Well I have paid tax for 6 years and never gotten so much as a refund, so I don't feel bad. The boyfriend and I will continue to pay tax for the rest of our lives, so 1 year isn't gonna kill anyone.
We are currently saving like mad, trying to find a flatmate and trying to find a house that is happy to take our 3 cats! We keep getting email saying "you can have 2 cats" which doesn't help. I mean, they are our children, I'm not choosing one to get rid of! And how much does one more (housetrained!) cat matter?
Hopefully everything will work out. Like I said, my life is going to be a lot different, but hopefully it will be a good different! Thanks everyone for your support so far, it means a lot
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