Wednesday, April 03, 2013
Being in a long distance relationship is hard. Really, really hard. We miss each other constantly and we never have enough time together. It can't go on forever, so one of us has to move. Since Luke has a young son (and I would NEVER ask him to move away from him) we decided that I would move. This is a huge decision for me, to move an 8 hour drive/hour flight away from all my family and friends, but it is the right thing to do; We want to be together.
So I made the decision that I would resign from my job effective the end of term 2 (July) and try to find a job in Wellington. If all else failed could always relieve. We started looking at rental properties, discussing who would bring which furniture. So, I was set, I had my references sorted and my CV typed up and I was ready to tell my boss that I was leaving. THEN...
I was offered an AMAZING opportunity at work. Incredible. I can't say much about it for security reasons, but I can say that I am implementing and managing a new program, and other schools may want the same program implemented in the future. It comes with a pay bonus, and will look outstanding on my CV. Did I mention I'm only in my second year of teaching? This is unheard of, for a second year teacher to be offered an opportunity like this. I would be crazy to turn it down. So I haven't.
Long story short, I am staying in Auckland for the rest of the year but I'll be moving as soon as I can at the end of the year, just before Christmas. It was a very hard decision, choosing between the man I love and the career I love. We decided together that opportunities like this don't come around much, and I have invested too much time and money into my career to turn down offers like this. An extra 5 months is manageable. We are committed to our relationship, and we will make this work.
Although it is hard being away from this cute face
Tuesday, April 02, 2013
Well I’ve been smashing my goals and was at a loss for what to aim for next. I wanted to do a push up last year, and did it. This year it was a chin up, and I did my first unassisted one in March. I told my trainer to think of some new strength goals for me and he did as I asked. My goals for April are as follows:
Weight – Keep maintaining within the 66kg range
Nutrition – Just because I can eat more chocolate doesn’t really mean that I should…
Cardio – Run a 6k without stopping
Strength – Squat my body weight (1.5kg to go)
Deadlift my body weight (27kg to go)
Bench press my body weight (30kg to go)
I am confident that I can squat my body weight next time I'm at the gym and deadlift it by the end of the month. The bench press is my weakest area, and will take more time. I’m hoping to be there by the end of May, but will work on it and get there as soon as I can. I’m also going to continue to work on my chin ups and start working on pull ups.
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
I was just finishing up my chin ups (4 unassisted, 2 with the band) when a guy said to me, "You might be better off on the assisted chin up machine, over there", and points to the machine area.
WTF?! First of all, I had just done 4 PERFECT unassisted chin ups. Second of all, mind your own bees wax. So I said, " Don't insult me. I just can do chin ups all by myself, so I'll stay over here with the big kids", and walked away. Then I told my trainer who laughed and said that he probably couldn't do one and was jealous.
I mean, seriously. I can do military push ups, chin ups, I'm 10kg away from squatting my own body weight, I'm deadlifting half of my body weight (and I did all of these things except for the push ups in full view of this guy). Don't try and tell me how to do my workout because I'm obviously doing just fine as I am.
Moral of the story: Do your own workout and leave me the heck alone!
*Yes, I sound like a witch with a b in this post. I don't care how well meaning he might have been, he should not have said anything*
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