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ALL FOR THE GOOD OF THE ENVIRONMENT ! REALLY ????

Tuesday, November 08, 2011

I have to chuckle when i read the pointers as in today's 'vote with your fork' article.
we are all stuffing our own carry bags every where these days - or else you pay 5 cents - ok let's stop right there - IF IT IS BAD FOR THE ENVIRONMENT it should not be available - not for any amount of coinage -
the answer is some one in the industry jumped on another 'make money by pick pocketing our customers' scheme.
the same for your BLUE BOX - many people are making money on many levels with that one - first the guy who thought up the blue box, sold it to all the municipalities and now it is law - either you put your stuff in it or it won't get taken. BUT I SAY AGAIN - IF IT IS BAD FOR THE ENVIRONMENT it should not be used to have to throw out. there is HUGE MONEY in trash. (the mob knew this all along didn't they??)
my ex husband worked for a company that developed a gallon milk container which incinerated down to less than one tsp of ash - THAT WAS IN 1978 - and it was buried by the company because there was big money in the cartons coming along, the baggies etc. to replace the glass milk bottles.
THERE WAS NO CONCERN about the environment - and there still isn't - the concern is with the money that's in it and not getting in the way of profits.-
i recently bought baby gifts - toys, wipes, and puzzles - YOU GUESS RIGHT - - packed up tight in enough plastic -hard impenitrable plastic that an army weapons unit would have a difficult time opening them.
this brings me back to shopping bags. how annoying that;
1. i need to keep several cloth/poly bucket bags either in my purse (impossible ladies right?)-
2. on front seat - equals on floor, under seat and impossible to get out from underneath
3. in the trunk usually means going in the store without them - so then after i check out and say 'no i don't need bags' to the cashier - i take all the stuff out and put into the bags in the trunk myself. it is inconvenient, and in the inclement weather OH WHAT FUN!!!!
4. THE REUSED BAGS BECOME SATURATED WITH E COLI, and other nasty stuff - i use so many little plastic bags to wrap chicken, meat, and other wet packages - SO i use more plastic that i would normally use if it was a regular brown paper bag.
5. you cannot wash most of these bags so they will be discarded - into the landfill - and then you need more cloth/poly bags and we start it all over again.
WHAT'S WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE.
it is all such a crock! why do we have to continually be subjected to this silliness and expected to 'believe' what they are saying?
BB

  
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KATHRYNLP 11/9/2011 8:47AM

    It's all for votes... and contributions! Say what the people want to hear... then do what it takes to get contributions. The end. That's why our Canadian Green Party will never win. They advocate against big business, and actually speak for the environment.
Good Blog... emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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GOD - WE STILL NEED TO TALK!!

Monday, November 07, 2011

Hello up there- on Nov. 10/10 - i sent you a letter that had a very important question in it. a letter that told you how i felt, along with many of our family. a letter stating 'Your unfair practice' of taking a beautiful gentle soul away from us and back up to You.
I really have not had an adequate reply - oh sure, there have been little signs and notes, by way of realizations in my logical mind. also by way of dreams, and some conversations with family and friends. also by way of others who have experienced the death of a lovely irreplaceable child - a blue eyed beauty with such a way about her, that it makes a heart melt. with hugs and laughter, and comments and insights that could never be matched ever ever again.
but God - with all the evil that lurks down here - why would YOU go there?? it is so unimagineable to me - it is not logical, not just, not fair. i told You in my letter that any one of us - Nay even several of us - would have gladly taken her place.
i guess You say to me - 'ahh but now that is very selfish on your part because you would be spared the immense heartache you have had to go through. heartache which I exact up you because I know you can do it1"
Well i have heard that before - and frankly it does not wash with me. i see many of us down here who have much much much more of a burden than should be bourne by any human. i see many little creatures of Yours also used, abused, thrown away - why Lord = why?? what does that teach -? children going with out the normal necessary love in their lives to get through a day , never mind a life time. Lord - be honest - have You truly abandoned us down here. do You feel we are another Sodom and Gamorrah??
i am putting extra postage on this one- i am sending it same day courier in the hopes i get some answers - i don't want to wait until i reach the pearly gates to have this conversation - i am so serious - BB

  
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RAINBOWFALLS 11/8/2011 11:52AM

    Great questions!

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KATHRYNLP 11/8/2011 9:28AM

    We are never given a test that we can't handle. Sorry for your loss.. emoticon

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IAMWINNING 11/7/2011 4:32PM

    I don't claim to have all the answers, and certainly not to your particular questions. I do know that God is love, and that He has a perfect plan for each person. I know that our hearts often break due to what happens, but God has promised to never leave us alone - He is always with us.

I know that sometimes He allows things to happen to get our attention, to train or mold us for His purposes, such as ministering to someone else who later experiences the pain you're going through. (My daughter had a stillborn baby, so I have some nearly-personal experience in 'senseless' pain). That dau is a RN on the maternity floor, and she will today tell you that God used that awful (in our eyes) experience so she can minister to those mothers who miscarry or have a stillbirth. They will more likely listen to someone who has experienced the same thing.

And sometimes, we just won't know the 'whys' and 'wherefors' until heaven.

I am so sorry you're hurting, and pray that you will find peace and comfort in the Lord.

Comment edited on: 11/7/2011 4:33:59 PM

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POETLKNG2LOSE 11/7/2011 3:43PM

    i too have questioned Him many times about things that go on with me. And i have been a Christian for a while. I know sometimes what he does doesn't seem fair or right. But I know deep in my heart that he loves me and what ever He does it is for my good even if I don't think so at the time. I have lost my husband and my job.I have had trouble with family and friends as well. Yet i never have lost faith that He cares. This world down here is not perfect and never will be. How can it be when there's sin and evil in it? And as long as we live down here we can expect that. Sometimes God chooses to answer us and other times we have to trust Him. It's the trusting that is the hardest part; I know. We want answers now! But will it really help us to know them? Will that ease our pain at all? I am glad that i can't see into the future like He can. It would scare me too much. In the meantime i choose to hold onto His hand; cause i am helpless on my own. It boils down to this; do you believe that God is good and that He is all powerful or not? If you don't then what? What do you have left to believe in?

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ABUSE STRIKES IN MANY WAYS - BE VIGILANT!

Thursday, November 03, 2011

Good morning - I tried to write this blog several times - not sure if there is an bad omen or just bad luck - first my pc crashed, then the power went out, then my pc just would not register what i was trying to enter.
so this morning - again for my own therapy - i am on this again.
we all suffer some type of bullying in our lives - sometimes under the guise of discipline, like when we are kids. i know i had a lot of aunts and uncles - (whom i loved dearly) but made me feel very inferior. grown ups should expand your horizons and make our self esteem grow.
i was blessed with a great mom and dad - and some really good teachers - i was lucky. but there were others.
for a very long time - i had a partner who did nothing but demean - diminish - and bully. i can't really be free from it.
it wears on you - for me it is a verbal/emotional and mind games situation. this still affects people physically. every insult and negative criticism is like a kick in the gut. the bully always knows 'where you live' whether it is your kids or your pets and yourself.
i know that this has caused many serious health issues for me - stress is a killer. i also know i was not the only one. the negative energy affected all my household. i feel so badly that i was unable to stop it.
even after the bully is gone - the aftermath lingers on.
it is a cancer - it grows from a small thing and permeates everything over the years. i have talked about 'keeping the peace' - turning a blind eye to save things from escalating. that was wrong -
even tho i would dismiss what was happening to me (thinking others are ok but they are not!), i would step up for anyone else in the line of fire.
that was wrong too.
i know that both men and women are affected - but from what i have read, observed and learned - much more women endure this than men do.
i am not sure why i had to write this - but all i know is i did.
every one of us are important - if you believe in a Higher Power - no matter you may call it - you are precious. do not allow anyone to diminish you as a person.
i hope this time this gets posted - and thanks again for listening - i hope i have helped some one to climb out of the muck and mire of abuse and have the courage to move on. life is too short - BB

  
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RAINBOWFALLS 11/3/2011 6:45PM

    I'm glad you are not in that situation any longer. emoticon

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MARTHASPARKS 11/3/2011 2:19PM

    Abuse is prevalent and sometimes disguises itself as love, concern, or guidance. If you are in a situation where you feel demeaned, powerless, or influenced more by the opinion of someone else than by your inner voice, you are in a potentially abusive situation. Ask yourself:
Is this person physically or emotionally harming me?
Have they threatened to hurt you or anyone you love?
Do you feel guilty, ashamed or intimidated by this person?
Is this person isolating your from friends and family?
Do they blame you for their anger, failures or behavior?
If so, call your local shelter or 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE).
You deserve to be safe, respected and valued.

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CIVIAV 11/3/2011 11:22AM

    Sounds like you are beginning to know you are stronger than the abuse. But boy does it take a lot to get there...Keep on going.

I held onto this quote for years just for this purpose -

When you are going through hell, don't stop, keep on going!

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DIRTYBUNNY 11/3/2011 11:02AM

    Thank you for your post. I worked for ELEVEN YEARS for a boss who did this. I kept my eye on the prize and the greater goal of paying my children's tuition while I endured this. I am happy to be out of that situation now. You can't believe how nice people can be in the workplace until you've worked with the worst. You don't realize it at the time until you're in a situation where you see it doesn't have to be like that. I am only working part-time now (and for much less, sadly) but life has its serene moments now--something I was seriously lacking before. And, I am grateful for the opportunity to work with decent, caring people. emoticon

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KATHRYNLP 11/3/2011 10:42AM

    You're the voice of many. I'm glad you found the courage to choose a better life, and to believe in yourself again. I chose to have a better lfe for myself and my kids, and have never looked back. Yesterday's History! I choose how I want to be now. emoticon

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ABUSE STRIKES IN MANY WAYS - BE VIGILANT!

Thursday, November 03, 2011

Good morning - I tried to write this blog several times - not sure if there is an bad omen or just bad luck - first my pc crashed, then the power went out, then my pc just would not register what i was trying to enter.
so this morning - again for my own therapy - i am on this again.
we all suffer some type of bullying in our lives - sometimes under the guise of discipline, like when we are kids. i know i had a lot of aunts and uncles - (whom i loved dearly) but made me feel very inferior. grown ups should expand your horizons and make our self esteem grow.
i was blessed with a great mom and dad - and some really good teachers - i was lucky. but there were others.
for a very long time - i had a partner who did nothing but demean - diminish - and bully. i can't really be free from it.
it wears on you - for me it is a verbal/emotional and mind games situation. this still affects people physically. every insult and negative criticism is like a kick in the gut. the bully always knows 'where you live' whether it is your kids or your pets and yourself.
i know that this has caused many serious health issues for me - stress is a killer. i also know i was not the only one. the negative energy affected all my household. i feel so badly that i was unable to stop it.
even after the bully is gone - the aftermath lingers on.
it is a cancer - it grows from a small thing and permeates everything over the years. i have talked about 'keeping the peace' - turning a blind eye to save things from escalating. that was wrong -
even tho i would dismiss what was happening to me (thinking others are ok but they are not!), i would step up for anyone else in the line of fire.
that was wrong too.
i know that both men and women are affected - but from what i have read, observed and learned - much more women endure this than men do.
i am not sure why i had to write this - but all i know is i did.
every one of us are important - if you believe in a Higher Power - no matter you may call it - you are precious. do not allow anyone to diminish you as a person.
i hope this time this gets posted - and thanks again for listening - i hope i have helped some one to climb out of the muck and mire of abuse and have the courage to move on. life is too short - BB

  
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MISTYRIVER64 11/3/2011 6:52PM

    Wonderful blog. You have a very positive attitude for someone who has been though so much and I'm sure you have helped countless others who have suffered in the same way.
As a retired teacher, I saw bullies at the beginning of their career (not many but enough to make me take notice} How sad when they continue to do so as adults.
Congratulations for having the strength to write down your feelings.

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HAYDNSGRAMMIE2 11/3/2011 2:16PM

    agreed! i would just add one more thing, learn to forgive, all of us are broken in one way or another and it is that brokenness that is doing the hurting. don't forget, but do forgive.....you will be much better for it.

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following the heels of my 'tales from the job crypt' - CALLING ALL TEACHERS

Friday, October 28, 2011

hi you very necessary and important people -
my question to any of you is, how do you instill ambition, hope and a promise of success in your students? How do you curb the disillusionment they must all be touched with - in this society where ''Snookie is to be envied and imitated' and the 'wives of PICK ANY OF THE CITIES THEY COME FROM' make all the girls salivate at wasting their days, lives and money on utter stupidity?
No wonder so many have no work ethic - and why would they be loyal to any employer when there is nothing at the end of the rainbow?
once all the politicians and their greed have Wall Street, the big corporations have every thing else all wrapped up - who will be the next generation to teach?
It seems programs such as Survivor script everyone into non ethical, downright mean underhanded tactics and the kids eat it up.
So i really would love to hear from any educator - and i thank you for being on the front lines everyday - believe me - i feel your pain. BB

  
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MARITIMER3 10/30/2011 3:32PM

    My DH retired from teaching in 1995 and just shakes his head when he sees the "role models" some of today's youth look up to. Luckily our 4 children have all earned university degrees and are establishing themselves in careers, marriages, bringing up children with healthy lifestyles, while trying to look after themselves. I do not envy young people today, or those who are trying to teach.
Gail

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KATHRYNLP 10/29/2011 9:22AM

    Everyone wants to be heard... to be admired... etc. I've always tried to give my girls 'a reputation to live UP to." and if they've done a negative, my response was, "Sorry you made that choice, but maybe you will make a better one next time." I put it on them. So far so good. One is a Lawyer, the other a Psychologist... and I was a single Mom. emoticon

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LYNETTEMOM 10/28/2011 3:57PM

    I wish I had the answer but all I can offer is for you to set a good example, and try to tell them/ show them other people who are worthy of emulation. This could include people like front-line workers or volunteers in your community, not just historical figures. Random people that you may read about on the net can inspire.
Today I found out that my cousin's daughter has been named one of the top 40 under 40 in our city (Calgary), recognized for her work with homeless youth. I'm proud to know her! It can be a frustrating job but she is so compassionate and dedicated.

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