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Motivation; Am I Strange?Tuesday, February 02, 2010
I was just reading an article written about motivation here on the site. It was about positive reinforcement that all of us should be giving ourselves during our workouts and life changes. I think I'm strange though because I do the exact opposite... When I'm working out I'm like an evil boot camp instructor, yelling at myself and telling myself that if I want to lose the "chubby bunny buns" I have to run another mile or go faster... Yes, I do this quietly inside my head - otherwise I might get kicked out of the gym... does anyone do this too? hmmmm ![]()
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SUGIRL06
2/2/2010 5:49PM
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Haha. You aren't strange! I tell myself I'm not allowed to quit or stop. That I have to do it! Think like not doing your homework. Yeah you could not do it but then you FAIL and do you want to fail? NO! So you're not that crazy! ~Ang Report Inappropriate Comment |


MYSCHYF
2/2/2010 3:47PM
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No it's normal. I'm sure after you do push that extra mile or so your quite happy and tell yourself you've done a good job. Sometimes we need a kick in the pants, sometimes we need to forgive ourselves when we mess up and sometimes we need to reward ourselves when we do good. We are afterall just kids at heart.
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LISSA1976
2/2/2010 3:46PM
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No, I am like you so maybe we are strange together. I get very competitive with others (who have no idea they are competing with me) in the gym. I even spin with my eyes closed at moments to focus and visualize those smaller body parts, pushing myself harder. Of course my instructor also does a good job of yelling at us like a cheerleader on crack too. LOL Heck, I even repeat the line from the Lily Allen song in my head "Everything is cool as long as I'm getting thinner"... I say go with what works for you. But I will say, that after it is all over, I congratulate myself too, and do my little inside pep talk. So that is my positive moment I suppose. Comment edited on: 2/2/2010 3:53:32 PM Report Inappropriate Comment |


SPEEDWACER
2/2/2010 3:45PM
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I totally do that. Coming from anyone else, I would punch someone in the mouth for saying things that I say to myself all the time. I do it most while I'm running. A car will drive by, and I'll say to myself "Hey, the guy in that car wants to see you fail, are you going to give him the satisfaction?" Hell no I'm not. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KIMSCCR7
2/2/2010 3:44PM
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I agree with the music. Upbeat music gives me an extra spring in my step but when I'm running I'm always more like yelling at myself. I always think, really you're tired already that's not very good is it. I beat myself up so I get mad and run longer or faster. So no you're not very strange.
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WHYNOTROCKIT
2/2/2010 3:30PM
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I have to admit that I do. I don't do it all the time, but it helps me to work harder. I also find that fast paced music gets me to work hard too. Without that I don't think I would work as hard. I find that the more a push myself to do better, I do. Not to mention I like to work towards my 10 pound rewards. I say if it helps you in the long run why not!!
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IMVEGAN
2/2/2010 3:28PM
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Yes, you are definitely strange! LOL Good for you though. That is a great kind of strange to be.
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I've been a little un-motivated lately so I decided that I would take a few extra minutes today and look around at other blogs here on S.P. It sometimes motivates me when I see other people losing weight and I am not... reminds me that I need to get my butt to the gym. haha
I feel a little angry, confused and cheated though by another members' blog. I noticed that she is encouraged to lose weight for her wedding that will be this year. Wonderful! I love the idea of wanting to look wonderful for your future spouse. Unfortunately I am not sure that is the case for all people, looking good in a dress is more important for the special day. But that is another pet peeve of mine... haha My issue that I had a problem with seeing was this dieter was eating around 600-900 calories a day.
If you know my personal story, I lost weight a few years back very fast because I was eating very few calories a day similar to this dieter. It was hard but I managed thanks to diet shakes and other supplements. My personal image was wonderful but I felt a little under the health after a few months of eating so few calories. I could catch a cold very fast and my body was not up to par as I had wished for working out two hours a day at the time. I have learned from this dieting mistake and hope that no one would ever have to endure through this either.
I just wanted to remind everyone that eating is good for the body. And although you may see the weight scale go down, you will also see a decline in your health if you eat too few of calories. Trust me, you will not survive if you eat only around 600 calories a day! Especially if you are taller than 5 foot! Eating so few calories is a eating disorder, not a diet/health plan. Caution people! Remember health is the most important thing!


ANYATAY10
2/3/2010 4:04PM
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Also...you gain the weight right back!! Possibly even more weight than before. I've learned that the hard way as well. For me, it's not only keeping my calorie deficit consistent, but also, eating often throughout the day (before I feel like I'm starving) helps battle the urge to binge eat or reach for unhealthy food. In fact, I'm eating right now even though I don't feel ravenous. Zone Perfect Chocolate Mint bar...mmm...
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PAPRINIKA
2/2/2010 10:44PM
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Good that you know this now and will do it the healthy way! :D
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HAPPYNSMILING
2/2/2010 9:35AM
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Amen to that...I completely agree and I also get upset when I hear of people not taking care of themselves correctly. Everyone needs to read your blog. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MARLA_S
2/2/2010 9:32AM
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Right you are! We all need to remember that HEALTH is the name of the game, not just the numbers on the scale.
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SUGIRL06
2/2/2010 9:14AM
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You are so right! And its so hard to encourage the person to eat more for their health. Hopefully she will figure it out! Personally, I could never understand how people could eat so little. I love food! And as for wedding motivation, that is great and all but what about after the wedding. What is your motivation to keep it off? I never lost any weight for my wedding (I was actually at my highest) because it wasn't a good motivation for me. I knew it would end and then what? Wanting to be healthy is my motivation! ~Ang Report Inappropriate Comment |

