Friday, March 14, 2014
For a week I've been reading on Facebook posts that my oldest DD and SIL have been making. I called her last night to ask what is going on and she sounded tired and asked why. I told her I've been reading Facebook so she said "DH and are getting a divorce but I don't want to talk about it right now. I'll have my sister call you (DD#2). This morning she called and said SIL had been having an internet affare for 3 years and decided to leave and be with this woman. He moved out took the only car and cleaned out their bank account. She went this morning to try and get the car which she needs for work, she's a home care nurse, and he had a lock on the steering wheel,porn mags and open box of condoms in the car. He came out and gave her $500 or the $750 he took and told her he was going to Ohio (they are in SC). DD#2 lives with them and is helping with the down payment on another car so they can both get to work. They put SIL's stuff in boxes and put them outside for him but he doesn't want them so they put them on Ebay. DD and SIL have been married 24.5 years have two grown children.
I wish I could be there for her but I can't get down to SC. I want to hold her like when she was little and got hurt and just let her cry. Then find him and beat knots on his head
He is not the man we've known for 24.5 years.
My middle DD is coming up to Ohio to get her DS who is living with his father for Spring break I'm going to see if I can hitch a ride back to SC for that week, since the boy will be coming back to Ohio and going past KY both trips