Wednesday, July 25, 2012
I have a very accurate scale that weighs down to tenths of an ounce ... or grams if I switch over to that. So one recent Monday afternoon (weigh-in eve) I weighed some skirts and tops to see which one would give me that minute advantage on the scale at my WW meeting. I was amazed to see a 5 ounce spread between three sleeveless tops. Ditto the difference between my two lightest weight skirts! Put together there could be more than a half pound weight difference.
Now - Only a fellow traveler on this weight loss journey would grasp the significance of this knowledge - or care - or understand why I might be clutching such a meager straw as a 2 ounce weight differential in a blouse. Because - I have to be honest - yesterday I was clutching. And that alone is an important bit of information for me to carry into the coming weeks.
You see, there was a small weight gain yesterday at my weigh-in. The first in 10 weeks. It was only .2 lbs or 3.2 ounces - which is good news. But deep down I knew there was a weight gain. I felt it. I saw it in my bathroom scale which is a traditional dial type that really only gives you a general idea of what you weigh. But I also knew it because I *felt* it - and I felt it because this past week I had eaten some very delicious but oily portobello sandwiches on white bread buns and even some to-die-for waffle fries, along with celebration cake for a beloved friend's retirement. These were foods that I tracked, but whose true caloric/points value I had to estimate. I didn't make them myself and they were not pre-packaged foods either. I knew I had to do food math and my goodness it's difficult for me to round up when it comes to food math. And the food math I had done last week said that I was well within the calculated caloric/points limits to loose weight. But I didn't. I gained.
So, why are these measly 3.2 ounces worth blogging about? They could be water weight. They could be my clothes. They could be ....
Well, because I know they're not. If the tracking said one thing and the scale said something else - there is a problem here. I really have to ponder what I did wrong. And because I am afraid. The One Setback scares the bejeezus out of me. I know that we have a Bunch Of Food Situations coming up in the coming weeks - situations where I am NOT in charge of the cooking so anything could be in those dishes. So - there is the truth factor and the fear factor at work right now.
I know that, just 6 lbs away from my goal, I'm still learning new things about what it takes to LIVE the life of a healthy woman at the right weight for her. In some ways, these last few pounds are the hardest to drop. I don't just want to reach my goal. Heck. I've already reached my goal weight before. It's the staying there that I want to do - for the rest of my life.
It's important now that I look hard at where I went wrong last week.
It's important now that I love myself enough to acknowledge my errors but forgive me.
It's important to know that if I *feel* nervous about how much my clothes weigh - it's a warning sign that I'm not making good choices.
It's important now that I make different food choices from the ones I made last week - even though there has already been Birthday Cake.
And most of all ...
It's important now that I never quit.
So. Go weigh your clothes. But remember - clothes do not make the woman - or man, for that matter.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Thanks sweeties - for the lovely comments and encouragement and also, Thank you Trentdreamer
for your kindness. Here are some more thoughts prompted by your comments.
The book our doctor recommended to my husband (I wasn't present at this conversation so I don't know what else he said) is Dr. Neal Barnard's Program for Reversing Diabetes
It is very different from the American Diabetes Diet recommendations. It's very similar to the Dean Ornish heart diet book. ZERO animal products, limited vegetable fats, and whole grains ... or in the case of Dr. Bernard, low glycemic index foods.
We all know that whole grains and the protein, vitamins, minerals fiber AND oil from vegetables are good for us. Limiting fats is good. The big claim Dr. Bernard makes is that microscopic fat deposits within cell walls ALSO interfere with insulin's ability to move sugar out of the bloodstream and into the cell. He makes a secondary claim about animal proteins but I don't exactly remember what that was so I shan't try to paraphrase it. Suffice it to say that if you HAVE health issues related to diabetes he CLAIMS - and offers studies to back up his claims in a lay-man's way - not with scholarly citations - that eliminating animal fats from your life can make a swift and great impact on your ability to process sugar.
Himself does not have sugar counts high enough to start taking medication. I wonder if that is why our doctor suggested trying a radical diet shift to see if it worked. The doc wasn't taking any risks and if it worked - he might not have to prescribe any medication either.
What I thought was ... Hey - this looks interesting. I could use some new cooking techniques and meal planning skills. And I decided to participate to see how different it made me feel - to see what difference it would make in my own numbers. I don't have high blood pressure or blood sugar but I am on Lipator and this same doc told me I'd have to get my LDL down to 61 before he'd take me off of it.
Also - if I were eating the same foods as Himself, I'd know if the stuff was any good and could figure out how to make it better.
For some reason when we decided to try this experiment, neither of us felt the grief associated with giving up favorite things. No steak? Eh. Not really in the mood for it. No Cheese? Well - it's only for a few weeks - it doesn't have to be a life sentence. Let's just explore and see what we find out.
Happily - we were both at the same place at the same time. Both curious. Both ready to give it a try. Both ready for me to make lots if disasters in the quest for more delicious meals. We aren't foodies in the blogging sense - but we both really love food and celebrate around it. We've talked a little about how we would celebrate a Vegan Thanksgiving, say, or what we'd do when oyster season comes around again - but somehow - those are far away distant things that can be addressed later. Right now; high summer, peak of the garden season, 100+ temperatures - seems like the right time to try a radical change.
So what's different after 10 days?
1. I have to THINK so durn hard when I walk into the kitchen. My usual modus operandi is to walk into the kitchen - stop - ask myself what I am in the mood for - imagine the finished meal - and then turn to. And as I said the other day - I expect to be Out Of The Kitchen in 30 minutes.
Well. Okay. I am having to work at this but I'm getting there.
2. A physical calmness within my body. well - I told you about that the other day too. But it continues - a sort of zen feeling about my innards. I'm extremely sensitive about what goes on Within - a little fey, far more touchy feeley than my husband who told me "No I don't feel any different but I don't feel hungry" Well. There. He's an Aries.
3. 2 pound weight loss with no hunger
I'm not really advocating anything - or jumping on some band wagon about the joys of the vegan life. I would never EVER suggest someone else try what I'm trying. Diet and nutrition and health are deeply personal things - especially if you have health issues. I wouldn't tell you what dress to wear either. Or car to buy or any of those other Deeply Personal Things. I'm just sharing what's going on because I always have to talk about the new things I'm doing.
Right now - it's an experiment. What it will be next month - well - we'll just have to see. In the mean time - here is a picture of last night's experiment.
Monday, July 16, 2012
Himself (my dear husband) has high blood sugar and has already had most of the complications arising from diabetes: heart attack, detached retina, kidney infection ...
He was also always a meat and potatoes man - in fact, I used to joke that I could keep him in line by tossing a pound of sausage at him. He, otoh, called anything fruit or vegetable based (unless it was vegetables cooked with ham hocks ... he IS Southern, you know) "Fat Lady Food". Both of us were teasing each other in a kind way - so if it sounds mean - it wasn't. But he was always strongly resistant to eating anything that the cook in his Aunt Mimi's kitchen didn't make and ... let's face it - she cooked the original soul food - and since I never knew her and have a non-cooking Pennsylvania Yankee Mother anyway - our food backgrounds are extremely different.
But I like cooking and I have a knack with spices. My food always tastes like me - not like anybody else. I am not very good at following recipes, except, maybe, the first time around. After that I'll start tampering with the ingredients and voila! It's something new. I am also a fast cook. I like to walk in the kitchen and call everyone to the meal 30 minutes later. And I try new cuisines all the time: Greek, Indian, Whole Grains .... I'm still flexible enough to give something a fair chance.
When Himself had a heart attack in 2005, while still grousing about things, he made some serious changes. He no longer goes all day (working at home, 20 feet from a refrigerator full of tasty stuff) without eating. He eats fruit. He eats salads. He lost 20 lbs.
He also continued to have blood sugar that flirted with being too high and he had 3 more detached retinas - and uses an eye drop that is not covered by our insurance. Ouch!
Our doctor recommended he read Dr. Neal Barnard's program for reversing diabetes and when we got a copy I was surprised and, I'll admit it, a little dismayed to find it's all about a Vegan diet.
That's a whole new way of meal planning and it's a lot of work and all the vegan food I've eaten is either sort of dough-ey from soy products or cumin filled - or even ... well... icky. What I've tried all has had a sort of *odd* taste, like I was eating in a Head Shop with incense sticks burning and sitar music in the background. In short - it was an interesting experience but it didn't taste like real food. It doesn't taste like My Cooking.
Still and all - the idea was intriguing enough to explore and this past week we've been eating a lot of new things. Some have been fun. Some have been - not so. And nothing has tasted good enough to pig out on. Not that I have to pig out on the food, but ... I want to eat food that delights me. I want to serve guests food that they'll rave about.
What I have learned so far is:
1. I am probably going t eat very little soy product. I don't like soy beans. Heck. We grow the durn things on our farm and I've made tofu from my own beans and I think they're icky. Himself likes those toasted soy bean snacks but I think they're nasty. And so far, the only thing I've found made of soy that I like is the Silk Vanilla soy milk.
2. I also LOVE other beans - almost all other beans and there are TONS of good ways to fix them. I got a recipe for "The Best Bean Burger Ever" which, before I baked it and turned it into something I did NOT like, was "The Best Black Bean Humus-type Food Ever" so - I won't fry or bake the patties but instead use the mixture in taco shells or lettuce roll ups or just in a bowl.
3. Textured Vegetable Protein needs a day to blend in with the flavorings. I made a TVP chili that was only so so the night I made it but when I had the leftovers for lunch the next day - KA POW! Delicious! Wow! That stuff has to be used in make-ahead dishes.
4. My stomach - actually my whole body - feels like it's in neutral gear. I'm never very hungry and certainly never very full while eating like this. Nothing feels like it's working too hard but there's no tiredness or lack of energy either. It's a good feeling but without either the highs or the lows that I've been used to.
All in all it's been enough of a success to keep me inspired to explore, invent, and learn more. Of course, there's the added impetus of wanting to keep somebody I love with all my heart here, healthy, a whole lot longer. If this could help his eyesight, his heart, his blood sugar - I would eschew animal products for this lifetime and the next!
And isn't there always a "but"?
I still worried a bit that I'd have to eat food that didn't taste like me. That I would have to be something or somebody else to maintain this. It was just a tee tiny worry but it was there. Till last night, when I went into the kitchen, pulled out food in the refrigerator, and stirred up something of my own that tasted like me! No weird ingredients. Nothing you have to go to a health food store to purchase. Just food. And Just delicious. So here's my first ever Vegan Recipe:
Spinach, mushrooms and tomatoes over polenta
2 Tbs. chopped sun dried tomatoes packed in oil
2 Tbs of the oil the tomatoes were in
1 small onion minced
4 cloves garlic (or to taste)
1 cup slice/chopped mushrooms (those packs of mixed mushrooms are really good here but any mushroom will do)
4 cups spinach
1 can great northern beans, washed and drained
1-2 tsp McCormick Grill Mates Montreal Chicken spice mix
In a large deep skillet or heavy saucepan:
Saute garlic, onions and mushrooms in oil
Wash spinach and chop coarsely
While still damp from wash dump in half the spinach and wilt
Sprinkle on spice mix
Add rest of the spinach and wilt (this makes half of the spinach a little more cooked than the rest)
Mix in sun dried tomatoes and beans
Serve over pasta or sliced, heated polenta.
11 WW points counting the pasta/polenta
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
I can see the finish line up ahead. I can see that bulls eye target, not yet close enough to touch but by gum, close enough to see the circles. I can smell the scent of victory even if I can't quite taste it. And it's not only stirring up a huge mixed bag of feelings it's stimulating both sides of my brain.
On the one hand, my little Virgo mathematical School Marm Left Brain is calculating numbers and averages, thinking "If I'm losing 1 lb a week and I have 7.8 lbs to go, what date will I be at goal?"
Of course - that part of my brain is completely glossing over the pivotal word "If". My Other ToucheyFeeley Wild Child Right Brain is warning me "remember - each week is different - each day, each hour. You are not a computer"
School Marm Left Brain says "look in the mirror sweetie - don't you just Love your jawline? And those shrinking chipmunk cheeks?"
Wild Child Right Brain says "Yup. lookin' good. Just don't think this is all a numbers game."
SMLB says "Honey - what if we were to work out an extra 15 minutes each time we go to the gym.... think we can stick to this pound a week thing?"
WCRB says "We're working as hard as we can - and it's 100 degrees outside - just going from the car to the gym is a chore. Werk (TheJob) is in maximum overload stress mode and you're asking us to Do More?"
SMLB says "I was only kidding about extra time in the gym, sweetie. But I really want to see some sort of weight loss each week unless there's a compelling reason, like new meds or an injury that keeps us inactive."
WCRB: "Well, yeah. I want that too. But aren't we already doing enough? We're even exploring vegan recipes."
SMLB: "I guess we are, but I'm just nervous. Not to be cruel or hurtful, but you're awfully volatile. I guess I'm afraid any moment now you'll go off on a tangent and do something Wild and Crazy and derail things."
WCRB: "Second guessing me already I see.
SMLB: "Yeah. Sorry for that. But I have feelings too"
WCRB: "Hey - horning in on my territory! But I know. And we can't really predict what will happen. And to quote you 'Not to be cruel or hurtful - you don't trust very well and it's insulting to me to not be trusted."
SMLB: "Yeah - I see that. So - what do you say I trust you more and you don't blindside me with an emotional meltdown"
WCRB: "Sounds fair. But how about rewarding ourselves for the good job we've already done?"
SMLB: "What would feel like a reward - because we BOTH know we have to Werk and we BOTH want to be slim and strong"
WCRB says "New Clothes"
SMLR says "Darling - there's no more room in the closet and you aren't even wearing all the pretty new SMALLER clothes you've already bought this summer"
WCRB says "Yeah, I know - but it's so much fun to put on those smaller clothes and prance in front of the mirror"
SMLR says "Well - what if we take that coral colored dress in to Linda's Shop and have her mark a shorter hem on it. I promise to do the sewing and you can wear a New Dress"
WCRB "Cool! I'd LOVE that. When?"
SMLR: "Well - we have Bethany coming in to do training this afternoon and Bert will be in tomorrow morning and there's the animation class tomorrow afternoon. But I don't want you to think I'll make a promise and then not keep it. What if I put the dress in the car and if there's time before Friday we'll stop by Linda's Shop and get her to mark the hem. If not - definitely we'll go at lunchtime on Friday"
WCRB: "Fantastic! That's a deal!"
Integrated Watcher Self's comment:
You just never know where your brain will lead you, unless you give it a chance to speak up.
LOL - hope you all enjoyed eavesdropping on mine.
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