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Is Spark People psychic?

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Because several times - twice for sure - I've needed information and they've sent it to me unasked. Today was a perfect example. I've been very dedicated about exercise the past 8 weeks only to be laid low with an attack of plantar fasciitis. Boy was I feeling sorry for myself and secretly worrying that my slow but steady progress was about to be derailed right at the beginning of the holiday season. There was even the temptation to try to plow on through pain in the (I know it was stupid) belief that the rest of my body would benefit even if the foot hurt.

duh. stoopid.

So today's best of spark people's first article was "Is your work out doing more damage than good?"

And it is about Resting -especially if injured - and I KNOW that's what I need to do. And the rest can be a switch, not a stop. And the stationary bike is waiting for me at the gym.

btw - I gave it a whirl yesterday and though it wasn't exactly fun - steady cycling uses muscles in my legs in a new and difficult way - but I was able to actually keep moving steadily for 20 minutes. I have to remember that, just like "down is down" when it comes to the scale, "movement is movement" when it comes to exercise.

the completely unexpected benefit of the stationary bike is that it keeps my foot flexed - the way it would if i were wearing a PF Splint! It flexes the achilles tendon too and stretches the calf muscles. In short - it made my foot feel BETTER!!!

so - lessen the calorie consumption but quicken the foot healing. That's a trade off I can live with.

The other psychic sort of article that came in today was the one about massage being good for you and possibly even helping you loose belly fat. The theory is Stress = stored cortisol = higher insulin production = stored belly fat & sugary snack cravings. in short Stress = fat and fatty habits. SO maybe if you relieve stress you diminish the fat storage and the snack habit.

Well. Hmm. and there's a therapeutic masseuse at our gym. and I can schedule a massage right here in town (gotta understand I live a minimum of 50 miles from ANYWHERE!!) I think I need to make a phone call.

Today is so much better than yesterday - because I not only feel better but feel excited about what lies ahead. Who knows what mystery SP will send me tomorrow! Happy Tuesday to you all.

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LETSEXERCISE 11/29/2009 10:27AM

    I started a food plan last week and wrote down everything I consumed, sort of. I still have to figure out to list calories on foods that I choose for myself.
I tried to exercise on my treadmill last week and was so tired I stopped after 5 minutes.
Your blog has encouraged me to get on my treadmill now before I take my shower. I'm going to walk more slowly to work my way to better health.

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MSLZZY 11/25/2009 7:35AM

    emoticon You found a way to exercise that worked! SP must be psychic! emoticon

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HARPERLADY 11/24/2009 1:13PM

    that is fantastic, I am so glad you are getting what you need, your posting are a great help also and so you are giving back

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ANNROBERTS54 11/24/2009 8:16AM

    It just goes to prove how beneficial this website really is. It is all things to all people all the time. Well, at least it comes close!!

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Felled by my feet

Monday, November 23, 2009

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Or at least, by one foot - which has suddenly come down with Plantar Fasciitis - the inflammation of a thick band of tissue, called the plantar fascia, which runs across the bottom of your foot ó connecting your heel bone to your toes. (MayoClinic -
A common ailment among runners it also strikes the middle aged, the overweight, and those who make their living standing a lot. A long stand-up outdoor funeral and an even longer stand up gathering afterwards (several hours on my feet) yesterday blew what had been a little twinge of pain into the full blown throb of true plantar faciitis.

I had a bout with this 2 summers ago and it laid me low for almost a year. There are steroid treatments for this condition but the best home remedies for it are ibuprofen, ice and staying off it. NOT a great condition at any time of the year, it's particularly cruel now when I'm working hard to drop the lbs., strengthen the muscles, and live an otherwise healthy life.

To say I'm bummed is ... well ... pretty accurate. But to say I am defeated is an exaggeration. I am nothing if not flexible and there ARE exercise options for someone suffering with this. I will switch from my beloved elliptical and step classes to the stationary bike. I have never liked that form of exercise, preferring, if I'm going to be on a bike, to take back country roads through the lush Virginia countryside. emoticon

But that doesn't mean I can't learn to use the tool and come to enjoy it as well.

So. today, instead of taking the dogs for a brisk walk - I will spend my lunch hour at the gym, getting comfortable on the bike. And I will flex my foot and do those toe scrunching exercises and take ibuprofen and keep a cold can in the freezer to roll beneath my sock covered foot....and see if I can lick this meanie.

And I will remember my mother's advice: When you come to a wall, walk along it till you come to a window, a door, or a corner. And while you're at it, look around to see if there are any flowers blossoming at its base emoticon

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MSLZZY 11/23/2009 3:22PM

    Positive attitude! Keep on moving and keep on Sparking! emoticon

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HARPERLADY 11/23/2009 10:45AM

    so sorry to hear that I understand it can be very painful, glad your not giving up and finding ways to work around it , that is SUCCESS. you motivate the rest of us not to let our excuses be our anchor, way to go!

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MYFEETHURT 11/23/2009 8:22AM

  Gosh...I'm so sorry to hear this. My name might be My Feet Hurt...but it's really you. It took me over a year to finally find some relief from this problem. And I still have to baby it at times. If your doctor didn't offer you the exercises that help stretch the muscle...go on line and you can find them. Try rolling your foot on a frozen bottle of water. Sounds funny...but that was one exercise that seemed to help the most. You can also use a rolling pin. Good luck and hope it gets to feeling better soon.

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Plan the life Ė live the plan.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Not that I am obsessive about living to a plan. But there are things I want (good health, slim body, happy attitude, clear skin, to celebrate a rich full holiday season) and to get them Iíve got to plan my steps Ė and then Iíve got to actually do what Iíve planned. I love the holiday season and want to honor it by fully enjoying it. I like to go to the choral concerts. I like to attend the Christmas Pageants. I like to go to parties and have parties and decorate my house, to buy presents, to wrap presents, to make and send cards Ö I love the whole thing, actually.

Now, itís not as if my days are wide open with lots of unclaimed hours into which I can place each holiday activity jewel. Each new thing fitted into my day means there are routine activities that get dropped from it. In the past the first to go has been exercise Ė then cooked-at-home dinners Ė sometimes upstairs housecleaning.

Well. I guess the upstairs house cleaning can always get a lick and a promise, but this year, exercise and nutrition are standing on equal footing with revelries. So whatís the plan? Itís a three pronged effort to pay attention to diet, exercise and spiritual needs.


Continue following SP eating plan and calorie limits - with special attention to each weekly step in Phase 2. This week? Make each bite nutritious.

Add dark green leafy vegetables to my diet every day Ė think green smoothies?

Follow this rule to the letter: at every holiday event NO eating till Iíve spoken with everyone there. Once Iíve paid honor to the people, then I can turn my attention to the food. Who knows? By then, all the fattening stuff might have been eaten!


Schedule daily exercise in my Day-timer (Yes. My life is still scheduled with pen and paper) Mix up the routines so that some days are strenuous, some are merely elevating and one is gentle.


Make two of each weekís workouts walking at home, outdoors. I can think and pray and plan and find spiritual solace when Iím walking outdoors in a way I canít do it at the gym. Beneath the heavenly dome of the sky, rimmed by the deep green and dark grey of the forest that surrounds my farm, I can find that deep connection with the greater universe.

To fit more time into an already full day Iím going to have to cut something somewhere and I think it will be morning computer time.I usually play on-line from about 5:30 to 8, catching up with friends, writing blog posts, posts to forums like Facebook and Ravelry, plus playing with all the other time sucks that a computer and Internet access present you with. At 8 o'clock I fix breakfast and get ready for work.

Well, I can wrestle an hour out of that computer time, so from now, through January I will get off the computer at 7 oíclock and do something that honors the season, my loved ones or myself. Maybe take a walk. Maybe address Christmas Cards. Maybe even clean the upstairs!!

Letís see if I can transform those 7 extra hours a week into a healthier, fitter, happier me for the New Year.

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MSLZZY 11/21/2009 10:46PM

    Sounds like a plan and some ideas could be worked into my day as well. Thanks for sharing!

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HARPERLADY 11/21/2009 11:54AM

    always enjoy reading your post, I think I might have to adapt some of your habits emoticon. one thing i am definitly going to accomplish is to get to the gym more , use to be s gym rat,. I love walking and execise out side but it is cold here. sounds like you have got a plan. best of luck emoticon

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Getting LIFE to cooperate with my intentions.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

It suddenly it me as I was changing my status today, that LIFE has a way of derailing a lot of my intentions and I don't like that.

For 6 weeks I exercised almost daily and have reaped tremendous benefits from that but over the past week I have made it to the gym only 2 times and haven't done any exercise at home. This is Not Good. And it is all to common during the busy holiday season. LIFE, as I often think of it, intervenes, butting heads with my intentions and leaving me, weeks later, looking back regretfully. And a little resentfully.



I don't like that one little bit and by golly I am going to see if I can get LIFE to cooperate with me. emoticon

Or maybe I should learn to cooperate with LIFE, rather than to yield to it. LIFE is going to whoosh around me all the time, so I better figure out what I don't want to get whooshed away and find ways to hold on to them.

First is that daily exercise.
Second will be healthful eating.
Third will be quiet down time when I can recharge.

I love the holidays and I like to pack them full. This year I'll have more time off than ever before. There is a wealth of opportunity here and I do believe I can have it all. But I'm going to have to make a major change.

I must ditch the intentions and Make Plans. Scheduled, timed, committed to plans are what I'm going to need to make it to 2010 with no regrets - no resentment.

I'll be back in a day or two with those PLANS and I bet I'll be back in 6 weeks with a happy report.

Hooray for today.

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IFDEEVARUNS2 11/20/2009 10:06AM

    Pick some of the SP exercises that can be done in the office or at your desk. That's what I do when life gets in the way. It's better than nothing, and it's actually doing some good.

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DEBBIEKAY1 11/20/2009 8:35AM

    Wow! good for you! Plan it and it will be a date that you must not break. this will be your best holiday ever!


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MSLZZY 11/20/2009 8:31AM

    Planning and dedication go hand-in-hand! I'll be waiting to see what you've put down and commited yourself to doing! emoticon

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JLITT62 11/19/2009 1:28PM

    We'll be waiting to hear what those plans are, and to cheer you on!

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THEMINT2 11/19/2009 7:55AM

    Thanks for this - more reenforcement to go full force and not let up and for reminding me that I am not alone especially during the holidays! I will look forward to your plan. emoticon

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MOMMAKATES 11/19/2009 7:47AM

    Hooray for you, this too also seems to be one of my problems I was thinking along the same lines. Now you have me thinking how I can grt in sink with my own life and get a little cooperation myself.

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Nutrition - getting it all

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

That's my ultimate goal - getting all the nutrition out of the foods I eat that I possibly can - but I'm having a hard time getting all the nutrition I am supposed to have with my present eating habits. I can see that, slowly, over time, I'm going to have to make some major eating changes. I know myself well enough to realize that I shan't do it all at once. But I'm going to have to get there if I want to move into my senior years with vigor, health and confidence. And belive me - I want that very much.

I'm operating under the assumption that if I eat the exact SP meals planned for a given day, I'll hit the target range for every nutrient but at this point I am swapping out enough meals and single food items to throw me off the track. I know I'm going to have to give up certain things I like - or severely limit them - like white rices. Not that I don't like the brown and wild rices - but sometimes a dish just doesn't work with the richer flavors of the whole grain rices. And dark leafy green vegetables. I can see that they are going to HAVE to become daily entries - not vegetable options. For some nutrients, there just isn't any other way to get them than to eat the dark greens.

At 57 I have a bunch of habit foods that I go to - foods I like, that are fairly low fat, filling, and quick to make. This is good - but the trouble with habit foods is that - you eat them to the exclusion of all else. I love pita with hummus - but that can't be my ONLY lunch or 1/4 of my meals will give me always and only the same nutrients.

Experts say "eat a variety of whole foods" and I am sure it's good advice. It's just that I haven't yet found a way to fit that into my life. I guess I like routines too much - I've been too swayed by the idea of efficiency in eating (and cooking and grocery shopping). Like multi-tasking - sometimes efficiency in eating leads to poor quality.

I'm going to spend the next week plotting and planning and devising ways to fit more nutritious food into my life. And I can't think of a better time to do this than the week before Thanksgiving and the begining of the wild food frenzied Holiday Season.

I'll be back with a second post about this in a few days.

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HARPERLADY 11/18/2009 1:28PM

    way to go! planning is everything, I started by just simple replacing the sides that I had ( just one ) with a nutrient packed side so it did not seem like a big deal. you are doing great , keep up the excellent work

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MSLZZY 11/18/2009 10:02AM

    Sounds like you've got a plan! Carry on, dear friend, and keep me posted. emoticon

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JLITT62 11/18/2009 8:06AM

    Check out for a way to get greens in daily -- fast AND tastes good. Really, you'd never know greeens were in there. Which reminds me I ought to puree some of my kale and put it in the chili I made . . .

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BUTTERFLI2008 11/18/2009 8:03AM

    Besshaile...i like your attitude! I too agree that proper planning is what leads to ultimate success. Good luck and i'll watch out for your next post!

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