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Me, Summertime and the new Weight Watcher's program

Friday, May 27, 2011

It seems as if I have time for one long serious bit of writing in the early mornings: an important email, a post to my personal blog Likethequeen2 or musings about my weight loss journey here. Since that particularly journey didn't seem to be going anywhere this winter, I haven't been tempted to prose much about it. Now, though, I feel I ought to catch you all up on where I have been and what is happening so - here goes!

I have a dear cousin who has shared with me the foibles, battles, failures and triumphs of weight issues for almost 40 years. This past Christmas we were both closer to the loosing end than the winner's mark and as a Christmas present I offered to pay 2 months gym membership or 2 months at Weight Watcher's - and if she chose WW I would also go with her to meetings. It wasn't till March that she was ready to choose and she picked WW. We used to go to meetings in another little town nearby - I even made it to my goal and to their lifetime status!! But as life and bad habits slowly layered onto my body, so did those pesky 20-25 lbs. I continued to attend meetings for a long time but there came a day when it seemed to me that I was giving them money for something I wasn't buying. Weight Watchers is a very sound program, but as any long time weight managing adult knows - every system can be circumvented. Though I liked the people at the meeting, I also don't like throwing good money away. It became an honesty issue for me ... and ever so slightly ... a location issue because the place they met was awfully moldy and had a heating system that drowned out the leader.

My own doctor's office (both m.d.'s) strongly urge the South Beach diet for their patients and I certainly looked into it - but everything about SB depressed me, from the voice of the doctor reading the audio book to the miserably strict regimen for beginners. I k now - one is not required to start at the strictest first 2 weeks - one could leap over stage I and II and follow their maintenance recommendations and lose slowly and easily. somehow - I was too blue after reading the first half of the book to give the second half a fair chance.

So - about the time WW came up with their new plan (looks so much like south beach maintenance ... or the Edgar Casey Alkalizing program I can hardly tell them apart) H and I started attending meetings at lunchtime in our own little town. Much easier to do than staying out nights, held at the meeting room of my own gym, so even more convenient. And of course, I'm taking along a buddy.

I don't know why things clicked this time - though I admit, I love the little hand held calculator as a daily tracking tool. I love it that pretty much all fruits and vegetables are points free. I love it that they've upped the points of all their snack products. It used to be that when a banana was worth 2 points and one of their candy bars was also worth 2 points .. well, heck. I'd choose the candy bar. Now that I'm choosing between a 0 point banana and a 2 point candy bar .. easy peasy, huh?

The main thing I've done, besides watching portion control, has been to scale back the amount of flour products I consume. I seriously emoticon bread but since they upped the points for an average slice of bread I find it easier to eat fewer slices. Of course, we're rolling into the fresh garden produce season - our local farmer's market held its first day last Saturday and boy did I stock up. Salads are a daily offering at Chez Bess. I've made it through a long vacation, 3 receptions with "heavy" hors d'oeuvres, 2 graduation parties, a Kentucky Derby party (with mint juleps), a wedding, 2 birthday parties and a funeral over the past 2 months and the weight is still slowly coming off.

I have to give WW credit for finding a combination of tools and tricks that is working for me, but I also give myself some credit for working with WW. It feels good to see the downward movement. It feels great to go shopping in the attic for "new" clothes. I like the new program a lot - certainly enough to shell out the $10 a meeting it is costing me. The 9 lb weight loss since Christmas is an added incentive.

So - Just wanted y'all to know where I was. In a good place. Here is hoping each of you is finding that sweet spot too.

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KSP3776 5/29/2011 6:51PM

    Good for YOU! We all have to figure out what works for us. I have heard great things about the new WW too! I used to work the system with the old WW also and got tired of throwing my money away. I just LOVE Spark People web site and reading others hints and suggestions, they all help to get one thinking and making changes!
Keep up the good work and you will succeed! emoticon

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LEANJEAN6 5/29/2011 6:28PM

    Good for yu to be successful at WW------Nice to hear about yu!--Lynda

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ONEKIDSMOM 5/29/2011 8:53AM

    I agree that WW is a good program, but as with any program if you don't work it... emoticon Looks like you're working it again, though.

Nice to meet you... I wandered over here to see what you were all about after you kindly left a comment on my blog! Congrats on managing a busy life AND shaving those nine pounds since Christmas!

- Barb

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MSLZZY 5/28/2011 8:03AM

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AEBROWNSON 5/27/2011 3:07PM

    I'd wondered where you were...glad to hear that things are going so well!

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BHOLMAN1005 5/27/2011 9:47AM

    I am impressed with all your activities that there was some weight loss. Congratulation

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JLITT62 5/27/2011 9:07AM

    Well, I love WW & I am happy for your success. Still stuck in the same plateau, however.

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A photo of the finished sweater - for those who were curious

Wednesday, March 09, 2011

Got to wear it yesterday!

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F.SILVI 3/9/2011 4:10PM


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WEDDWT 3/9/2011 1:07PM

    Love,love,love it! You do great work! The only time I have made anything for myself was an A-line skirt and a blouse in 8th grade Home-Ec class eons ago. And that was because it was a requirement. So I really appreciate those who have this talent,ability and creativity to make clothing. Your sweater is very pretty. Thanks for letting us have a peek!

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ANASONIC 3/9/2011 1:04PM

    Beautiful sweater - beautiful lady!! It's a win-win!

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EDWINA172 3/9/2011 12:23PM

    WOW! I admire your talent. Great job!

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BECKYSRN 3/9/2011 9:51AM

    How cute!! And it's something you can wear with so much stuff. I like it.

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OPAL50 3/9/2011 8:41AM

    I love the colors and it looks so nice! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SHEILA1505 3/9/2011 8:34AM

    Pretty colours - suits you - clever lady


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JLITT62 3/9/2011 8:20AM

    Lovely! Good work!

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DAYHIKER 3/9/2011 7:12AM

    How pretty! Adopt me? emoticon

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MSLZZY 3/9/2011 7:02AM

    Wow-how bright! It matches your smile! You are very gifted!

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FAERY_FACE 3/9/2011 6:49AM

    Very nice! You look great!

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EXENEC 3/9/2011 6:42AM

  I love it! You look fantastic.

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Sheeeeeees Baaaaaaaack and wants to talk about Whole Grains

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Whole grains. We're always hearing about how important they are for us. Lots of fiber, essential vitamins and minerals. All that good stuff. And then you're given your options. Dry cereal or factory baked bread. Mind now - I totally love bread. If I had to pick a single Desert Island Food it would be bread. But I have yet to find a store bought bread that I really want to eat. Something in the recipe, possibly whatever it is that gives these breads any shelf life at all, just ruins it for me. Even the fancy bakeries in the city have disappointed me. That leaves baking bread myself. Fortunately, I like to bake bread and often do, but I can't always bake it and to get me to light up my oven in the summertime requires a visit from the queen.

Dry cereals don't appeal to me. For me, a filling size portion of dry cereal needs to be a cup and a half. I love me some hot oatmeal - and I like grits well enough. I like all good tasting grain products. But I'm tired of what is available locally - which is whatever is available from Walmart and Food Lion. Some interesting flours but few and besides - flour means baking and I am curious about what these grains taste like just plain.

And so, my 2011 food quest is to sample Whole Grains in as many ways as I can. I started with what's already in my house which was Quinoa flour and pearled barley. I already knew I liked barley and I was curious about what the cookbook authors meant by quinoa's earthy taste.

okay. earthy means it tastes like dirt.

LOL well, no. it just had that hint of dirt - earth - scent and taste when I dipped my finger into the flour and tasted it. And the authors (dang. I don't have the book near me but I'll have it next time I post) did warn me that it does well cut with something sweet in the bread, like pine nuts. I didn't have any pine nuts and I really didn't want to make a sweet bread.

I used their recipe which is a pretty basic bread recipe ... 3 cups liquid to 6 cups dry. I used 3 cups whole wheat, 2 cups all purpose and 1 cup quinoa and, as per the recipe, double the yeast. which is good since I had to quit making the bread mid-way and put it in the refrigerator after the first rise. As such, it came out a little denser than I think it would have been if I'd been able to stick with the normal time schedule. Happily, I like dense bread.

Unhappily, the quinoa gives a slight bite or tang to my bread. It fades quickly and can be completely masked by a nut butter - almond or peanut worked. Interestingly, Jelly and blueberry butter did NOT mask the tang.

I don't call it good bread unless it's good with nothing on it - so I would give quinoa a go by as a flour product. I'm not sure what I'll do with the rest of this bag of flour either, since I'm really not tempted to bake anything more with it ... but I am still researching recipes. I may change my mind.

As for the barley - oh. well. YUM.

I already knew I loved barley. I love it in soup and my husband insists it be put in pot roast - and sometimes I comply. The down side to barley and most of the whole grains - is it takes a LONG time to cook them. With barley, though, you can cook up a big batch - it swells to three times its size so 1 cup uncooked will give you 3 cups cooked - and refrigerate it. I like it hot with a few raisins, cinnamon, a dot of butter and a little milk. Yum. In fact - I will have some for breakfast today. And it's yummy in salads. But we had it with a shrimp stir fry made up of a pound of shrimp, a bag of frozen stir-fry vegetables, sliced mushrooms, some garlic, a pinch of pepper flakes, about 1/2 teaspoon of powdered mustard and maybe 1/4 cup soy sauce. a little water, a teaspoon of corn starch for thickening .. even my picky eater husband loved it.

I love how long you can chew barley - it makes a half a cup of breakfast cereal last a long time and it lasts a long time in my tummy. Three days now I've had it for breakfast at 8 and wasn't hungry at all even when noon rolled around. That alone is enough to make barley my new favorite grain ... but there are So Many Others out there - and I plan to try them all.

Happy Hump Day

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MSLZZY 2/24/2011 11:50PM

    I'm going to give barley a try-thank you!

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AEBROWNSON 2/23/2011 2:42PM

    What a great idea!
I'm a big fan of quinoa, but not as flour! Add fruit or veggies and some spices, and it's yum! I agree with you on barley, too. I have some teff's used in Ethiopia to make that spongy bread they make. I want to learn to make that.

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4EVERFIT011 2/23/2011 8:00AM

    I like quinoa as a grain. I make it according to box directions and add cranberries and someetimes chopped walnuts if I need more protein and can afford the calories. My next grain to try is millet. And like you I love barley.

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BESSHAILE 2/23/2011 7:25AM

    Oh do check into it. it's not gluten free but it's not the same gluten as the one found in wheat. I hope you can tolerate this one.

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SHEILA1505 2/23/2011 7:19AM

    mmmmmm interesting, Bess - I'm going to have a look at this - Barley! I remember having it in soups and lemon barley water as a soft drink as a kid especially after illness. Have to check out the gluten issue - but I have such a hard time filling up from breakfast till lunch - only eat RyVita (I know - cardboard!)


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Letting go of dross - a new moon ritual

Monday, January 03, 2011

A new moon is on the way and astrologically speaking that's a good time to get rid of things - things like

1. the fat on my body
2. any eating that isn't pure pleasure
3. Fear and it's younger sister, worry
4. the Untruthful living one does based upon fear.

those are the 4 things I want to let go out of my life this year, and I'd like to continue to release the frittery procrastination I began releasing last year. I was amazed at how successful I was with releasing bad juju last year - especially the habit I had of grousing about long gone injustices and hurts whenever I was doing housework. I don't know how I started that practice but I realized it was a really creepy damaging thing for me to do. Whenever I'd catch myself doing it last year, I'd stop and say, in a much louder voice than my muttering voice, a list of everything I could think of that I was grateful for of everything I could see right then, that was beautiful. Truth is, I don't even remember the last time I grumbled about something though I think it was some time in the summer.

so. to add a little more oompf to the process of getting rid of things I don't like I wrote them down on pieces of paper and one by one, I burned them up in the stove. Watching those little bits of paper shrivel away did feel good. and with an eclipse and a new moon on the way - I can smile at the thought that I picked such an auspicious time to do it.

May you be able to release your bad juju to make room for all the wonderful things out there just waiting to fill up your world.

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IATQOTW 1/3/2011 8:43AM

    What a lovely post to see first thing (ok, almost first thing) in the morning! Thank you. Excellent thoughts.

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SHEILA1505 1/3/2011 8:37AM

    How stunning that there's a partial Solar Eclipse tomorrow coinciding with the New Moon - so soon after the Lunar Eclipse at Full Moon 2 weeks ago. Unfortunately, once again, none of this will be visible down here at the tip of Africa :(

Well done with dealing with the juju last year - funnily enough I tend to do my muttering when I am hanging laundry outdoors :)) Must remember your tip!


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JLITT62 1/3/2011 8:06AM

    Turning those negatives into positives is an excellent way to handle them! I am working on most of the things on your list, too.

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The Gift of 365 Glorious Days - to do with what you wish

Saturday, January 01, 2011

Oh my. Sometimes I surprise myself at how cool I am.

Wait! No! I mean.

Sometimes I surprise myself at the cool ideas I come up with. Alas. I don't always follow through with them – but they're awfully good ideas. So last year, in the days leading up to 2010 I made three lists – one, of things I'm grateful for, one, of things I want to let fade out of my life and then 31 things I wanted for my body. Cool, huh?

Of course, for me, coming up with ideas and carrying them out are two different things. I'm like my favorite juvenile fiction character, Betsy Ray, (of the Betsy-Tacy series by Maud H Lovelace ) who was forever making lists and coming up with adventurous ideas that her spunky friend Tip carried out. Betsy, Maud, and I admit this facet of our characters, but just because we don't always act upon our grandiose plans doesn't mean we don't ever act. In fact, many of Betsy's lists, resolutions and plans were so compatible, I adopted them for myself.

So what about all my 2010 plans and resolutions anyway? I don't know where the gratitude list is but the other two were posted in a blogs here. Of the 6 things I wanted to let flow out of my life, all of them have at least gotten closer to the door.

1.Unhealthful food - in unhealthful proportions  This one barely budged, though it was nudged slightly further away by the addition to my daily life of a yummy green drink made of juice and dark leafy greens and almonds that BD and I have become addicted to. The day doesn't feel right if we don't have our green drink.

But there is something I don't like about this particular release ... something about turning food into an enemy ... much like health food people turn food into something magic ... it's a semantical thing but definitions are extremely powerful so I need to think about how I could reword this to make it both more positive and more truthful.

2.My sedentary body and it's accompanying aches

Learned yoga – hurt my back twisting too much during yoga – had to stop doing yoga – took up swimming again - feeling far fewer aches and pains now. ALSO Realized that i CAN do yoga but I have to only turn as much as I can't feel the pull. My own extremely loose ligaments make it too easy to stretch too far. Recent unbelievably easy yoga practices have shown me that I need to be looking for something different from what other people look for in yoga.

3.Grumbling while doing housework 

Ooo. I forgot I wanted to let this go. It's almost completely gone though. Cool!

4.Multi-tasking and it's evil twin... 
6.The mother of #4 & 5 ... Frittering away my time slash Procrastinating 

I made substantial progress on these three things – especially in my work world. I began using a computerized calender and taking the time each month to fill in every thing I want done and the steps (and deadlines) for accomplishing them. Last year was the absolutely most productive year in my job I've ever had. And that productivity left me in a consistently good mood that was so high I looked forward to Monday every single week!

Man. I want More of this!!

As for the 31 things I wanted for my body (since this is a weight/health/body blog) I achieved 24% ... which, in my book, is pretty durn good. This is not just leaving me proud of the previous year, but excited for the new one.

Well, well, well. So today is January 1, 2011. As per one of the very few rituals I keep, I will take down the tree, clean the house, put away my Christmas perfume, take a wonderful luxurious bubble bath, and sit down with pen and paper and a fresh new notebook and start making my new lists. I already know I'll lift some things from last year's lists but I've also begun planning the new items I want to add to this year. I love me some New Year's Resolutions.

My wish for you is that your year, whatever you resolve to do with it, is so glorious and thrilling and rewarding that you, too, look forward to every Monday – even the rainy ones. emoticon

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OPAL50 1/1/2011 12:51PM

    I loved reading your blog! You did well to accomplish 24% of your goals! You are an inspiration... emoticon I can't wait to see what you are up to next. emoticon emoticon

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SHEILA1505 1/1/2011 8:38AM

    I love Mondays!
Did not enjoy this morning - :( It was raining and I wanted to go for a neighbourhood hilly walk - old trainers have holes in them (Ok for gym but not puddles) and the new ones created blisters yesterday.

Eventually it stopped raining so I managed my walk at lunchtime but oh,boy, that meant the sweat started streaming so much sooner. It was a good hour though and glad that I managed it.

In case it didn't stop raining, I finally put on my Brazilian Body dance and be fit DVD - and that made me sweat too - it's going to be a whole lot of fun and I'd like a body like the girl on the cover - bet she's been Photo-Shopped ;)

Hugs and love for a wonderful 2011

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ANNR1003 1/1/2011 8:36AM

  As I was reading your post, I saw that you mentioned the fictional character Betsy Tacy. I had never heard of Betsy Tacy or read any of her books, but my daughter did a story on the Betsy Tacy Society while she was working for a tv station in Mankato, MN. You can check it out at
I love your idea of writing down 31 things that you want for your body and achieving 24% is GREAT.

Happy New Year!


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