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Sunday, August 04, 2013



This picture is disturbing but this is what happened to my son yesterday. He walked out and said he was going to play ball, I started to tell him don't go but they all think I watch too much news and that I am a hoover mother. For those of you who don't know what that is, that is a mom who doesn't let go of her kids. I just want them to be aware of how fragile the human body is and that they have sometimes chill at home and be bored sometimes. I mean, we used to happy playing rock teacher, red light, green light or red rover, red rover now if they are sitting still they are bored.

The story unfolded by our son running on porch with such urgency and bursting into the house & tripping over himself. With such a dramatic entrance, I thought someone hurt him for his iphone or shot him or something. He yelled I broke my arm, he was in so much pain and i wasn't there with him, his dad rushed out the house taking charge & he is not good in these situations. He walked out bbq sauce on his clothes, a tank top, no wallet, no phone, no insurance card. I had to run it out to him. Normally I am the one who goes with the kids to the hospital cause I am the leveled headed one. Well after they heavily sedated him, the pulled his arm and elbow slide back into the socket. It was such a painful for him waiting but they got him some serious anesthesia and he was out. He was incoherent almost. The orderly who helped him out to my car was a joke! He let him get out of the wheel chair on his own. I mean, if he had feel I would've sued him personally! Anyway, he was sent home with some more dramatic drugs & slept most of the night. I stayed home from church with him to wait on him so more. He finally got up too a shower and went to his girlfriends so she could drive him to Champagne. I told him no but he wasn't listening to me. This is my oldest son who is 20years. Is it illegal to sit on your kids to make them take a say to try to heal? lol I am just too through, so he is going to pay the $250 emergency room visit and the $300 orthopedic specialist fee as well. Am I wrong for that? What about my pain and suffering and worry....

Didn't get much of a workout except cleaning and washing cause Hubs goes out tomorrow....

God bless & thanks for letting my whine like a little baby!!!

Dee

  
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GODZDESIGN95 8/6/2013 4:25PM

    sweetie I am sorry! I hope he heals up. Kids at a certain age can not be told nothing. They know it all already. LOL! We as parents want to hold them so they do not get stump toe and get hurt. When he pays the high bill maybe he will think next time...hopefully. emoticon

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CIERAPOET 8/6/2013 12:11PM

    Well Dee I probably would have reacted the same way. They don't want to listen. My son is 23 and he got "sick" earlier this summer and he NEVER gets sick but he kept doing his normal hanging out stuff. He just had a very bad case of eczema with a bit of MALNUTRITION. I almost cried. But that was NOT my fault.

emoticon Remember when you were their age? We were GROWN. Couldn't tell us nothing. We had to pray plead The Blood of Jesus and LET God take care of them. We've done our part.

On a lighter side Yes it's fine for him to pay those charges but JESUS PAID IT ALL. He's our Shepherd and we have EVERYTHING we need. We have to TRUST Him that He's Speaking to our children as well.

I've learned STAY CALM! It's OK!
Love you sis!
Deb
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JANTWO 8/6/2013 12:40AM

    I hope your son heals fast!!!! I am sorry that happened!!!!

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BABY_GIRL69 8/5/2013 7:00PM

    Thank you all for your comments, prayers and support! It was much needed & I got a much needed nap to repair where I am exhausted...

God bless,

Dee

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LORILEEPAGE 8/5/2013 11:59AM

    That sounds painful! He'll be ok. I'll pray for your strength to deal with the situation that you feel led to do. emoticon

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LIVELAUFLUV 8/5/2013 10:44AM

    There's nothing worse than having our kids (at any age) get hurt. We tend to pay for our son's medical expenses, but only because he can't afford doctor visits and medication and we want him to see his doctor and take his meds!

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SHE-LION 8/5/2013 10:17AM

    WOW! Sorry to hear about that! Gotta hurt. But he is in the grown-up world now and Mom and Dad can't fix everything for him. (I have a 27-year-old who straddles that fence!)

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ILOVELIFE2012 8/5/2013 7:58AM

    I'm sorry to hear this happened to your son. I wish for a speedy recovery.

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AWESOMECHELZ 8/5/2013 7:37AM

    I don't think it is wrong to let people pay for the consequences of their behavior since it is part of life. I am glad it was not very serious and he is healing and doing well. I remember being 20 and feeling invincible too. I hope your day goes well and God bless you both.
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GEORGIAGIRL26 8/5/2013 6:04AM

    I am sorry that your son broke his arm.
I pray that it will get better soon my friend.
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ILOVEMALI 8/5/2013 12:30AM

    I hope that your son's better soon! nothing worse than our kids getting hurt or sick!

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ROCKYCPA 8/4/2013 11:27PM

    So sorry he is hurt - hope he gets better soon!

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RUTHXG 8/4/2013 10:00PM

    OH, so sorry your son had this accident! But thank God it wasn't worse. And thank God he has YOU to keep things organized in such crises! emoticon You will get back to your workouts, I have no doubt, & maybe you'll have some extra energy from all that adrenaline!

I think most parents nowadays do & pay too much for their kids. It's good for our young adult kids to have responsibility for their own expenses, as much as possible. You're not a bad mom for requiring it! Quite the contrary.

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NAPPIGURL 8/4/2013 9:56PM

    If only he had listened. Welp, like you said, he's a grown man so he has to live with the consequences (and bills) of his own actions. He'll learn on his own & be grateful and appreciative to have a mother like you. Wishing your son a speedy recovery and you a rapid rebound from your pain, suffering and worry. emoticon emoticon

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ALIHIKES 8/4/2013 9:38PM

    So sorry he was injured! At 20 he is an adult and I agree he should pay for the bills.

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Happy Monday!!!

Monday, July 15, 2013

Good Monday Sparkfam! It has been a minute but I am always trying to make sure I hit you guys with a goody or comment on your page or blogs. I have been so busy with my little pooda scooda freshin fruita (grandbaby slang). lol He is such a joy and his little puppy brodder is such a big boy & tries to help whenever he can......I took a staycation to help my daughter & SIL with the babies while their daycare provider closed 2weeks. I just couldn't let little Camden stay with someone else who might let him cry too much. I mean a good 2-5 minutes isn't bad but anything beyond that is way too long. I shed a tear.....

Well a few months back I hinted that I would be starting a business with my hubster?? Well I am glad to say that Trinity 3 Trucking is up & almost about to be running. We bought a tractor but will run with JB Hunt with our own authority (means more money) and once we get our trailer we will get even more money. I am overjoyed but I don't want to count my chickens before they hatch. Starting a business can be extremely difficult and the time it takes from your life can be immense. I have prayed on this almost everyday but trying not to be selfish. I want to wise in decision making when it comes to our business & finance.

On another my youngest son is giving us the blues.... I have prayed on this & on him & ask for your prayers for us as well. As the devil is busy but I refuse to give on him but I can't lock him in the basement? Well I could but he is 16years old & I'm trying to help him think more for himself. This is some times difficult as we know kids know it all & the peer pressure. I mean, he is a well mannered kid but he is sneaking out of the house which as you know can very dangerous. I am NEVER giving up on my kids! I am thinking of sending him to a military school as per his request. He thinks he is in jail now he has no idea....I will keep you posted.

I went to my yearly pap exam and I lsot 10lbs. I was wondering if it was just water? I will take it nonetheless. lol Thank you for reading & take care.

God bless & keep you all!!!

Dee

  
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MARIAJESTRADA 7/23/2013 9:49PM

    Woah! Way to go on the business. Good luck and at a way to be a great Granma!


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ILOVEMALI 7/20/2013 11:21PM

    I am keeping good thoughts for your son. I used to be a juvenile hall public defender, and frustrated parents would talk to me. I told them -- and truly believe -- that the issues would pass. The kid would grow out of the problems. And, generally, I was right.

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JANTWO 7/17/2013 12:34AM

    I said a prayer for your son. I have had some problems with my 35 year old son that are far greater. He has been to jail for real. He wears an ankle monitor for using his ex fiance's password and posting derogatory stuff of her Facebook page. That is Felony 3 in the state of Texas. My advise is to take control now while your son is 16.
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RUTHXG 7/15/2013 10:26PM

    Hey my friend, it is FANTASTIC to hear about your new business! Especially because it won't be taking you away from Chicago--right? I can imagine there is lots of stuff to stay on top of. Best wishes with it all, & may you soon get the trailer, & may there be no nasty accidents! emoticon

So glad you got the extra time with your grandkids. They grow up so quickly! And woohoooo on losing 10 lbs, yay!

And you have all my sympathy as you struggle to help your son survive & thrive. I think age 16 is especially hard for boys. My son wasn't a bad kid either, but he was pretty unhappy at that age. May God protect your boy, especially as he is out & about--the Zimmerman verdict Saturday night was BAD, in my opinion, & I am praying extra-hard for our beautiful black boys. Big emoticon to all of you, & prayers alongside yours.

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NAPPIGURL 7/15/2013 10:10PM

    Lol "pooda scooda freshin fruita" emoticon it!!!

Congratulations on your & your hubby's business!!! That's SO exciting. It definitely takes dedication, patience, and persistence to run your own business & I am praying for your success and that you will be guided to make the wisest decisions for you guys! YAY!!!

Teenagers are always a tough situation, lol. I have a little sister who is now 18 & is about as stubborn as I was as a teen (not a good thing, lol). Of course they know everything, they know better than you, and everything you do in an attempt to keep them out of trouble is really just an attempt to make them the most unhappy they could be just for your own entertainment. *le sigh* I don't know how your son is with communication, but my sis, anytime anyone would try to tell her something for her own good she would just shut down & not even listen or respond.
What I found worked best was to start a discussion, not giving advice, but talking out different scenarios, asking what she thought about them, what her reaction would be, what could go wrong, what were better/alternative courses of action would be, etc. It was better if she came to the conclusion to take an alternative course of action rather than be told that she had to. It's different with everyone though, but eventually they grow up and realize that their parents are smarter than they gave them credit for being and probably weren't just trying to make them suffer. I'll be praying for an amiable outcome for your family in that situation as well.

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So Sad....

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Good Monday Sparkfam!! It was truly a gorgeous weekend I mean the weather was nice and the Spurs won & I was with my brand new grandson Camden Emmanuel.....I'm so in love with that little anxious angel....I mean he is always fidgeting....He is almost crawling....I'm serious I'm not just being one of "those PROUD grandparents!" lmbo

So let me show you why I am so sad....

Meet Coco Chanel she was born September 3, 2012 I had the pleasure of trying to find a good home for her. Coco is a havenese mini she is absolutely delightful. Why didn't I do a blog or try to post something on my Animal Lovers team about her? Instead, I asked a co-worker if she would like to have her since she found a small pup not to long ago but the owner came forward to claim him. She was "supposedly heartbroken" thinking the owner would not care for her. So of course, I showed her photos and she wanted to see him & keep blah blah blah...well this happened on Friday. I got the little rascal on Sunday morning, hence I missed church to connect Coco with her new proud home with a loving family. Pysch! I was absolutely blown away at her apprehensive way of approaching the dog & the "I don't know?" attitude towards her. She saw her & that was enough I told my girlfriend who her aunt actually gave her away, we might have a problem. I mean if it wasn't her kids didn't take to the dog, she didn't have papers to say what the dog lineage was, or the shots microchip & "what if" she gets sick in the future the heartbreak. Well, I felt so betrayed but then again, I knew she really didn't want the dog, she just wanted to see her. She saw her & that was enough. So I took him to my girlfriend's uncle thinking he was keeping her for himself but no he is gifting her to a woman at his church. In comes the heartache. I have Shadow who is 6years old & doesn't know how he would act with another dog. I would have to keep them separate cause he is jealous of my newest grandson. You don't know how it broke my heart to leave her. She was already within 2days shifted from one home to another home & now I can still hear her paws on the glass... I know the feeling of thinking of Shadow without me but now Coco Chanel is without me...Like I am the only avid dog lover?? So please pray that Dottie Coco's new owner loves her like I do....Oh I did offer to take her if the new owner doesn't want her. Dogs are a lot of work & Shadow is older but still I have to work with him.

I gained 15lbs since becoming a grandma or is it that I have gained weight and just didn't know it? Well today is a new day, I am recommitting to not putting ice cream cookies burgers fries & hot dogs on my daily meal plan....HELP!!! Deb & my other Sparkfam where you at??!! Front & center, I need you guys now!!

God bless & I need to STOP enjoying every day with food so much!!! LBVS

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GODZDESIGN95 6/24/2013 6:01PM

    Oh I know your heart is breaking. You never know what people will do. God cares for all creatures small and great. I'll send up some prayers. As for as the food girl we both need to lean on each other. Do what worked in the past. I am retooling myself.

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GARDENSFORLIFE 6/18/2013 7:28PM

    I pray for a good home for this baby!
I will also pray you are on track with your eating plan!
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FLYER99 6/18/2013 10:04AM

    God works in mysterious ways. The first potential owner? It wasn't meant to be. I pray that this last person is just the right match for Coco. God Bless.

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SUNSET09 6/18/2013 7:08AM

  None can love them like you do however, we can only do what we can! Everything in moderation so you don't have to give it up, just don't eat them all at once, just kidding! We're in this together so we gain together and lose together! I decided to treat myself with a turkey burger yesterday and only ate half a bun! It satisfied the taste buds! You'll find your niche as we all will! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ILOVEMALI 6/18/2013 3:00AM

    Hey there! So happy for you. Grammy!!

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CIERAPOET 6/18/2013 2:11AM

    emoticon That's a cute lil puppy! realize you were actually rescuing animals as a passion. I remember that bird you stopped and cared for. I was thinking how sweet that was and it's actually who you are all the time! That's wonderful! emoticon

Your grandson is anxious huh? lol Just wait until he gets older. Is your older grandson like that? My son was a very alert newborn and an extremely hyper toddler! If I opened the door he ran out like a mouse when you turn the light on! emoticon Love those boys!

It's amazing that I actually went to my friend feed tonight and seen you had posted this blog and there was my name! I wrote my response in a goodie!
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Love & Blessings!
Deb
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DJ4HEALTH 6/18/2013 1:13AM

    That is sad that she did that, it is not a toy that you can just look at and then decide that you don't want it. It is a living animal and needs love too.

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JUDITH316 6/18/2013 1:05AM

    You are so kind to find homes for these fur babies, I'm sorry you are feeling so sad and I totally understand, I hope the new owner takes to Coco Chanel right away and gives this precious one a good home, here's hoping coco channel will love this new owner and the new owner will totally fall in love with Coco Channel. I am believing they will be a good match...I encourage you to get back with your program, I know you can do it, I cheer you on my friend, keep pushing and keep pressing ahead...

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RUTHXG 6/18/2013 12:42AM

    Oh, such an adorable little Coco! I pray her new human loves her wholeheartedly & helps her feel at home very quickly!

As for the grandma pounds, we can't have that--let's get with the program, Dee! Your little Camden is SO blessed to have you as his grandma. (I love his name, by the way!) You've gotta do all in your power to make sure he has you for many, many years! Of course it's all up to God, but don't let it be because you weren't taking care of your beautiful self. Have fun exercising hard & eating lightly!

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BJPENNY70 6/18/2013 12:40AM

    I think it is wonderful you find homes for fur babies. I hope the owner adjust to Coco Chanel and Coco Chanel adjusts to the new owner. I am glad you are recommitting to healthy living. You won't be sorry as those pounds come off and the healthy eating makes you feel much better. God bless you!

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The Spark Solution

Monday, May 20, 2013

Good Monday Sparkfam, I have been reading the Spark Solutions for the last week an there are a few things I would like to share with you all. I actually ordered the book because I wanted to reach out and try something new. What I was doing currently for myself wasn't working for me like it once was so I needed something new. I saw that just flipping through the pages that my desire to try to erase past bad habits and start anew surface. I have seen my waist coming back to me which I forgot where I placed it within the first few days without a 60mins workout overload. I like having a regime & felt comfortable with having a whole team that reads blogs & supported one another. I didn't really have a favorite meal but I feel if I have to choose it would be the Bacon-Swiss Scramble. Apparently, I love breakfast which is normally hot for me. The tip which I found most helpful the slow and steady because I hit the ground running at a 100 miles per hour. Then feel like I have burned out within a few weeks.

Next week I would like to be able to have a lose in my win column of at least 5lbs.

To get your own solutions join the many who have found Spark once again at this website: www.sparkpeople.com/sparksolution

I would like to hear if you any of you have bought the book and how you guys feel about it.....

God bless & enjoy everyday!

Dee

  
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CHICAGOTOM 6/27/2013 12:00PM

    So, any updates on the book? What are the key wisdom points. I would be interested in your perspective because you are so committed to sparkpeople.

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CIERAPOET 5/24/2013 5:04PM

    emoticon Happy Friday Dee! emoticon

I'm glad you've found something that will move you in the direction you are desired. It's going around about slow and steady. We want changes immediately and without using common sense. No shortcuts to Success!!! God's Blessings Upon ALL You Do Because HIS Favor is Upon You!!! emoticon YES You CAN!!!
Enjoy a Beautiful Friday!
Deb
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JANTWO 5/23/2013 2:54AM

    I have not bought it yet.

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RUTHXG 5/21/2013 1:11PM

    Good for you, Dee! I'm so glad the book is inspiring some new possibilities for you!

By the way, I don't think I ever heard back from you about our tall ship outing--??

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MSPROVERBS31 5/21/2013 10:32AM

    Wow Dee so glad you've found your Spark again.
I haven't gotten the book, I thought, "Hey I got the first one and didn't really use it, why get the second one too."

I will look into it again after reading your blog. Seems like it may have be tot review a few things in my lifestyle and solutions to getting to my desired goals. emoticon

All the best as you continue to strive!!!

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RACEWELLWON 5/21/2013 10:09AM

    Thanks Dee - will have to purchase one of these little gems - Good Luck !! Karen

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ILOVEMALI 5/20/2013 11:04PM

    I bought the book thru SP offer (still waiting to get points and DVD!). Haven't started it yet.

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SONYALATRECE 5/20/2013 10:55PM

    Change is good when you are sporting the right attitude. Keep it up!

Sonya

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Happy Friday!!!

Friday, May 17, 2013


This is my grand baby with his picture taken sideways.....lol Yes, I am having a blessed & happy Friday & pray you are too......He is actually 8days old today & he has 2 sets of grand parents and one is being a little bit overbearing... Any suggestions on that? Oh did I say that the overbearing grandparents are not us...lol

Today, I am doing my hard exam on watching every bite of food that enters my mouth. It is going pretty well as I have plump up a bit a long with my daughter. So we will both be hitting it in a few weeks once she gets her sea legs under her.

Shadow my 7year old boxer has an upper respiratory infection. So he has been kinda sick but I just didn't know it was that. So he went to the vet Monday after he had a reaction to I don't know what on Sunday. So I spent Mother's Day mothering a sick puppy. He is doing well he got a shot of antibiotics, then he has meds we have to give him daily. I think they are working as he has a runny nose (which I don't think I've ever seen a dog with one??) and he isn't coughing or hacking as much as he was on Sunday. I am burning my candle at every end trying to come up with a schedule to really rest up but a woman's work is NEVER done....ugh!!!


Today for my workout I will be doing walking, weights & maybe a little kickboxing? I guess it depends on how early I get home from my visit with my daughter & her family. I go bearing meals, massages & mental support if needed. I guess that is what we all need some times, someone to just take care of us....who are you going to take care of today?


My little rascals....

God bless & enjoy your day!

Dee

  
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BABY_GIRL69 5/19/2013 4:20PM

    Sorry that I didn't say that baby Camden Immanuel was born 7lbs & 12oz 19inches long...

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In His Love 7& thank you for your support.....

Dee

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Dee you have some handsome grandsons and a fine puppy! You ARE truly BLESSED by The Lord! I'm so happy for you and Your family!!! You are surrounded by men! I pray the other grandparents calm down and be filled with more peace in Jesus' Name! My sister-n-law is here for a day and will leave on Saturday. I haven't seen her in a couple of years. We've been talking and reminiscing and comparing notes are our young adults! lol She has one son and one daughter as well. It's so good when you see family from home! Enjoy your wonderful weekend! Thank you for your encouraging comments on my blog!!! emoticon
Love & Blessings!
Deb
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JANTWO 5/18/2013 12:45AM

    Congratulations on your new grand baby!!!!

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RACEWELLWON 5/17/2013 11:19PM

    Congrats !! To you and your family including the over bearing set of Grandparents - So Handsome - both of them- Sorry about your dog - your other baby , get well wishes. I know what you mean that a woman's day is never done but , what an awesome Mom you are - helping - its noticed . You need a little time for your self too - very happy for your Dee - You are truly Blessed - Karen emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ANGGEL40 5/17/2013 11:15PM

    Awww.cute grandkids!

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SPARKLE1908 5/17/2013 9:55PM

    Cute grandbabies...glad that Shadow is doing better...pets are just like having kids, LOL...have a great weekend!

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KKLENNERT809 5/17/2013 8:53PM

    Nice blog! Congrats on becoming Grandma again. I am not a Grandma yet, hopefully someday soon. I loved your pictures. Thanks for sharing.

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BLKLILY 5/17/2013 5:33PM

    I hope your dog feels better!!! emoticon

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ALICIA214 5/17/2013 3:50PM

 


Amen to that!!

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ILOVEMALI 5/17/2013 2:56PM

    your post and photos made my day. A beautiful family. Have a wonderful weekend!

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PICKIE98 5/17/2013 2:39PM

    That baby is a doll! Name, gender?

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