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it was so worth itFriday, August 19, 2011
My family and I leave for vacation tomorrow. Due to the fact that I had to take care of my mom this week I am still behind in laundry, packing and straighten out the home. And then today we brought her home and my older brother will take care of her. Instead of going home we choose to visit my brother in the hospital. It was wonderful seeing him. I pray all is good for him. However, we won't know for another week or so. In the meanwhile it was soooooooo worth not getting anything done. I much rather take care of mom and visit Ralph, it gave me a peace of mind. ![]()
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SHEILA1505
8/20/2011 3:49PM
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I agree with you - far better to spend time with DB. My DB is in hospital too, now, and it is so worrying - my special big brother. Thoughts are with you all Hugs Report Inappropriate Comment |


TERRYT55
8/20/2011 2:15PM
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God for you, Anne. Happy you were able to visit with your brother and care for your mom. That's what being a family is all about. Hope you have a great vacation
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BOBINVA
8/20/2011 11:43AM
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So glad you were able to do that. Have a great vacation.
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ONENEL
8/20/2011 11:09AM
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I agree with Candy- there is always something that needs to be done. Making time for family is way more important (for both you and them) then getting things done around the house. Enjoy your vacation and we will all be keeping you and your family in our prayers. Report Inappropriate Comment |


LILLYPILLY24
8/20/2011 8:52AM
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Priorities in place. It's all good. Hope you can enjoy your vacation even with the situation with various family members.
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CBAILEYC
8/20/2011 7:42AM
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That really is what life is/should be aboout - family. There will always be laundry to do, but there is only so much ttime with family that we are allowed. I'm happy you had such a good visit with your mom and your brother. C~ Report Inappropriate Comment |


NANT406
8/20/2011 4:21AM
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I'm glad that you had the chance to visit your brother and that you're going on vacation. Take care Anne. (((sending you relaxing vibes for your vacation))) Reyna Report Inappropriate Comment |


PROUDLILMOM
8/19/2011 9:24PM
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I'm sorry to hear things have been so rough. I hope things get better. You and your family is in my thoughts *hugs*
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I have had a tough weekend with the sad news about my brother. I pray he will be okay. It is in GOD'S hands now.
I thank all my family, friends and especially sparkfriends (old and new) for the support, kind words and prayers.
I am trying to keep busy. Not that hard now that I am also taking care of my mother, (if you don't know she has dementia) kids off from camp and the usual going on around here.
So, as a diversion I continue to spark. I took a poll this morning. This was the question:
Quick Poll Results
Do you believe that an overweight person can be fit/healthy?
There were four choices. I choose Yes, if they live a healthy lifestyle.
I believe genetics is a big part too but I went with healthy lifestyle.
I believe this because about 2 years ago when I went to my doctor for annual check up. After all the testing the results came back. My good cholesterol was slight low. My doctor was very please with all this and said as always your are in fine health. Anne just watch what you eat and start exercising again. I wish I had more patients like you.
HUH?
But doc...I must be 30-40lbs overweight. How can I be healthy? He said your weight will start to effect your health but it has NOT yet. You have time to get active and lose the weight. He said being overweight does not necessarily effect one's health instantly (something like that,,,this was 2 years ago can't remember exact words) and right now Anne you are in good health.
????You said that already.
Well, since I always ate healthy, plenty of fruit and veggies, always drank water and have been somewhat active person most of my life. Yes, I stop the sports and the workouts for years. And yes along with the fruit & vegetables I ate the junk foods and yes I was (sort still am) a mindless emotional eater but I guess all the right things I did most of my life was an asset to my health. So, even with the weight gain I still had a chance to get back my life. Yep, once my orthopedic doctor gave me the okay to (I had a 80% rotator cuff tear and 30% bicep tear) for me to start to exercise again I did. On May 3rd I joined SP and started watching my nutrition and slowly working out again.
This is why I think (don't know for sure) overweight people can be healthy and fit. But than again I could be wrong.
I am going to call my brother now.


MALKS_ARIA
8/17/2011 5:08PM
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Lots of prayer and love for ya.... Report Inappropriate Comment |


ONENEL
8/17/2011 7:12AM
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I also like to think that weight is not the sole factor as to whether or not a person is healthy Report Inappropriate Comment |


LIBBYFITZ
8/16/2011 11:10PM
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SNOOKUMS19
8/16/2011 5:10PM
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You and your family are in my prayers. Please take care of you too. It sounds like you are being strong for everyone but remember to take a moment for you. A little deep breathing and stretching in the morning is always a good start. Stay hydrated. We are here for you my friend.
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KAILYNSTAR
8/16/2011 5:06PM
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Oh dear. I hope that your brother gets well soon. Thinking of you at this time. Take care of yourself. You have to stay strong. Hugs. Report Inappropriate Comment |


CBAILEYC
8/16/2011 2:05PM
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Here's to better days ahead for you and yours, honey. C~ Report Inappropriate Comment |


MAMAKITTY10
8/16/2011 12:05PM
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Anne I'm praying for you and your family. Report Inappropriate Comment |


DDESERTDDAWN
8/16/2011 10:51AM
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This is day one of dealing with allll you already do and dealing with the new reality of your family. Stay busy, stay centered, stay yourself, Anne! Your thinking is healthy and helps others stay that way. dDawn Report Inappropriate Comment |


BOBINVA
8/16/2011 10:49AM
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I think overweight people can live healthy and be healthy. There is a difference between overweight and obese and some of it is genetics. My belief is that health is about making right choices and balance. You can be within normal weight standards and be living an unhealthy life. I have know of very fit people collapsing and dieing, only to find out that they drank 14-16 cups of coffee a day. Fitness is about mind, body and relationships.
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