Monday, February 04, 2013
I had an interesting lesson today in my self improvement program. It was about success and goals. The coach discussed his take on goal setting and it was thought provoking. It kind of fits in the with my last post of basically starting to live when "X" happens instead of living now.
He spoke on the law of attraction and the law of accumulation. Most people set long, medium and short term goals, I know I do. They are positive, say their affirmations and visualize what ever they want to attract into their lives, thinking that is all they have to do. They are forgetting one step..they have to put effort into getting what they want. It's praying for something and waiting for the Divine to give it to you with out you having to do to anything to HELP YOURSELF!
"Happiness is always a destination as we chase our goals. The goals keep moving forward. As we accomplish one, thereís the next one--thatís when we will start to live. We are always waiting to live.
Today, we start to live right now. We live in the today and we achieve happiness today and every day. We become happy because we start to figure out what we want and we begin to go into action to achieve it. When we are in action, we can visualize our goals becoming true, and those actions of today make us happy today." Coach Steele (Tools to Life)
Basically what it boils down to is what can you accomplish TODAY that will bring you closer to the results you want to see, in the case of today's lessons, in 3 months? If you can accomplish something everyday and focus on just today, you can accumulate success each day. It is not nearly as intimidating to focus on what you can do just today! Baby steps that lead to the results you want to see.
Does this make sense? Today I can drink my water, eat healthful, tasteful, satisfying food, and move my body. This is success and I don't think about tomorrow...today is all there is.Sounds good doesn't it?This empowers me!
Okay, enough musing...need to jump into my day! Congratulations to the Ravens for winning the Superbowl (Which I totally got involved in, scaring my poor fur baby by screaming and yelling at the TV! This is really the first time I was ever totally excited about football...*shakes head* What is the world coming to? *LOL)
Have a bright and blessed day...Remember to look your pockets of joy in this beautiful day!
Friday, February 01, 2013
Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to
lose sight of the shore.
I'm retaking a self help course and today's lesson is on facing the unknown and relishing the adventure.
I used to be an adventurer! I used to look forward to change with open arms! Now I am in a rut, and don't look forward to much of anything. (There are several reasons for this but they no longer matter) Today I take back my adventurous spirit, my child like curiosity, and Love of life!
I have that little girl...night before Christmas...bubbling excitement in my tummy! Oh the delicious anticipation of the unknown! I don't know what is going to happen, but I know it will be great!
We never live; we are always in the expectation of living.
I have never believed that if I waited for for the perfect time and for everything to fall in to place, then i would be happy! Deep down I have always known that my happiness comes from within and if I wait for everything to be perfect, I would never be happy! Being happy is not the destination! It is the journey. I'm in no hurry to arrive at what ever destination I am moving towards, I am loving the joy the journey...THAT is what is important to me!
I lost myself for a while...certain events in my life over the past four years, drove my real self into hiding so deep I never thought I would find her again. *smiles* It's about freaking time she came back! *LOL* I am so excited.
I am ready to continue my adventure into the unknown, to lose sight of the shore and discover who I am and who I am becoming! To face and embrace my fears...to make my life what I want it to be!
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
I woke up this morning with the theme from Indiana Jones running through my mind and out through my lips. I wonder what kind of adventure I am going to have today?! *LOL*
Have a beautiful day and be sure to do at least one thing today that brings you joy!
Blessings, love and hugs,
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
I had THE best Monday yesterday! Everything went so smoothly and the day flew by! Not questioning it, just totally enjoying and putting it on my gratitude list.
I am doing better each and every day. I don't dwell on my visit to the abyss; frankly, it does no good. However, I wish I could figure out the trigger, so I can avoid it. In any event, I am back o track and so grateful for my SP family and friends for their continued support. I love you so much and I really hope one of these days I can meet some of you.
So, I came across this quote in my studies this morning and boy did it hit home!
"The reason most major goals are not achieved is that we spend our time doing second things first."
-Robert J. McKain
I am guilty of this!*LOL* However, I am working on prioritizing things and obviously, my health comes first. Of course as I apply what I lean here at SP, all areas of my life improve, so it is definitely a win-win situation.
The sky is just starting to lighten up and it promises to be a beautiful day. Lots to do today, and so much to look forward to as well.
Have a splendiferous day and remember you are loved!
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Happy Sunday! I felt the need to find thought that inspire me today. Good and positive things to fill my mind and evict the negative things. These are some of my favorites and I felt I needed to share them.
Bright Blessings and love,
Negativity is a very dangerous and bad drug that kills lives and our ability to make our lives what we want them to be.
-Coach Steele (Tools to Life)
There is no failure except in no longer trying.
Self pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in the world.
If you donít like something, change it. If you canít change it, change your attitude. Donít complain.
The last of the human freedoms is to choose one's attitudes.
Keep on going and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down.
-Charles F. Kettering
I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies: for the hardest victory is the victory over self.
The best way out is always through.
Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.
The only conquests which are permanent and leave no regrets
are the conquests over ourselves.
Anything you think you can become you can become. That doesnít mean it is always going to be easy, but in the end it will always be worth it.
Come, my friends, Ďtis not too late to seek a newer world.
Ė Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Cherish the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.
Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody
expects of you. Never excuse yourself.
-Henry Ward Beecher
The Great Black Things that have loomed against the horizon of my life, threatening to devour me, simply loomed and nothing more.
Imaginary obstacles are insurmountable. Real ones aren't. But you can't tell the difference when you have no real information. Fear can create even more imaginary obstacles than ignorance can.
Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eye off your goal.
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
If I had my life to live over again, I would have made a rule to read some poetry and listen to some music at least once a week; for perhaps the parts of my brain now atrophied would have thus been kept active through use. The loss of these tastes is a loss of happiness, and may possibly be injurious to the intellect, and more probably to the moral character, by enfeebling the emotional art of our nature.
Music is God's gift to man, the only art of heaven given to earth, the only art of earth we take to heaven.
-Walter Savage Landor
Music is well said to be the speech of angels; in fact, nothing among the utterances allowed to man is felt to be so divine. It brings us near to the Infinite.
Music is the divine way to tell beautiful, poetic things to the heart.
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