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Losing sight of the shore

Friday, February 01, 2013

Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to
lose sight of the shore.
-Andre Gide

I'm retaking a self help course and today's lesson is on facing the unknown and relishing the adventure.

I used to be an adventurer! I used to look forward to change with open arms! Now I am in a rut, and don't look forward to much of anything. (There are several reasons for this but they no longer matter) Today I take back my adventurous spirit, my child like curiosity, and Love of life!

I have that little girl...night before Christmas...bubbling excitement in my tummy! Oh the delicious anticipation of the unknown! I don't know what is going to happen, but I know it will be great!

We never live; we are always in the expectation of living.

I have never believed that if I waited for for the perfect time and for everything to fall in to place, then i would be happy! Deep down I have always known that my happiness comes from within and if I wait for everything to be perfect, I would never be happy! Being happy is not the destination! It is the journey. I'm in no hurry to arrive at what ever destination I am moving towards, I am loving the joy the journey...THAT is what is important to me!

I lost myself for a while...certain events in my life over the past four years, drove my real self into hiding so deep I never thought I would find her again. *smiles* It's about freaking time she came back! *LOL* I am so excited.

I am ready to continue my adventure into the unknown, to lose sight of the shore and discover who I am and who I am becoming! To face and embrace my make my life what I want it to be!

Brightest blessings,

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EVERLEARNING 2/1/2013 11:53AM

    Ame, I am bookmarking this blog! I tend to procrastinate with thoughts like, "when such&such is achieved, then I can focus on making myself happy.........."
Your writing frequently gives me a boost and a gentle kick in the derriere, usually with impeccable timing!
Thank you!!
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SHUFFMAN126 2/1/2013 8:58AM

    Love this! Hang onto that awesome feeling :-)

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    You will never get to second base iif you keep your foot on first!

Keep On Keepin' On and

Make Today a Great Day!

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Hello Wednesday

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

I woke up this morning with the theme from Indiana Jones running through my mind and out through my lips. I wonder what kind of adventure I am going to have today?! *LOL*

Have a beautiful day and be sure to do at least one thing today that brings you joy!

Blessings, love and hugs,

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TOGEMON 1/30/2013 12:22PM

    Watch out for snakes and giant rolling rocks! emoticon


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TXMEMAW6 1/30/2013 9:33AM

    Hope you have fun on your adventure today, but hope that you don't encounter Indy's

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MURRAY4LOSS4 1/30/2013 8:55AM

  I woke up hoping my husband goes to work and my kid has school so I have time to focus on my exesise and so far I have the time to myself

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Sailing along, Singing a song

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

I had THE best Monday yesterday! Everything went so smoothly and the day flew by! Not questioning it, just totally enjoying and putting it on my gratitude list.

I am doing better each and every day. I don't dwell on my visit to the abyss; frankly, it does no good. However, I wish I could figure out the trigger, so I can avoid it. In any event, I am back o track and so grateful for my SP family and friends for their continued support. I love you so much and I really hope one of these days I can meet some of you.

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So, I came across this quote in my studies this morning and boy did it hit home!

"The reason most major goals are not achieved is that we spend our time doing second things first."

-Robert J. McKain

I am guilty of this!*LOL* However, I am working on prioritizing things and obviously, my health comes first. Of course as I apply what I lean here at SP, all areas of my life improve, so it is definitely a win-win situation.

The sky is just starting to lighten up and it promises to be a beautiful day. Lots to do today, and so much to look forward to as well.

Have a splendiferous day and remember you are loved!

Brightest Blessings,

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EVERLEARNING 1/29/2013 1:29PM

    Yikes! Guilty as charged!
Thanks for the great quote. I find myself getting SO easily sidetracked. I need to focus more.

Hope your day is beautiful!

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KITT52 1/29/2013 11:44AM

    great quote...thanks for sharing and giving me something new to think about....

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PIXIE-LICIOUS 1/29/2013 9:46AM

    I love that quote, its great food for thought.

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Favorite Quotes Part 1

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Happy Sunday! I felt the need to find thought that inspire me today. Good and positive things to fill my mind and evict the negative things. These are some of my favorites and I felt I needed to share them.

Bright Blessings and love,
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Negativity is a very dangerous and bad drug that kills lives and our ability to make our lives what we want them to be.
-Coach Steele (Tools to Life)

There is no failure except in no longer trying.
–Elbert Hubbard

Self pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in the world.
-Helen Keller

If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.
-Maya Angelou

The last of the human freedoms is to choose one's attitudes.
-Victor Frankl

Keep on going and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I have never heard of anyone stumbling on something sitting down.
-Charles F. Kettering

I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies: for the hardest victory is the victory over self.

The best way out is always through.
-Robert Frost

Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.
-Carol Burnett

The only conquests which are permanent and leave no regrets
are the conquests over ourselves.
-Napoleon Bonaparte

Anything you think you can become you can become. That doesn’t mean it is always going to be easy, but in the end it will always be worth it.
-Coach Steele

Come, my friends, ‘tis not too late to seek a newer world.
– Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Cherish the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.
-Belva Davis

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anybody
expects of you. Never excuse yourself.
-Henry Ward Beecher

The Great Black Things that have loomed against the horizon of my life, threatening to devour me, simply loomed and nothing more.
-Elbert Hubbard

Imaginary obstacles are insurmountable. Real ones aren't. But you can't tell the difference when you have no real information. Fear can create even more imaginary obstacles than ignorance can.
-Barbara Sher

Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eye off your goal.
-Henry Ford

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
-Marianne Williamson

If I had my life to live over again, I would have made a rule to read some poetry and listen to some music at least once a week; for perhaps the parts of my brain now atrophied would have thus been kept active through use. The loss of these tastes is a loss of happiness, and may possibly be injurious to the intellect, and more probably to the moral character, by enfeebling the emotional art of our nature.
-Charles Darwin

Music is God's gift to man, the only art of heaven given to earth, the only art of earth we take to heaven.
-Walter Savage Landor

Music is well said to be the speech of angels; in fact, nothing among the utterances allowed to man is felt to be so divine. It brings us near to the Infinite.
-Thomas Carlyle

Music is the divine way to tell beautiful, poetic things to the heart.
-Pablo Casals

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PIXIE-LICIOUS 1/27/2013 6:29PM

    Thank you for the great quotes!

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KITT52 1/27/2013 1:45PM

    great motivation... I need a daily does

thanks for sharing

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Goodies, another lesson absorbed, and more decisions that lead me further away from the abyss!

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Well, it is the weekend, Huzzah!

I received my Spark People Blue cup and my WooHoo teeshirt! Woohoo! *LOL* I ordered the shirt in my current size and decided it is time I have a "Before" pic taken. My plan is to buy a new shirt ever few sizes to track my progress and have a pic taken. Just need to find someone to take the pic. I LOVE my blue SP cup! I may get one in every color like MostMom1. I have even taken to sing "Spark People Cup!"

I woke up in the best mood this morning! Lessons are sinking in and I continue to learn new ones. My favorite one thus far I've learned is from Lily on this week's edition of Spark Radio. Lily and Karen were talking about how hard it is to get back into the positive thought patterns after over indulging. We all know that it's so easy to spiral out of control once a negative thought and feeling show up. Now, for me, this is not only goes for food, but for everything mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical. Which is why it's so hard at times to come out of the downward spiral. Negativity propagates insanely quick.

Lily discussed something she tells her clients when they stumble and start to spiral down. She tells them to do 1 tiny act of power, like 50 sit ups or going for a walk, just something positive!

As I am dealing with so many things in my life which all seem to bear down on me, I took Lily's advice. I normally do my laundry on Sunday, in a routine rut don't ya know. Anyway, I felt so good last night after work, I felt I needed to do something productive, so I did my laundry. It made me giddy with delight that it is done. I know it sounds silly, but that empowered me! So much so, that I had a bowl of cheerios with raspberries for dinner. Yes, that was an act of power as well. Friday nights I usually get fast food for dinner. So I kept my calories (and everything ) in range! Everything is interconnected; the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual. That's what I love about SP. It is not just about weight and fitness, it's about life and how you choose to live it!

It is the little things, my friends! Tiny acts of POWER! Thank you Lily for that sublime advice.

Today my act of power is to empty 3 boxes in my living room and dispose of everything I don't need, want, or doesn't serve/inspire me any more. Who knows, perhaps I'll do more?!

What will be your tiny act of power today?
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Much love and bright blessings!

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HEYRED221 1/28/2013 4:57PM

    I like that - tiny act of power. Great idea. Wishing you a wonderful week emoticon

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    emoticon I love spark people goodies!

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