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I'm okay

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

I'm doing so much better! Logically I know better to find out now, then when I am more fully invested emotionally. I have worked through all the logical arguments. I have a bruised ego and it will heal, probably a lot more quickly than I realize. I suffered from a small amount of emotional eating, but caught myself before I over did it.

Back on track and raring to go! emoticon

  
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POETIC_SPIRIT 6/23/2010 6:10PM

    Glad you are investing in you! Glad you are feeling better, back on track and raring to go!!!! I said it before, but it bares repeating, "he doesn't deserve an extra minute of your post date time and energy". Spend that time on you!
Take care of you,
Mary

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TIME_FLIES 6/23/2010 5:55PM

    Sounds like he is pretty impulsive. Better to know that now than later.

Have fun!

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So much for Wheeeeeeeeee...

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Well, that didn't last long. He dumped me via email. Of course he said it wasn't my fault, that I am beautiful and fantastic. *sighs* Sooooooooo...he didn't even want to give it more than one date and a drive home? I really liked him. I figured it might take more than a two or three hour date and a 15 minute drive home when I picked him up from work to get to know each other. To be fair, he said when he kissed me it felt as though he was kissing his sister. What he didn't know is that I am still rather shy and as much as I love kissing, I'm not usually ready to jump into a fiery liplock with someone I just met. *shrugs* I guess the problem lies with me.

The hurt will pass, it always does. Now to get on with my day! emoticon

  
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POETIC_SPIRIT 6/23/2010 6:07PM

    The problem doesn't lie with you...It lies with a shortsighted man who thinks so much of himself that he can tell something is not going to work after only a couple of hours. I am sorry you are hurting, but you deserve better. You will find a man who is willing to invest more than a couple of hours of his life! You will find a man who is willing to invest in the dating, get to know you, learning to please you and eventually loving you! That's the man you want. That's the man you deserve! Feel better soon. Don't give this guy more than three hours of your post date time, he doesn't deserve it!

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SORCHAKAT 6/23/2010 2:17PM

    Heyred221 is right there is something better around the corner! You are beautiful woman and that he can't see that in one date means he must have had his eyes closed!! You are amazing and never forget that!!
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HEYRED221 6/23/2010 12:10PM

    Bummer - so sorry to hear that. I don't understand how people can make such a quick decision when they have barely gotten to know you. But that just means someone better is just around the corner.
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Carolyn

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wheeee!

Saturday, June 19, 2010

I had a wonderful time last night! We had a lovely dinner. We talked a lot and laughed even more! We willbe seeinfg each other again. He thinks I'm beautiful and that just floors me. He makes me smile...and blush...and laugh. I am cautiously optimistic! *LOL*

  
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HEYRED221 6/20/2010 2:23AM

    emoticon enjoy !

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POETIC_SPIRIT 6/19/2010 2:18PM

    How exciting! You are beautiful, so that shouldn't surprise you at all! Getting to know someone is such a thrill. I think we forget how fun it is to make new friends, regardless of where that relationship goes. Enjoy the experience and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Take care of you!
Mary

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FITVALGAL 6/19/2010 2:06PM

    Awesome! Enjoy every minute of those great 'new romance' feelings...those are the best!
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Happy Friday!

Friday, June 18, 2010

I can't believe this week is almost over already! It has flown by! I have had a wee bit of a problem getting back on track after last weekend, but I am back in the saddle. Nothing is going to stop me from pushing forward and meeting my goals!

On a lighter note, I am meeting a lovely guy I met on Match.com tonight at Applebees. If we get along half as well in person as we do online, I am going to be one happy wench!

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PUDLECRAZY 6/19/2010 9:08AM

    Have a great time tonight. Keep us posted!

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SORCHAKAT 6/18/2010 1:43PM

    Oh that sounds like fun! Enjoy your dinner and have a great weekend! emoticon

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HEYRED221 6/18/2010 11:45AM

    Have fun tonight - I hope it goes really well! Happy Friday emoticon

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What a great start to my mini-vacation!

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Arrived safely at my sister's. Spent the afternoon having girl time in the jacuzzi with my sis and niece drinking margaritas. It was the most wonderful afternoon! Got a wee bit tipsy, but had the best talk with my sister and niece.

Today is faire and I am so very excited! It should be a grand day!

Bright Blessings!
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BIGBADMOMMABEAR 6/12/2010 12:37PM

    Enjoy the mini-vacation!

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