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A funny Thanksgiving PoemWednesday, November 23, 2011
I got this from MARTHAMBRYCE's Blog and thought it was funny. ![]()
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MSHUFFNPUFFN
11/25/2011 8:34AM
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Oh My Goodness...too funny! Thanks! Hee-Hee! Unfortunately, I find myself in the predicament of being over-stuffed and levitating. Ugh! Gobble, Gobble! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MJ7DM33
11/25/2011 12:56AM
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I love this! Thanks for sharing! Report Inappropriate Comment |


HEALTHYSLIM2
11/24/2011 5:02PM
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Thanks for sharing that!!!! Especially want to say that the part about all that I'll eat today staying OFF MY THIGHS was my favorite! Comment edited on: 11/24/2011 5:03:15 PM Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAINBOWFALLS
11/24/2011 8:42AM
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UNSTOPPABLE_
11/23/2011 4:40PM
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MORTICIAADDAMS
11/23/2011 3:31PM
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LOL!!!
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NWLIFESRC
11/23/2011 2:24PM
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A great one thanks
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ABB698
11/23/2011 1:03PM
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Very cute! Happy Thanksgiving!
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JODYMARINO1
11/23/2011 10:39AM
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Very funny!!
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TWINKIEQUEEN
11/23/2011 10:35AM
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cute
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SUNNYDAZE9
11/23/2011 9:48AM
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So cute. Thanks for sharing.
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TAGSUIT2
11/23/2011 9:38AM
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That was funny, have a bless and happy thangiving, and don't over eat. Report Inappropriate Comment |


LORETTA24
11/23/2011 9:26AM
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What a wonderful giggle to start off my day! Thank you and your friend for sharing! Report Inappropriate Comment |


JKRUSS123
11/23/2011 9:14AM
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Thats great, Happy Turkey Day
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MIMIDOT
11/23/2011 9:06AM
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You gave me my smile for the day. Thanks for sharing! I really enjoyed it. Have a happy Thanksgiving.
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ARTPRINTER
11/23/2011 9:02AM
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That's so cute! Thanks for sharing! Happy Thanksgiving!!! Report Inappropriate Comment |


GOLFGMA
11/23/2011 9:01AM
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Much appreciated. Report Inappropriate Comment |


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SUETEA
11/23/2011 8:50AM
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Wonderful! Have a great day! Report Inappropriate Comment |


I'm just curious. This blog is not intended to accuse anyone or in any way offend any MIL's.
First, let me say that I don't know my MIL. My husband left home when he was 17, became a long shoreman and came to America when he was 25. He and his brother saved up enough money to buy her a house and take care of her and a disabled brother. I've never talked to her over the phone- she doesn't speak English and she has no desire to come to the U.S. So I have no idea what it it's like to have an MIL.
But from what i've seen and heard they can a problem. I saw the movie. Of course they aren't all bad. It's just that in our society MIL's have gotten a bad rap.
I started thinking about this because my mother is an MIL. I won't go into all her issues, but she straddles both sides of the fence.
So, my mother came up for the holiday and as soon as she walked in the door, she started. Now, I have to say DH is very patient and seldom complains about her. But of course she always has something to say about him. He goes out of his way to make her feel at home and is better at handling her than I am.
I often wonder what kind of MIL I will be when my children get married. I promise them all the time that I will not be a Monster-in-Law...at least I hope not...lol. How does that happen anyway? I guess it depends on the situation- if they marry people you don't like, or if you are just an unhappy person who can't mind your own business- I don't know.
I do believe there are situations where an MIL should interfere- abusive situations, drugs, etc. I wouldn't just stand by and condone any of that.
I guess I understand that it's not always easy letting go of our kids and giving up all control over them. After investing 18 years into them maybe we feel entitled to run their lives forever.
So which one are you or which one will you be?
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MOEMOORE
11/23/2011 5:54AM
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I have a wonderful mother-in-law. Which is a big part of why my husband and I spend 2 weeks with her almost every year! I don't think my mother is a monster in law, however I know my husband has some issues with her. But I think he has more issues with some of her mannerisms than anything else. And the thought in the back of his mind that that's me in another 40 years! LOL! I don't have kids, so I'll never have the experience of being a MIL. I've got lots of experience as an auntie (13 times with another on the way!). Report Inappropriate Comment |


KMIRANDA2000
11/22/2011 9:41PM
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I have a feeling that I'll be a monster in law cause my DD tells me everything, so her hubby will be so horrifed at that.
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FRAN0426
11/22/2011 2:26PM
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I'm the mother-in-law that keeps my nose clean of what my DD and hubby do. Nerver give advice unless asked for my opinion. It was easy for me to do this as I had a wonderful mother-in-0law myself and my husband and my mother got along fine too. I miss both of them so much. I also got along fine with my Father-in-law, and my dad wad greqat to my hubby to. In other words once We were married our folks let us live our life together without interfering.
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MORTICIAADDAMS
11/22/2011 12:08PM
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I've been married twice and had great MIL's both times. They both tended to get involved in their other childrens' lives a little too much at times but under the circumstances I could understand. I have really liked all the women my son has dated and the feeling was mutual. I would not interfere with my son's life as long as he is doing okay but I agree that if abuse, drugs, alcoholism, etc. occur that is a different matter. That does not mean I would not offer helpful advice if I see him making mistakes but it's up to him whether or not he takes it. If he messes up, the consequences are his to own. The same with money, if you want your parents to stay out of your life then take care of yourself and don't borrow from them then you won't be indebted to them. If you borrow or beg for money then you are opening the door for advice on how to spend it. That is just how life is. I always have been independent so I have an adult relationship with my both of my parents. They expected me to take care of myself and my own problems and I always have. Thus my parents can feel secure that they don't have to intervene. I raised my son the same way. I tend to think that most normal parents treat their children how they deserve to be treated. If you can prove that you are an adult then you're treated like one and if you act like a teenager then mom and dad step up to the plate. If you want them off your butt then don't give them any reason to be. Report Inappropriate Comment |


MARTHASPARKS
11/22/2011 12:05PM
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I call my son-in-law, my son-in-love and try to be there when they need us and want us and try not to bother them when they are busy. Their world is NOT supposed to revolve around us. I give advice when asked for it - not at any other time. I never drop in without calling. My mother-in-law was lovely but we rarely saw her. My husband loves - really loves- my mom but she drives him crazy because she talks a lot and it interferes with his TV watching and solitude.
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TINY67
11/22/2011 10:34AM
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My wife and mother got along great. Fact is my wife would go to my mother, her MIL, for advise before she'd go to her own mother.
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JABCLUB
11/22/2011 9:41AM
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I have an MIL that still has not let go after 30 years, and I have to fake my way through every encounter with her simply because I respect that she is my husband's mother and my children's grandmother. Honesty with her simply does not work. She's definitely made me aware of the boundaries I want between me and my kids and their spouses-to-be. And I am happy to say that each of my children's prospective MILs seem to truly appreciate my children and like them as a person. I am thrilled both of my kids have found good people who make them happy AND who my kids make happy. That's what I always wanted for my kids anyway -- health and happiness!
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MRE1956
11/22/2011 9:33AM
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I was lucky in that regard - got along pretty well with both in-laws......sometimes I swear it's just a crapshoot as far as those things go......
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TWINKIEQUEEN
11/22/2011 9:32AM
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i try to stay out of my adult children's lives....i never offer advice unless asked...my hsb. is more like his mother in that he likes to have a finger in all the kids' pies...we deflected his mother's nosiness and our oldest child deflects her father's attempted involvements.....we all get along well
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IAM_HIS2
11/22/2011 9:00AM
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I have a mother-in-law who has not let go of her son and wants to be the only woman in her son's life. She is sick...I keep away from her. She has broken up two of your sons' marriages. I keep praying and trust in God.
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GOOSIEMOON
11/22/2011 8:48AM
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My MIL had 10 other sons- and daughters-in-law, so I was just part of a large group. Maybe that's better, as she rarely overstepped boundries with me. I see my mom being extra nice when her daughter-in-law and sons-in-law are around. It makes my life easier, and I think that I will be a good MIL, as I see where boundries are, and respect them. Report Inappropriate Comment |


RAINBOWFALLS
11/22/2011 8:37AM
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I have a mother in law that was nice enough. I too am a mother in law as of this year. I believe that our children must make their own choices and so I think I'm an ok mother in law. I don't just stop by and I never interfere. I wonder what my daughter in law thinks?
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