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A day in the sun

Sunday, June 27, 2010

I spent today on the beach with some friends - an ex-ballerina who now teaches Pilates and a Feldenkrais practitioner. I have allowed myself to become massively unfit and I really want to change that as far as possible and become stronger and regain some stamina.

I have done Pilates with this teacher before - including a blissful week at a Holistic Centre in Crete - so she knows me well and I had a great session with her. I also spent some time with her husband, the 'Feldenkrais man', who met her when she was Prima Ballerina in the Scottish Ballet here in the UK. His role in the company was to keep the dancers' bodies in good condition and help them with the stresses and strains that ballet dancing causes. He now helps people with sports inujuries and the like and also non-athletes with muscle strains and joint problems. Since Christmas I have had considerable pain in my legs and my Doctor and a couple of specialists have had no diagnosis to offer. So I also had a Feldenkrais session and will need quite a few more if he is to be able to help me.

After that we went swimming in the sea - I had a rather unfortunate time in the swimming pool recently and I wanted the freedom of swimming without lanes full of people swimming far faster than I. I love swimming and used to be a strong swimmer but the idleness of recent years has taken it's toll and I want to be confident in the water again. It all went quite well so that has made me happy and provided the weather holds I will be repeating the whole experience.

We had planned a barbecue but in fact were so hot that we went back to their place and made a huge and luscious salad which seemed more appropriate. (Also an excuse to watch the England/Germany match)

All in all a great day which hopefully will be repeated and set me off on a healthier way of living.

Only fly in the ointment was seeing England knocked out of the World Cup
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EPIPHANYANGEL 6/27/2010 5:34PM

    Sounds like a great day.

The match result was a bit of a shocker.

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NEW-CAZ 6/27/2010 3:57PM

    I am so glad you had such a great time today Sonia- what a wonderful way to spend the hottest day in the UK so far this year!
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Hope your evening is equally as nice and you round it off with a peaceful sleep- which might be difficult in this heat

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_COSMOPAULATAN_ 6/27/2010 3:47PM

    Sounds like an amazing day!

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OOPS!! Double post!!

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Never know how that happens :-(

  
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TRENTDREAMER 6/25/2010 6:17PM

    Like a co-worker of mine says, "Don't hate computers. They're only human".

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NEW-CAZ 6/24/2010 3:25PM

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MBSKIT 6/24/2010 2:52PM

    emoticon it's the Spark Ghost! Hitting that button when you aren't looking!

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My light grey line

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Since joining the 10 minute Daily Exercise Streak Challenge I have felt really encouraged to exercise - and perversely more than 10 minutes per day. My Mother used to tell me that I was just contrary (well, my middle name is Mary and the nursery rhyme has followed me thro life) and plainly she was right! So - today, thanks to gentle advice from a good SP friend to do some exercise that I really enjoy, I decided to go swimming.

It is probably a year since I swam and it was not an entirely happy experience because I have got older and let my muscle tone go. I used to love swimming and indeed swam for my county (guess that would be 'state' in the US) at one point but I have let myself become extremely unfit. However I miss swimming so off I went to the local pool in the hope that something would have improved.

I was entirely horrified at how slow I have become even in the past year and got out of the pool in disgust after 20 mins. Instead of letting this get the better of me, my new challenge to myself is to improve this situation and get back some strength and speed. I have arranged to go to a good friend close to where I live for some individual toning and stretching and for Pilates, which she teaches and I enjoy. Slowly slowly I will get to where I want to be.

This is another example of the ‘light grey line’ I have been recommended to draw by yet another wise SP friend - a line that is not black or white but something in between - where I don't throw up my hands in horror and stop trying because I am not doing things perfectly but have patience and gently develop the better habits recommended here on Spark with some leeway for lapses. In this case the aim is to build up to more and better strength.
So I will be back in the pool very soon and following the good advice I am finding here from you great Sparkers.

  
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TRENTDREAMER 6/25/2010 6:16PM

    Awesome!

I'm thinking of starting to train for a triathlon, which would involve swimming. I'm still not in good enough shape where I would be caught dead in trunks, but who knows. Soon maybe.

Congrats on not giving up!

I wish there was a way I could make my Background color light grey on my SparkPage.

Have a great weekend!

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NEW-CAZ 6/24/2010 3:17PM

    But you DID 20 MINUTES SONIA emoticon emoticon emoticon and I'm sure you'll be pleased you made the commitment to your friend.

Small steps hun and you'll reap great rewards PROMISE!
Take it slow and enjoy the process and don't expect perfection- no one is perfect- just ENJOY!!!
Proud of you for making the move and you should be too.
And you said you were sinking into lethargy! No you're not!!!!
Hope the combination of swimming and Pilates continues to rock your boat.
Hope your Thursday is panning out well, the weather has been very hot here and has only just cooled enough for me to do some cardio.
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MBSKIT 6/24/2010 2:54PM

    emoticon good for you on getting back in the pool and not giving up but coming up with a plan to get to where you want to be!

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Drawing the line - but where?

Sunday, June 20, 2010

I went to a funeral last week. I wanted to post a blog about it because I have things to say – but I have been reflecting on how and what to say without perhaps drawing a pack of cards down on my head from Sparkers making the huge efforts of moderation that we all are.

This was a very longstanding friend who was my opposite neighbour for 20 years until I moved to Brighton 12 years ago. He was a huge, generous personality and a very good friend to everyone he knew. Everyone is devastated – particularly, of course his wife and adult daughter. It was a harrowing but happy funeral with lots of memories, tears and laughter, which inevitably made us all feel kind of better in the end.

He was not only a big personality – he was a big drinker (neat vodka, being Ukrainian) and a big eater - wonderful traditional rich stews which he made from fatty red meat – huge suet dumplings – big platters of cheese - butter on everything. He loved getting us round his table and plying us all with food from ‘the old country’. He loved drinking brandy and coffee in good weather on Saturday mornings under the apple trees in my garden. Then his wife would come in from the Saturday morning cello lessons that she gave and we would all put together a large late lunch which we ate with our children.

It was a wonderful time in my life, coloured by his generosity and by the food, fun and entertainment he offered (he was a pretty successful classical violinist but loved to play Ukrainian folk music to us all once the vodka kicked in).

I don’t have to add that he has died younger than we would all have wished. Too young to see his daughter marry or have the pleasure of grandchildren. It was his choice – he thought he was immortal – he thought he would be the one to avoid the clogged arteries and high blood pressure. He was wrong, of course, and I guess this blog is because I am wondering where exactly one draws the line between a long healthy life and a life of big food, drink and fun for family and friends who find themselves alone earlier than strictly necessary.

That line is certainly there - but today I am finding it hard to see exactly where it is.

I should add however that at the funeral I didn't abandon the Spark principles I have been fighting so hard to acquire. I ate very carefully from the loaded table, drank mostly water and actually took myself for a walk when it got hard. So maybe there is some kind of hope for me yet.

  
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TSEWARD 6/26/2010 10:00AM

    Very insightful. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. If there could be a positive (and I apologize...I am not making light of the loss of a loved one...absolutely nothing positive about death) losing a loved one really makes us reflect on how we are living our lives, choices we are making, and reminds us not to procrastinate. And there is LOTS AND LOTS of hope for you. I have no doubts in your determination to live a healthy life. You are doing awesome!

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TRENTDREAMER 6/20/2010 8:28AM

    I'm terribly sorry to hear about your friend.

Don't draw a line. Choose "light grey". I'll blog about it.

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MEDDYPEDDY 6/20/2010 4:35AM

    Yesterday I was at a party for a senior writer who retired - she chosed to do it at 65 because she wants to enjoy life the years left. She has children and grandchildren, her husband died from a heart-attack seven or eight years ago.

This autumn she will go to Assisi (Italy) with a church choir and another friend has asked her if she will accompany to Ulan Bator to fix some library or something like it...

She hopefully has many years left to enjoy family, friends, her garden, travels... life!
And that view inspired me to think that I also want many years ahead because there is so much to enjoy in life. Things happens and my destiny is not all in my hands but there are things I can do to make all fun thing reachable. One is to take better care of my health.

I am sorry for your loss but thank you for your thoughts!

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NEW-CAZ 6/20/2010 4:05AM

    Hi Sonia
First I must say how sorry I am that you've lost a dear friend and that his family now has to go on without him. He sounds quite a character and your tribute to him was touching- I could visualise a very loved man.

Eating and living healthily means just that-you can drink alcohol...but not to excess, you can eat cake....but not to excess.
There is no reason not to eat out and enjoy family occasions.
There's a phrase-"moderation in all things"

There is a suggested norm for exercise- 3 x 30 cardio sessions a week and 2-3 ST.
Unless you live a sedentary life there is no other requisite. If you chose to do more; for fun, for running marathons, triathlons and those are your goals-go for it!

But most people just want to be around for their kids, be able to get out and enjoy their retirement, move freely etc
It's all about balance!

And you're already balancing your life style; careful eating and small spats of regular exercise and taking on board the elixir of life (water) so of course there is hope for you, you are doing an amazing job Sonia.....and don't you forget it emoticon emoticon

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YAY!!!!

Monday, June 14, 2010

I feel weirdly (sorry MP had to steal your adjective!) pleased with myself today. Loadsa fun at the weekend and yet still on track!
In a way I have lowered my sights from the time when I originally joined SPARK – but in another way I have raised them immeasurably. I’ve joined new teams - Slowest Losers and the Official 10-Minute Daily Exercise Streak Challenge and it seems to suit me well thus far – not something I would have expected with the personality I think/thought I had. I always want everything NOW (at once and immediately!) but I have stopped worrying about rapid weight loss. So – in the past two weeks I have lost 1 pound but I have thought about every mouthful – both before and after eating. As some will know I adopted soup for a fortnight as a way forward and I still have soup once or twice a day but other sorts of meals too – all prepared and eaten consciously. I am happy to exercise in 10 minute ‘bytes’ – in fact I had already found out with Coach Nicole’s Fit Firm and Fired Up DVD that I actually do more exercise – several ‘slots’ per day rather than none because I can’t face what to me is a long haul. No chance to get bored this new way.
Who knows if all this will last – certainly not me yet – but I feel better about myself and the fact that I am making progress slowly. Go Tortoises!!!
As always I have to add a thank you to those who have encouraged me – you know who you are :-))

  
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TSEWARD 6/15/2010 11:44PM

    Thank you for checking on me and hanging in there past the days with no changes on my page! You are doing awesome! Eating consciously is one of the most challenging and life altering habits to learn. Once you have that licked, the rest is easy! (well, relatively speaking). I enjoyed your comment about starting out wanting everything now, immediately! Amen to that! And now you are happy and progressing with a whole new approach. I am so happy for you!

Soup is surprisingly good...a can of veggie soup lasted me a good 3 plus hours one afternoon (hunger wise)...I was shocked. I am looking into having more in my diet.

Sending you hugs and warm fuzzies!
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TRENTDREAMER 6/14/2010 9:39PM

    "Who knows if all this will last � certainly not me yet � but I feel better about myself and the fact that I am making progress slowly. Go Tortoises!!! "

* Go Tortoises!! :D

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NEW-CAZ 6/14/2010 1:33PM

    You've found what works for you Sonia, I'm pleased for you.
You don't have to slog to lose weight, small bites are just as effective.
I wish you luck hun and emoticonagain for the loss so far.
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