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MIL BACK IN HOSPITAL

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

So today hubby was taking MIL to the doctor and when they were testing her oxygen it was only 78 and they immediately sent her to the emergency room. We thought surely this is it this time but you never know. They took an x-ray and she has a slight case of pneumonia. We are so ready for her to be out of her misery and off to better parts. But I guess God has plans for her that we do not know about.
So you see, all this week, when she was coughing at our house, she was developing pneumonia. They put her in a regular room and they have DNR orders so we will see. Both he and I agreed that she will not be coming home with us again. If she gets well enough to leave the hospital, she will go back to the nursing home and stay there until whenever the Lord decides to take her. After arguing for a week about the situation, hubby and I both agree, we cannot take care of her adequately. And I did tell her I loved her and that she was the best MIL I could have ever had so I hope she understood and heard me. My head is pounding and my nose is still dripping although it is loosening up. I'm so relieved that she is at the hospital as last night, she could not breathe and coughed and coughed.

  
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    hugs and prayers, friend. be sure to take care of yourself in the midst of it all.

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THIS WEEK A BUST

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

I went to the doctor yesterday and all I have is a head cold. The drainage is making me cough and he gave me some heavy duty cough medicine so I slept good all night. Hubby took MIL to the doctor as well and they did an x-ray and found she has fluid on the outside of her lungs, not in her lungs so that was a revelations. She got symbicort and we have to administer that. I am so ready to feel better. This is one of the worst head colds I've had in a long time so another week and its gone, I hope. Thanks All for wishing me well.
MIL is still in bed and I treasure this time, knowing that when she gets up, it will be none stop.

  
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LADYBUG1943 1/23/2013 9:48AM

    This is the year, it seems. My DH was sicker than he's ever been... in bed for three days. Our family was still here for Christmas, and our 5 year old grandson said "this might be his last days!!!" Wonder where he got that phrase. DH got up from bed before they left just so grandson could see him walking!! You get gray hair and people think only death comes next!

We know different, don't we! I saw you're online this morning, so hope you're feeling better.

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SEWINGMAMACDS 1/22/2013 6:11PM

    Hope you ALL feel better soon!

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EBURGITE 1/22/2013 2:00PM

    sending hugs...praying.

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BILLETWIFE 1/22/2013 12:43PM

    I hear you.....my head is going to explode and I can't breathe. Just walking BY my treadmill makes me cough!!! I ended up sleeping on the couch so I could stay upright. If I lay flat, I just cough and keep everyone up!!!!

Feel Better!!!!!!

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KASEYCOFF 1/22/2013 11:20AM

    I wonder if fluid "outside" the lungs is old-fashioned pleurisy? I don't think the term is used anymore, but you sometimes find it in old books and newspapers...
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MIL at doctor

Monday, January 21, 2013

So today, after coughing her head off all night, my husband took MIL to the doctor. Had to see someone we don't know but she is getting a chest x-ray and then we will see what is up. This is so annoying. I am seeing the doc at 4:30 this afternoon although I feel much better and will probably be okay but hubby is insisting. You see, he was not around MIL Fri and Sat and he did not know how bad it was. ANd then me coughing as well.
I am so over this and ready to move on.

  
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LKWQUILTER 1/21/2013 8:48PM

    Carol, let the dr check you out. I have several friends that have been fighting this crud for over a month and one friend has taken 3 rounds of antibiotics and still isn't completely over it. I would want MIL x-rayed too as she may pneumonia. Praying for all of you. ((HUGS))

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KASEYCOFF 1/21/2013 2:36PM

    Probably not a bad idea to have her x-rayed - the older we get, the longer it seems to take to recuperate from anything, and this sounds like such a bad "bug" that's going around...
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ANDI571 1/21/2013 1:36PM

    Glad you are feeling better, but best to be checked out. This has been a bad year for the creeping crud for sure.

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STUFF

Sunday, January 20, 2013

So its 3:00 a.m. and I'm up blogging. My coughing woke me up and I"m drinking tea with honey to try and soothe it. It wears you out and my MIL has been coughing since Wed and she must be exhausted. This is the third time this year I've had a cough with phlegm so maybe it is time to see the doctor on Monday. I try to muddle through it but it gets to the point of no return.
I had to forego my bootcamp at the gym yesterday because I felt no one would appreciate me being there, coughing and I also felt I should stay home with MIL. If I had felt okay I would have gone.
This Biggest Loser competition is for 3 months so I have time to get into it. Being gone at Disney for 5 days and then this has kept me from really getting going. I have lost 4.7 lbs though, at least that is what the scale said yesterday morning. I didn't over eat yesterday but I didn't eat any fruit or veg either. Had a PB and Jelly sandwich on whole wheat for lunch and macaroni and cheese for supper. And oatmeal for breakfast. And a 100 calorie bar and a few slices of sausage. That was it for the day. ANd lots of water.
And I sewed. I'm a bit overwhelmed with the events that have occured in my household. I have boxes of draperies and shades stacked in the foyer and living room, 2 boxes of upholstery fabrics, and a large and small suitcase of MIL's stuff sitting there as well. I just close my eyes and walk right past it. The sheets need to be washed in both rooms. My husband says he is helping as much as he can, and he is. But there are certain things that always fall to the woman, you know what I mean. Even though my husband participates in meal making, the ultimate responsibility falls to me. Making sure we have all the ingredients in the kitchen to cook meals and eat in a healthy fashion is key.

I'm on my second cup of tea with honey. Maybe I can go back to bed after I drink it. At least MIL is not coughing as she spent a couple of nights doing so. I told my youngest son yesterday that I would never ever ask my daughters-in-law to take care of me and change my diaper. I will go into a nursing home for veterans before I have to do that. I really resent it and yesterday, when the nurse was here, I mentioned to her that I felt MIL should have stayed at the nursing home as they were better equipped to care for her. ANd she agreed with me.
My husband last night said he didn't think she would be with us for very long but you can't predict that. THis woman is the energizer bunny, she just keeps going. I do love her and she has been a wonderful MIL for 40 years but I didn't sign up for t his. I'm not even sure I would have taken care of my own mother. She died 35 years ago. Some of us are meant to be caregivers and some of us are not.
Last night my husband said, she is "our" mother. She may be "our" mother but that doesn't mean I want to change her diaper and give her a bath and clean her teeth and dispense her meds.

I really appreciate all of you sparkers out there who are encouraging me in this time of trouble. It means so much to be able to vent. I'm going to let my husband go to church today by himself. I just need to go back to sleep. Once I finish my tea. emoticon

  
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FIFIFRIZZLE 1/25/2013 1:00PM

    That must have felt good, to hear the nurse agree.

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COOPQUILTLADY 1/21/2013 1:40PM

    This is a test. This is only a test. And so far you are doing just fine. Even though you are NOT enjoying it! You are still passing! emoticon Keep up the good work, and smile. That helps a lot of things. Hope you are feeling better soon. emoticon

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LKWQUILTER 1/20/2013 8:53AM

    Take one day at a time Carol. Praying for all of you. ((HUGS))

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KASEYCOFF 1/20/2013 6:50AM

    Hope you were able to get some rest, hon...
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FEELING BETTER

Saturday, January 19, 2013

I'm feeling better mentally although not physically. Cough and hack, cough and hack. MIL is too but she is better as well. Maybe we've settled in a bit. This morning I need to help her with a bath and then I am going to sew. I do need to go to the grocery so we will have something to eat. Not much in the fridge. emoticon

  
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SEWINGMAMACDS 1/19/2013 11:22PM

    Glad you are feeling better mentally -- hope you feel better physically soon!

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LKWQUILTER 1/19/2013 7:37PM

    Good news Carol. (((HUGS)))

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COOPQUILTLADY 1/19/2013 4:14PM

    Glad to see you're feeling a bit better about the situation. Hang in there, you can do it! Have a fun day sewing!

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