 
 
Stressed and StrivingThursday, October 16, 2008
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KELSPRETTYGIRL
10/21/2008 12:22PM
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Pebz, I am at a loss for words. Let me tell you... I've been reading lots of blogs... but these last few ones have been really ... wow! People are going through stuff on SP and now I see why SP exists! Let's focus on the positive, shall we? You chose to let the situation fuel your desire to be your best. I'm sorry about your man... I don't know what to say... but whatever you do, don't forget you have a baby now... and you got to be your best for him!!!! I will say this... don't be quick to end the marriage.
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LILSHINE
10/16/2008 2:45PM
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I couldn't help but think that perhaps these are thoughts you have about yourself and not necessarily the way your husband sees you. Have you ever had that conversation with him? letting him know what you're feeling and thinking. Communication is so important in a relationship especially when kids are involved. Just think about that adorable son of yours. I don't know all of the ins and outs of your marriage but whether you're slim and trim or where you are right now won't change the situation if it's a communication issue. Seek counseling, prayer and at the same time continue to work on you and see yourself for the beauty you are. Your husband married a plus size woman - you and your beautiful self. Don't self sabotage be encouraged that you are loved!
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NATUREGIRL75
10/16/2008 9:51AM
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I'm sorry to hear things aren't so good-especially with your new baby in the mix. I was married before for 4 years-but only had my heart in it for about 2.5 years of it. My situation had A LOT wrong with it including, my immaturity, looking to my hubby to define myself and a man who was just so darned self-centered. I'm recently re-married after 6 years of being divorced and can tell you that divorce is a really bad thing to go through. It emotionally cripples people. I made very bad choices and betrayed some of my values before i snapped out of it. I wasn't able to love myself until about 3 years out and still have this shame of being "married before". Into every marriage a little rain must fall. Just look inside and try to be objective about how you feel about your vows and the man who is your child's father. Sometimes-like in my case- it was more damaging to stay in that marriage because I was not there for him or myself. This time around-I know that no matter what, DH and I are in this together and if we don't see eye to eye or I feel like he's being unfair to me-I go toe-to-toe with him and we work it out. Best of luck, huge hugs and good thoughts sent your way. (sorry it's so long) nicole Report Inappropriate Comment |
I went to workout on yesterday and my body definently missed it! I walked on the treadmill for 30 mins and did the stationary bike (the lower to the ground bike...can't think of the name of it..but I could hold the handles on the sides of my hips and my knees almost hit my chest...??) Ok but I did that for 15 mins. It felt good. Now I just need to work on my food again...if you look you can see that fast food has been the easy fix. But not the best fix. I'm trying to get back in guys. Thanks for working with me and thank you for your support! I go workout again tomorrow!
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LILSHINE
10/14/2008 4:25PM
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Way to go! I find that because I've limited fast foods down to once a week only weight loss has been better for me and my daughter! Avoid it when you can if not choose wisely! Be blessed and gret job on the exercising!
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ACCT1908
10/14/2008 3:41PM
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 Keep up the great work! Comment edited on: 10/14/2008 3:39:26 PM Report Inappropriate Comment |
When you desire a certain gift, find it, get a photo of it - do the shopping around for the best price and submit the information in a timely fashion so he can get it. With this tactic you're never disappointed. I learned this the hard way (my taste and my fiance' taste are far off).
