Tuesday, February 01, 2011
Instead of talking about my annoyance-filled day, I'm going to do something else. I am going to tell all of you something that will (hopefully) make you laugh. I chuckle when I think about it. But first, know that I have no control over my dreams and that this is the last thing I would dream about if I was controlling it! haha Also, while I am not a fan of this musician, I don't particularily dislike his music either - I just really don't care either way. So if you're a fan or a hater, please don't go off on a rant or rave here.
So I had a dream a few weeks back that weirded me out. Even now, when I think about it, I think to myself "where in the heck did my brain come up with that?!?!' I could see if I was thinking about him before falling asleep that I would dream about him, but really, if I'm going to dream about someone it would probably be someone I actually know or a good looking guy that is my own age (like Jared Padalecki, Jensen Ackles, Matthew Gray Gubler, etc). By now you want to know who I dreamed about, so here... it was Justin Bieber. Yeah say it: WTH?
What I remember is that he showed up at where ever I was in the dream and started following me around like a lost little puppy... except he kept saying I was the only woman for him and he was in love with me and had to be with me. I kept pushing him away saying he was too young and I didn't know him and get off me! haha I couldn't figure out why he wouldn't leave me alone! He even said he was more mature than his age so the age difference wouldn't matter. I might have even pointed out that he was too short (in the dream he only came up to my shoulders - I have no idea how tall he is IRL).
I hope you're getting a good laugh in. Remember - a good belly laugh can be as good of a workout as situps/crunches! Though I'm not sure how to put it in your fitness tracker...
Now, one other thing I want to point out is that recent studies have said all of the people in your dreams you have seen at one point or another in your life. You might not remember the face in the crowd in your dream, but you may have walked past it a few weeks ago. Or the random person in your dream that was in your way may have been the aunt of your best friend when you were a kid. Usually, the people in your dreams don't actually mean you're thinking of those people, but instead they stand for something else. Like having a woman having a baby in her dreams can mean something as simple as they know a big change is on the way.
Okay, now that you've (hopefully) had a laugh, think about the last funny strange dream you had and laugh about it all over again. Your abs will thank you!
Tuesday, February 01, 2011
By tomorrow morning I will have about 5-6" on my driveway... and the people being paid to do it have not come by once today. So either they will do it in the middle of the night and will wake me up (my walkway/driveway are about 10' from my bed) or I will have a helluva time getting out of my driveway in the morning.
I'm trying to figure out my new boss. When explaining something to me, she absolutely has to explain every detail about 3x, and will not skip anything, even if I am attempting to convey that I absolutely understand it because I've been doing it for years and/or studying it in school. I can't get her to stop saying the same explanations over and over again, which just wastes so much time. Well then today, she is trying to figure out how to handle an issue... instead of thinking it out, deciding, then telling me what she wants to do, she is talking it through AT me, asked my opinion, then when I tried to give it, she got pissed off and didn't want to hear it. Seriously?! First, I might have only been there for a month and a half, but I've been doing this job for years. Second, I'm not an idiot and I have experience that might give a different perspective on how to handle something. Then when I'm trying to leave at the end of my day, she is sitting there talking to me, saying the same thing over and over again. I'm trying to not get overtime, but I can't get away from her. Plus she has a horrific smokers cough where she literally starts gagging and choking on her throat. It is a horrible thing to listen to hour after hour, day after day. When she stood near me today I was trying not to cough from the stench of smoking that is all over her. Yeah I get it, that is your choice... but why do I have to suffer?
So there are my rants from today. Sorry, I didn't have much that was notable and good. Thus this blog is a little negative, but I'm hoping tomorrow will be better!
Monday, January 31, 2011
The Twin Cities, MN, is just starting our next snowstorm. We are expecting at least 6" over the next day. We are running out of room to put all this snow! So I've got a couple awful rush hours ahead of me. Plus I'm going to be getting a lot of exercise minutes in during the next 2 days as I clean up this snow.
As for the guy, I laid down the law yesterday and told him that no matter how many times he asks I'm not letting him come to my house. If he pushes it one more time that will be my limit. We were going to see each other tonight, but I haven't felt well this weekend (I haven't been sleeping well) so by the time I was ready to even move I still had to get to the grocery store, make dinner, and make my lunches for this week. Plus I have to get to bed in the next few minutes so I didn't have time to go anywhere. I've tried to make him understand that I am not going to just drop my life and my health to be around when he wants me to. Again, if he can't get that, then he's not the one I want to be with.
I wish weekends were longer!
Saturday, January 29, 2011
When it comes to dating guys, my problem is more of I get bored with the guy constantly wanting my attention. My life is always busy so to have to entertain a guy all the time is incredibly annoying.
When most people start a new relationship they want to spend as much time as possible together. I'm different: I DON'T want to spend all my free time with a guy. I'm too busy, I have plans, I have things that I need to do. When I've known a guy for a few months then I've had time to work him into my life and then I will see him more. It is very rare to find a guy who can understand this! That's why the last several guys I've dated were musicians who lived an hour or more away and were busy all the time as well. I didn't have to entertain them every night! But, of course, that brings its own set of complications.
Honestly, if a guy doesn't like me, so be it. I've never been jealous for a moment in my life. Either a guy wants to be with me or he doesn't. I will date a guy without a solid commitment and he can date other women too - as long as there are no solid commitments with anyone (ie no cheating - a date is going out on the town and not back to a bedroom). If he chooses someone else, fine I won't fight for him. If he wants to get serious with me, then it is a commitment. So I've never worried that a guy is going to break up with me and leave me alone. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 11 years, and I haven't had anything even resembling a date in well over 5 years (and that wasn't exactly a date) - I know how to be single.
I also have serious trust issues. As in it takes a long time for me to even slightly trust that a guy isn't going to do really bad things. That's probably also why I would rather get to know a guy over several months before I spend so much time with them. I want to see that they are willing to put in some effort to treat me the way I should be treated, not that they just want to use me for a few weeks. I've had guys want to pretty much move in with me right away then have me pay for everything in their life! I'm not a bank, I'm not their mother, and they're not a charity case. If they have to put in the work to prove they are a decent guy with good intentions, then the users and abusers will be weeded out.
So this guy I've been talking to lately, the fact that he is constantly asking to come over is a huge red flag to me. Either he wants to see if he can move in so I can pay for his life, he just wants to convince me to sleep with him (hell no!), or something along those lines. There is a small possibility that he's just not thinking about how that request is going to be received, but probabilities weigh in against him. There are some other little flags popping up as well (I'm not going to get into them all); I have not seen anything that definitively points to him being a decent guy with good intentions. So even though I'm giving him a chance, I'm protecting myself.
Um yeah, so that is my explanation about my issues with guys.
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