Kit, my longhaired tortoishell cat is waiting to share my dinner!
This is how I would like to look
Not a very flattering angle for my photo! I had to get ready in a hurry for my celebration birthday
I'm Wendy, 54 and live in Leicester, UK. I'm a Christian Spiritualist (religion) and trying to become more spiritually aware of God and his love.
Always tiny as a child (I was 36 inches high at 7, the height of an average 2yr old), As a young woman, I was a size zero 31.5-23-34 and just 4ft 10. At my heaviest, I used to have a BMI of 38.5 (only just under seriously obese) and 46-40-46, now its 24.6.1 and I'm 34-28-35, in size 8 jeans.
My doctor and a dietitian advised me to eat lots of bread, potatoes, pasta and rice but the only weight loss success I have had is by cutting them out and I started losing about 1-2 lbs a week! I keep a variety of fish, lean meat, cheese, veggies and sugar free jellies in, which I make up with frozen berries into small tupperwares and serve with a big dollop of plain pro-bio yogurt. My snacks include mixed unsalted nuts, dried fruit, high fibre flax meal and coconut, both creamed in a solid block and unsweetened for baking. I try not to go more than 3-4 hrs without a small meal and have lots of 10-20 gm snacks. I also make up meals to freeze, using my slowcooker.
I''d like to walk down my street without the local yobbos houting "Hey fat bitch!"
I want to wear slim, pretty clothes again, instead of slopping around in comfy cover ups.
Do those exercises and shape up !
Find a nice man !
I''m trying to follow the Atkins diet combined with the GI (stable blood sugar). I enjoy fruit, salad and veg, so find it hard to keep the carbs low and the cals up but I usually eat very healthy and low fat. I also drink 8-10 beer bottles of chilled water a day and rarely have alcohol : (
I had angina and a heart attack at 44, due to years of unhappy marriage, being left destitute and homeless by my ex and a 3.5 yr divorce, being a single parent, studying for an Honours Degree (just missed being in the 3% of 1st !), working part-time at Sainsburys supermarket and having to cycle 4-6 miles and walk 2 miles a day. I was diagnosed with acute Hashimoto's Hypothroidism (Myxodema) and I have to take 150mcg Levothyroxine daily and still have metabolism problems. I have since suffered violent ASBO neighbours, 7 stolen and wrecked vehicles, 2 burglaries and being mugged twice because I lost my lovely home in a nice area.
It hurts when other people see me as fat and assume I am a couch potato eating greasy take aways, chips and chocolate, when I only used to eat a small portion of each once a month, I don''t even do that now.
I've have been so depressed about my shape and my 'hypo' symptoms of carpal tunnel, ME. fibromyalgia and early Alheimer's, that I have been anorexic and sometimes had only 300-600 cals a day in my desperate efforts to lose weight .
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Hi Wendy! Thank you for your comment. We have a couple of small scooters, a Cushman Scooter, golf cart and a Tin Lizzy (a little jalopy run by a lawn mower engine my husband drove in parades for the Shrine Club). These are the the things that the Grandkids love to drive and I can drive myself also. The Cushman is the biggest scooter I would drive. The Harley is my husbands and I am just a passenger. I could never handle one myself and have a hard enough time getting on this one. But it is fun to go on rides with him! Paula
3527 days ago
You want to spice it up?!?!? The next time you make a roast in the crock pot, take the meat out and cube it. Put it in a saucepan with red chile and simmer! I've used enchilada sauce lately and let it simmer down. MMM! Serve with finely chopped lettuce and sour cream. Delicioso!
3527 days ago
Hi wendy ty for the comment ...Il try 2 be more active in the group ..TY 4 the help and support lol DAVID
3531 days ago
How are you? Doing pretty well here. I haven't been watching close what I have eaten this week and kind of afraid to get of the scale. Hope you're doing well!
3532 days ago
Thanks for welcoming me to your team! I hope to get to know you all better! I really catch flack form my family for being the short one(I'm somewhere between 5'2" and 5'3") I hope to get into better shape so that I want have to carry all this weight on this tiny little frame! Thanks for visiting me!
3534 days ago