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The Little Pin Up That Could

I'm May, a graduate student in Northern California, adamant that I will begin my thirties as half the girl I am now. I'm a queer high-femme pagan in love with vintage clothing, typewriters, my bicycle, and radical politics.

I am doing this because I am DONE making excuses for myself, not going dancing because I'm afraid I look stupid, not going to parties because I'll be the fattest one there, and being uncomfortable in every chair I ever sit in. I am DONE not being able to ...
I'm May, a graduate student in Northern California, adamant that I will begin my thirties as half the girl I am now. I'm a queer high-femme pagan in love with vintage clothing, typewriters, my bicycle, and radical politics.

I am doing this because I am DONE making excuses for myself, not going dancing because I'm afraid I look stupid, not going to parties because I'll be the fattest one there, and being uncomfortable in every chair I ever sit in. I am DONE not being able to wear the vintage clothes I love, DONE buying new clothes when I could be thrifting beautiful old pieces, DONE wearing my hair short because "fat girls don't have long hair," DONE with FOMO and DONE rationalizing my life away when I could be living.

I am doing this for fashion, because I want to wear vintage dresses and slutty undies from Victoria's Secret; because I want to fly without worrying about having to buy a second seat; and because I want to begin my PhD, finish with honors, get tenured somewhere without worrying that I was second choice because I was too fat. I am doing this because I want to wear garter belts without my thighs rubbing together and high heels without my ankles buckling underneath and because I want cute dresses without fat girl polka dots. I want to feel strong enough to do roller derby and want to trust my ankles to hold me up on skates.

I am NOT doing this for a lover, for a husband, to get pregnant, to look beautiful in a wedding dress, to be a good role model for kids, or to keep up with anyone (except in bed).

My thirties are going to be totally awesome, and I'm always looking for Spark friends who want to get to awesome together. Feel free to add me!
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Member Since: 5/26/2010

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My Goals:
Long term: not making any excuses anymore. For anything. Ever.

Short term: weigh less than 300 pounds by November 1st (edited: 10/1/2011).

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Eating right, drinking water, committing to daily cardio, checking in with Spark daily and tracking what I'm eating.

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