VACELTICGAL

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OK! My days of living behind my fat are over. My days of making excuses about my health and weight are over.

I am 48, divorced and overweight. I have been on my own for about 13 years, the kids are grown and I am ready emotionally to find a life companion. But what is the pont if my life is going to be cut short because of how badly I take care of myself. Dating at my age is not easy, but add on the extra weight and the pool of available men gets considerably smaller.

I have been hiding behind the fat and saying that if someone can't appreciate me for who I am then to hell with them, but....lets face it, the reality is that I have been using it as an excuse for NOT getting in better shape. Here is the reasoning: if I am heavy and get rejected I can blame it on my weight, but if I was not heavy and still not having any luck then that would mean that it must be me and that would be harder to bear.

If I can't love myself enough to be concerned about my health then how can I find it in me to truly love someone else and to expect them to love me back.

SOOOOOO....I want to love myself and take care of myself so that I can enjoy my life for as along as possible. If I look better great but it has to start with taking care of myself first.

I am putting this out in the universe.

I have signed up, looked at the walking training schedule and posted my breakfast and lunch selections and I hope that I can stay motivated to do this. NOT JUST HOPE....I WILL STAY MOTIVATED.

Have a good one.

p.s. I will post a starting picture in a few days


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