Hi I'm Ted... Welcome to Spark People... You say you're single/fat/lonely? Well start using this site like others do (like me for example, check out my spark page), and you'll find that you'll have a group of supportive friends out there that will lift you up when you need it, and encourage you along on your weight loss journey. Fat? well just use the tools on this site that are available to you, and don't cheat yourself, and you'll be able to cross that word off on your vocabulary... You can do it, just START, and remember, NEVER GIVE UP!!