When I said sometimes you have to be selfish/it is okay to be selfish... I didn't mean ALL the time. Of course this journey is about finding balance. :) Before I started this journey I didn't know how to do anything for ME. I would ALWAYS put others before me and if I didn't I would feel guilty. I think it is okay at times to put yourself first without feeling guilty, but I do not believe I should always be first... ;)
TD:That bear was actually THAT close to me!! DD and I go to that place every summer,, only a chain link fence . There are about 60 more bears there!! I wanted to place a big 6 for six Spark years, but there is none.. You have to wait five years to get to ten,,nothing in-between!