I totally relate to the "surrounded by half finished everything..." Life. I can be like that too and I still don't have it down pat either. There are times I look at what I'm doing and just shake my head. It's part of the human condition I guess so you are not alone. The main thing is to roll with the punches and try to organize as best we can because life comes at us hard and fast with no let up to allow us to reorganize. It's all done on the fly and it's tough.