Welcome to our Ostomy group. I had my share of surgeries and doing great now. Keeping off about 55 lbs at 4'10". You are too young to have all these problems. Your hormones are probably out of wack. Get the book "Hormones, Health and Happiness" by Dr. Steven Hotze. It has how your hormones run your whole body and bioidentical really helps. My daughter has been helped as well as all of us.
For the pain, sometimes it is our Thyroid...go to Thyriodanswer.com and get the new book he wrote free, just pay shipping. It will give you info to take to your dr on next appointment.
I love Dr. Joel Fuhrman for healthy eating...there is an Eat To Live team here with more info. Good luck! 1275 days ago