I just read your comment on Nola's page and I was amazed! I could have written almost exactly what you wrote! The only difference is that my weight has been pretty much the same for 7 months! Every time I get below 160, I tell myself that I am NEVER going there again! I stay in the 150s a couple of days and then JUMP back into the 160s. I am not certain, but I am suspicious that (1) I have a hard time seeing myself as slender. I'M WORKING ON THAT! (2) I (hate to admit this) am afraid I will have to live on practically nothing to eat if I reach my goal and stay there! I really don't know if I am ready for that!
I'm glad I could adopt them both as Luci is not much of a player. She imagines herself as being above such things -- or maybe she is just a natural grouch, perhaps a bit possessive too! So this will be so much better for the kitties!