I am 5'2", so at 145lb and just now getting into a size 6 again, being bummed that my bum doesn't quite fit the rest of a cocktail dress (which is a size 8) isn't too crazy.
As for the undergarments, I don't have rolls. I didn't know that's what they were for. I hoped that it would smoosh my fat so that the hips wouldn't look weird in the dress. Because it does. The dress isn't stretch, so where I'm widest, there's an issue. All I can say is people I didn't say anything other than "How do you like this dress" to asked, "Is it supposed to do that there?" At my hips. I probably should've picked a different dress! I loved this one, though, and when I bought it, believed that with returning to clean eating and a little exercise (I love exercise but working 73 hour weeks means NO I DO NOT HAVE TIME), I'd not have a problem. Yes, I've lost 8.5 inches during the past 6 weeks but the hips still do this binding thing. I'm still wearing the stinking dress! I tried out the foundation garments in an effort to "fix" the hip area. They did absolutely nothing and are going back to the shop.
I hope that's clarified. You can ask more questions if you wish. None of my doctors feel I have (including my shrink) a body dismorphia problem--I have plenty of problems but I'm pretty spot on with knowing where I am, where I've been.
What I have is a self-loathing mean streak, which is something that needs to be worked on! 1891 days ago