Black Eyed-Susan with Morning Glories
Echinacea Cone Flower
Thanks for stopping by! I'm 55 years old and from New England. Recently widowed after 26 years of marriage. I have one child, a son, who is 22 years old. I've been retired since 2008.. I worked 30 years, full time, for the state government doing bookkeeping work for developmentally disabled people and people with mental health issues. I'm no longer working due to health issues.
I didn't have a weight problem all my life. I started gaining weight in my mid-twenties. Before that, I had no clue what it felt like to be the fat chick. Now, I can see clearly from both sides of the fence. Overweight people are the most discriminated group.
They are discriminated in every area of life. It becomes a handicap on so many levels.
I'm here to try the best I can in changing my life for the rest of my life. I'm hoping to help others and make friends on this journey. Lord knows, I need all the help I can get and if I can't find it here; I can't find it anywhere. Different things and approaches work for different people. In the final analysis though, it all comes down to the choices we make and not so much what happens to us on our journey through life, but how we react to what happens along the way. My motto is "Just Do It" Don't think about it, or talk about it; just do it. and the more you go through the motions, the more it will start to stick and become a habit.
I believe my weight problem is mostly due to emotional turmoil. I had a very difficult childhood (or should I say lack of childhood) and teen years and things have gotten so much more complicated since that time. The one place I always knew that I could find comfort and didn't have to look to far or be rejected was with food. I will be strong and won't give up! I don't expect to be perfect and not falter. I know this will happen. But, I will not quit! I will pick myself up, dust myself off, and get right back on track. On this journey I hope to help others find the motivation it'll take to keep the wheels in motion in their life. I'm always ready to listen and help. I look forward to exchanging knowledge and support with new friends. So lets toast (water on the rocks) to friendship and weight loss. Be well, be strong...Jackie
"Have patience with all things, but first with yourself. Never confuse your mistakes with your value as a human being. You're a perfectly valuable, creative, worthwhile person simply because you exist."
-St. Francis De Sales
YOU CAN DO IT!
One seed at a time and the garden grows;
One drop at a time and the river flows.
One word at a time and the book is read;
One stroke at a time and the paint is spread.
One chip at a time and the statue's unveiled;
One step at a time and the mountain is scaled.
One thing at a time and that done well
Is the only sure way to succeed and excel.
You can write, you can paint, you can sculpt or
You can do it by taking one step at a time.
206 lbs. 8/1/08
200 lbs. 9/13/08 Met 196.8
188 lbs 10/13/08 Met 10/31/08
180 lbs. 12/15/08
172 lbs. 01/15/09
164 lbs. 02/15/09
156 lbs. 03/15/09
148 lbs. 4/15/09
140 lbs. 5/15/09
132 lbs. 6/15/09
130 lbs. 07/01/09
Drinking 8 to 11 glasses of water per day.
Count calories, carbs. proteins and fat. Limit calories and fat. Keep a watch on carbs. Use Moderation in every area of my life. Walk, ride stationary bike, or dance everyday.
My passion is Gardening. I think it's in the blood as my Grandfather also enjoyed gardening. I love to plant perennials and like all kinds of plants and flowers I also love photography, motorcycles, counted cross stitch, cats. sunrises, sunsets, a walk in the woods, listening to birds sing, paranormal, metaphysical phenomana, spirituality. I'm a very spiritual person. I love horror novels such as Stephen King and Dean Koontz. On TV, I like to watch, Lost, (love sexy Sawyer from Lost) Grey's Anatomy, House, Desperate Housewives, Medium and Ghost Whisperer. Favorite actor: Johnny Depp Favorite movies: Anything Jack Nicholoson. My favorite season is autumn and I don't like temps. over 65 or 70 degrees. (I guess Washington State would be perfect for me)
| current weight: 208.0