Now I feel like I'm stalking you a bit, but no matter. I'm afraid you may have had some setbacks after early success and optimism. Don't let them derail you! This IS doable. No S is a great foundation for sane eating in an insane food atmosphere. Millions of healthy people in the world live without a lot of snacking, sweets, and definitely not seconds. They enjoy their food, too. You can be one of them.
Wanted to comment on your feed, but it's set to private. I say over and over on LBF, the 21-day thread that stress can make us want to eat (the lower brain yakking) but it can't MAKE us eat. We can always choose just to ignore the thoughts and urges, as long as we're feeding ourselves reasonably. (Note that Kathryn did not diet. She ate regularly. But she wasn't overweight, either. She was lucky to be cured of wanting to be slimmer than she was. Plenty of women of her size still are convinced they need to be smaller. Nothing gets the lower brain going like a few months of that. )