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MORTICIAADDAMS is a SparkPeople Motivator!
Welcome to my internet sparkhome. Kick off your shoes. Sit in the swing beside me for a while. (Or you can sit on the bench by the fountain next to my "buddy" - LOL.) Enjoy the beautiful fragrant flowers. Listen to the birds sing while they splash in the birdbath, play in the fountains, and help themselves to a meal at our feeders. Sip on a cup of steamy orange herbal tea (decaffeinated, of course) and snack on some of my chocolate covered homegrown strawberries, blueberries, raspberries or blackberries. Later on we can take a stroll through the woods and possibly encounter an owl or a deer with it's fawn(s). There is always something wonderful to discover on these walks. And it's even better to enjoy it with a friend.
Hi, I'm Morticia. I live in a cabin in the woods on 6 1/2 acres in a rural area of Southern Illinois, a mile from a small lake, 2 miles from another lake, and the same distance from a state scenic site. We have a large garden and grow a lot of our own fruits, vegetables, herbs, and flowers, plus we raise catfish and bluegill in our pond. We are into self-sufficiency and do everything we can for ourselves - such as all of our own remodeling, repairs, and maintenance on our house, boat, 5 outbuildings, and 3 vehicles. It keeps us very busy and we work hard, but when it's time to relax we know how to do that as well.
We have a lot of hobbies that occupy our free time. Most of them are outdoors activities, like astronomy, mycology, pontooning, bird watching, landscaping, etc. We enjoy relaxing in our spa in our screen room while we listen to music from around the world.
I'm a retired R.N. who worked mainly in critical care, dialysis, and supervision, but I also put in some time in med/surg and rehab. I like to collect things, especially cookbooks. I'm a former moderator of almost 50 internet cooking groups.
My sole mate is a supervisor in a small manufacturing plant. He's very artistic, unlike me. He plays acoustic guitar and composes music. He's an avid photographer and amateur mycologist and entomologist. He does stained glass and wood carving, plus he makes bread, primitive stick furniture, kaleidoscopes, and fiberoptic decorations. My husband thinks canning is fun. LOL!
Our son who is a graduate of McKendree University which is located in the metroeast area near St. Louis. He has a bachelor of science in science education with an emphasis in biology but he can teach chemistry and physics as well. He is manager of a new sporting goods store which opened in 2013 in a town about 70 miles from here. He plays the keyboard and is into computers, video games, and movies. He enjoys reading and is writing a book. He has a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and has also done Gumdo.
We have 3 chinchillas - Runtster, Blocker, and Porkie. We had 6 others named Rico Suave, Bun, Wheeler, Baxter, Squeaker and Stinker but they died. We also had two other males who died shortly after birth. Actually the chinchillas have us because they are in charge around here. LOL. Most people are curious as to what chinchillas are like. They are like people - each one has his/her own unique personality.
For those of you who have not heard it I will repeat the story of how I became obese. I was a skinny, hyperactive, child. I had severe colic, lactose intolerance, pituitary problems, hyperthyroidism, seborrhea, allergies, asthma, rheumatic fever, and almost all the childhood diseases that they vaccinate for now. I weighed 86 pounds in high school until I was in a bad car wreck and ended up with internal injures, broken bones, burns, and selective amnesia. It took me years to recover from the injuries. By the end of that period I reached a normal weight in the size 5-6, 7-8 range and stayed that way most of my life.
I started having medical problems when I was in my early 30's. I had suffered through a failed marriage and worked in a very stressful job. At 32 I developed hypertension and was put on a low fat, low cholesterol, low salt diet for years but my BP got worse and I ended up on 3 BP meds and still had poor control. I developed more health problems and found out I had rheumatoid arthritis at 38.
Between 1995 and 1999 almost all of my family members died including my mom, both grandmothers, my step-mom, step-grandma, all my aunts, and all my uncles but one. At 46 I became the oldest living female in my family. I ended up with my dad, half-brother, husband, son, and 2 female cousins who were a lot younger than me. I seemed to go into total shock and on the day my mother died I was immediately thrust into menopause. For some reason, my grief led to overeating for the first time in my life and I discovered fast food at age 46. I ballooned up and my MD added other problems to my ever growing list of medical problems - GERD, IBS, chronic bronchitis, Chronic CMV, Emphysema, High Cholesterol, High Triglycerides, Hypoglycemia, Reynaud's, metabolic syndrome, pre-diabetic, pre-glaucoma, Menieres, etc. It seemed like every time I went to the doctor I had something else tacked on. And my dreadful lifestyle was effecting my son and husband as well who were becoming obese along with me. I could tell my doctor was becoming depressed about it and one day he told me that he hoped he could help me live 10 more years. The comment kind of jolted me awake and I made a half effort to scale back my bad habits but the diet was holding me back. I hated it and asked for another diet and he put me on an 1800 Calorie Diabetic diet. It was worse.
In September of 2006 I became extremely ill with pneumonia and MRSA. My M.D. was unavailable and I went to a new doctor. I was a total mess and in a wheelchair. My BP was 189/110 and poorly controlled on 3 meds. My pulmonary function said I had the lungs of an 84 year old. The new M.D. had to put me on antibiotics, breathing meds, and steroids. I had a huge stomach and abdomen and a bloated face. I barely recognized myself in the mirror. I was so sick that I had to come back to the MD twice a week for months. It took me 9 months to recover.
At the end of the illness I weighed 221 pounds and I had developed severe hypoglycemia but I was back among the living. This MD was different though. When I was sick he was kind and nurturing. Even after I improved he wasn't about lecturing or asking me to do enormous tasks I could never hope to achieve. He politely asked me if I could just try to lose 10% of my body weight. He gave me a choice of a vegetarian diet or his own High Protein, Low Carb, Moderate to High Fat diet and I chose the latter. He asked me to get a pedometer and work up to walking 10,000 steps a day. How could I possibly do that when I could not walk across the room without being breathless? How could I switch to a diet that was completely different than what I had been on in the past? It seemed impossible.
I had always hated exercise in the past but after my brush with death I finally decided to knuckle under. I started my walking program on my mother's birthday in July of 2007 by walking across the room. Every day I walked across the room more often and then I pushed further. The first time I got on the treadmill I made 20 minutes and thought I was going to die. I sat on the edge of the steps with sweat pouring off of me and my muscles quivering and hurting. I was dizzy, weak, depressed, and out of of breath and glumly told my son and hubby I could only do 20 minutes. I was ready to throw in the towel but their response surprised me. They both said, "WOW!! You made an entire 20 minutes!!!" I looked at their faces and realized how much I meant to them and made up my mind then and there that I would do this. I'm very stubborn and when I decide to do something nothing will stop me. Within a couple of weeks I made it to a minimum of 12,500+ steps a day and have managed that most day unless I am ill. My husband made me a walking path through our woods that is almost a mile long and I love it. On some days I have done 15,000 to 20,000 and more. The most steps I have done is a little over 27,000.
Walking and the new diet changed my life. I felt 20 years younger after only a few days on the new regimen. My severe hypoglycemic attacks stopped. Many of my medical conditions went into remission. Some were cured. I'm down to one BP pill a day with good control.
I didn't get really serious about my diet until May of 2008 when I joined Sparkpeople though. I explored the site and learned a lot from successful dieters. I made some fantastic friends. I learned to use the food and fitness trackers. Within a couple of months I finally chose to do a modified South Beach as my son liked it the most of the diets we considered and I could adapt it to stay on my M.D. prescribed diet. We bought the book and committed to doing it right. We weren't too fond of Phase 1 but we made it without cheating and he lost 13 pounds and I lost 10 during the first phase. We were hooked and he continued to lose steadily until he reached goal after losing 120 pounds. I have a long way to go to reach my goal but I know I can do it.
In no way has my journey been easy. I have tweaked my diet and exercise program for months on end and endured endless plateaus. I've cheated and been discouraged. I've had setbacks. I got pneumonia again in 2013 and had to go back on more meds. I've regained weight. I've pushed myself to my limits but I have never given up. I finally faced the facts and left my denial behind and tried what I knew would work for me and it does work. I have come a long way from being in a wheelchair.
If I can do it from where I started then I know you can do it too. I want you to live a long healthy life and be there for your family and friends. I hope you will join me in making your dreams a reality.
Thank you for coming to my site. Feel free to leave a comment or email me if you would like to. Tell me about you, your family, your home, and your weight loss challenges. I would love to hear from you. I always have room on my swing for another friend.
I have attained many of my past goals but I am always making new ones. I want to constantly be moving toward a healthier lifestyle. I want to learn something new every day that will benefit me or my family. I want to try a new recipe at least once a week.I want to reach my goal weight.
I am walking at least 12,500 steps a day. I do yard work every day. I read lots of healthy articles. I try new foods. I cook most of my meals at home.
I read mostly nonfiction books and magazines, like gardening books or books on different science related subjects. I like Rock and Gem, Astronomy, Birds and Blooms and cooking magazines, especially healthy ones and Taste of Home and it's sister magazines. I have many favorite movies like North By Northwest, The Wizard of Oz, The Addams Family, Indiana Jones, Trading Places, Bladerunner, McClintock. etc.
Those people who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. - Isaac Asimov
I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do, because I notice it always coincides with their own desires. - Susan B. Anthony
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
Secrets of Success
Well if there's one thing one can gain from being a patient at MDA it's "Patience". Everything seems to operate under the principle of "Hurry Up & Wait"...
You learn to bring your own reading material, scavenge the book racks scattered everywhere throughout the facility, or (in years past, haven't seen this particular volunteer cart lately) pick up a mini arts n' crafts project from the volunteer staff. I made several needlepoint Xmas ornaments, bookmarks, even a reading glasses case for my mom over the years.
7 days ago
it reminds me of that new movie called The Secret Life Of Pets. my Buster would be the one on the counter with the blender scratching his back, he's always scratching his back against things
7 days ago
Thank you for reading and commenting on my blog, "Starting Over Is Not A Bummer." Have a great day!
"The best way you can predict your future is to create it."
8 days ago
I do know some people who went on to have successful lives after Vietnam but they mostly died before their time because of the blasted Agent Orange.My dear friend in North Carolina just lost her husband to cancer 2 years ago and he was in Vietnam he never spoke much about it but was an awesome Dad & Father and I had another friend who lost her husband really young to brain cancer it came on suddenly and he was gone within 3 months .SO they could not win for losing it go them one way or another.
8 days ago
Some people die so young and never even have a chance at a life. Sorry to hear about your best friend.
9 days ago