Hi ya I see you have just joined the break 200 club . welldone and welcome you will find everyone their so supportive and we have just celebrated our first member breaking the 200lbs barrier , why not pop in and say hi to everyone .
Welcome to SparkPeople. I have a toddler too and have found this very helpful because it motivates me to do things, and journal. I am also able to plan out the day in advance according to my needs/desires and yet keep it within range. It shouldn't take you 6 yrs to lose your weight!!! Maybe 2 or 3 at the most but you will start to feel and look better soon! Keep at it and Good Luck!!! 3742 days ago