Hi! Welcome to the 50+ Team! We're glad you joined us. I just read your e-mail and your comment about being married to a wonderful man who accepts you unconditionally really rings true to me also. My guy, who I met 8 years ago never says a word about the fact that I gained 50 lbs since meeting him! He just keeps loving me. And I totally agree - it's great to have the support but sometimes I wish he'd give me a kick in the butt.
You can do this. Stay strong, stay focused. You will succeed!