Welcome to SparkPeople! You will be hard-pressed to find a more supportive group of people on the Internet, especially with such a sensitive subject as weight loss. Please feel free to check out my SparkPage and add me as a friend if you'd like! Also, congratulations on your little miracle! I was told I would not be able to conceive without fertility drugs, so my son was a wonderful surprise to us, too! He is now 18 months old. I have about 40 pounds left to lose to be at my goal weight. Best of luck in your journey and feel free to call on me if you need support! We're all here to help each other!