Thanks for the goodie and the kind words. If only getting a haircut wasn't a trigger lately too. Sigh. I'm going to find the list through my 2 health insurances and go from there. It's just been a tough year so far.
I guess I put the sentence there wrong. There are only two of us siblings and my sister did something really stupid that even upset my dad, that's hard to do. Both his parents died in the last 5 years and because of things his dad did or didn't do, the estate was a mess and my parents ended up paying for it in the end. His brother was alive when his dad died, but then died 6 months later, making it harder for the estate. Having gone through that is what I think prompted him to start writing up a list for the end of life. He's got probably 10-20 more years (unless he does live like his parents, then he has at least 30).