“When she transformed into a butterfly, the caterpillars spoke not of her beauty, but of her weirdness. They wanted her to change back into what she always had been. But she had wings.” ~ Dean Jackson ~
Let's face it. Most people think the world revolves around themselves, no matter how much they say otherwise. So that thing they said/did that hurt you/offended you/made you look dumb... they might have a slight consideration of how it would make you feel/look. But ultimately, their feelings superceded yours, so that's why it happened. So, stop dwelling on it/crying about it/getting upset about it...because it happened. You can't change it. But you can definitely do something about it. Stop being stupid and start being awesome.