Jill, thank you for commenting on my grandchildren. It is hard to keep up with everyone so please do not worry about that. You also have gone through so much and I know it is difficult to exercise and try to lose weight when you are in pain. Just take baby steps and don't overdue it. I am very lucky that my Psychologist is fantastic. She believes stress, anxiety and depression does play a role and wears down the body. I go see my family doctor tomorrow so we shall see what he says. If he thinks I can go back to work, I will have him call my Psychologist because she believes I am not ready and should be out longer. We shall see.
Best wishes for you and let's keep better in touch. Remember we can do it!!