I hope things are going well! I LOVE your statements about the difference between good health and fitness, vs. some "ideal" body weight. You are so right! Actually, the science of fitness is coming around, gradually, to this realization. Many overweight or overfat people are fitter and more healthy than their skinny but out-of-shape counterparts. Yes, indeed. It's all about health and loving ourselves. We can be healthy and happy at any weight, if we just allow ourselves to invest in our health and be happy with who we are.
It has taken me many years to figure this out, Annie. It makes my heart sing to know that you, as a young thing, have this all figured out! You will have a much happier life through your thirties and forties than I did, my sister. I am so happy for you!