Just starting out, I would say, just track what you would normally eat and make small changes each week. Like cut out sugar soda and juice one week, mindless snacks the next, etc. etc. Start walking and you can increase the intensity of your exercise as you go on. Definitely take advantage of SP's trackers and blogs! They are the best things about this site!
And remember that there is no thing as a wagon. There is no on/off switch. We're all in this for life. We're going to eat pizza and unhealthy things, and that's OK! Finding a balance is what makes things work.
¸.*¨¸.´¸.*¨) ¸.*¨) (¸.´ (¸.´ (¸.´¸¸.¨¸♥¨`*,¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. ¸.♥´ .´¨¨ ¸´¸.´¨Welcome to the EE team!! Ive belonged to a lot of teams here on spark-- i really do believe that the Emotional Eaters team is one of the very best, its a great group of people- very supportive and encouraging-- and it is very refreshing to talk with people who "get" what you're going through!! ¸¸.¨¸♥¨`*,¸.*´¨`* .¸♥.*¸.´¸.*¨¸.*¨¸.´¸.*¨) ¸.*¨) Check out the main page of the EE team- there are stickied topics you may be interested in to get involved- a buddy thread, a place to introduce yourself, weigh-in challenge, a birthday post. ¸.*¨¸.´¸.*¨(¸.´ (¸.´ (¸.´¸¸.¨¸♥¨`*,¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. ¸.♥´ .´¨¨ ¸´¸.´¸.*¨)¸¸.´ ..-~'¸.*¨) Spark has a lot of great tools, and you will learn which ones work best for you. The best tools are the people tho, always willing to lend a hand, an ear, or a shoulder. Ive been here for over a year now, and I still am overwhelmed, every day, by the kindness and goodness of others on this team!! That has made a world of difference for me. I hope you have the same success! ¸¸.¨¸♥¨`*,¸.*´¨`* .¸♥.*.*¨¸.´¸.* (¸.´ (¸.´ ♥¸.´¸¸. (¸.´ (¸.*¨ (¸.¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. You are- WONDERFUL-cuz youre you!!! BELIEVE IT!!! operationbeautiful-- END THE FAT TALK!!! ¸.*¨¸.´¸.*¨(¸.´ (¸.´(¸.´¸¸.¨¸♥¨`*,¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. (¸.¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. ~~best of luck to you on all of your goals!!! (¸.¸.*´¨`* .¸♥. 2366 days ago
You and I are on a very similar mission. I too am a stay at home, but for 2 years. I too have lost myself and am trying to find myself. I know some days are really hard, but if you are looking for some support, I am up for a new friend along this journey.