I just finished reading what you wrote on Done Girls site. I know how you feel that you may not get a lot a feed back from other members. Believe me - there are so many, like myself, that would luv to be a friend here on Spark People. I belong to a few sites but my very favorite is "Just Looking To Fit In". There are a really great bunch of people I definitely call Friends. Stop on over we would luv to show you some Spark Luv!!