I saw your "feeling lonely and upset" post - honey, we've all been there and still visit sometimes.
For a species that revels in individuality - we are no better than any other species on the planet - we still like to travel in packs for safety and comfort.
SparkPeople is your new pack. We are always here, 24/7, all you need to do is come online and start cruising the spark pages when you feel bored and lonely. It helped me through the early, rough days and it can help you too.